Men feel just because they are male, they are the ultimate sex machine, they assume that once they penetrate their partner and make a few thrusts, the job is done.
Sorry to burst your bubbles guys, it takes much more than penetration and a few thrusts to please a woman sexually.
In fact, there are so many ways to send a woman to seventh heaven without even penetrating her, but then how many men care enough to ask their partner how she will like to be pleased?
Well, for the sake of my fellow gender, I feel the need to share a few tips.
Let’s start with foreplay: men please stop assuming that just because you feel like sex, your partner should also be ready!!
We are wired differently! Take time to kiss touch and suck your partner in the appropriate places till she’s literally begging you to “come in”. When you invest time in foreplay, the sex is always more passionate and fun.
I know that just like eating, sometimes there might not be time for a complete meal, so you take a snack, but you can’t make that a habit, you need a full meal to function properly, and the same goes for sex.
Don’t neglect the breast: most women have sensitive nipples and like to have their breasts sucked, so please don’t deny us this right. The longer the better, but please, no biting or chewing!
Fingering: hmm…this is a serious one! It’s it’s not how hard or how fast most women prefer when you use your fingers to play around the labia and on the clitoris, and if you must slide it in, make sure it’s with gentle slow strokes.
Kissing: this can actually make love making very passionate if done between two people who actually enjoy kissing.
Oral sex: this is a very pleasurable exercise for both partners, most women derive pleasure in this but some don’t indulge because of inhibitions, which could be theirs or their partner’s. Having said that if you are willing to receive, you should be willing to give.
Ask: as much as what I’ve mentioned above may apply to most women, it may not apply to some. It is important to ask your partner what she wants and how she wants it.
Have a fun-filled weekend.
The Eagle Online
Tonto Dikeh: Police give reasons for arrest, detention of Prince Kpokpogiri
Police authorities at the Force headquarters in Abuja have described as false, the insinuation that Prince Kpokpogiri Joseph, the estranged lover of Popular Nollywood star, Tonto Dikeh was arrested at Trandcorp Hilton Hotel Abuja because she has a connection with the DIG in charge of Force Criminal Intelligence and Investigation Bureau, DIG Joseph Egbunike.
Rather, Prince Kpokpogiri who is currently facing a pending investigation at Force CID was said to have bypassed Police authorities, went and hired 2 police officers attached to Maitsma Police station, took them to Transcorp Hotel and threatened to open fire at Tonto Dikeh if she did not hand over the keys of an SUV to him, Kpokpogiri.
Vanguard investigation showed that in the early hours of Tuesday 19, October 2021, at about 12.30 am, Prince Kpokpogiri took his driver and two policemen and went to Transcorp Hilton.
“They blocked a vehicle that was packed there and stayed till 6 am. Kpokpogiri’s driver said he gave the keys to the vehicle to Tonto Dikeh but Prince Kpokpogiri alleged the car was stolen.
In the confusion and argument that ensued, one of the policemen allegedly pointed his gun on the head of Tonto Dikeh, prompting the Security team at Transcorp to alert the Inspector General of Police.
At that point the IGP, Usman Alkali Baba directed the DIG in charge FCIIB to look into the matter. DIG Egbunike subsequently deployed the Commissioner of Police in Charge Administration at Force CID, CP Umar Sanda and some police operatives to the scene.
At the scene, Prince Kpokpogiri was said to have become violent and was allegedly raining insults and curses on the Police officers while all entreaties for him to calm down failed.
Consequently, when DIG Egbunike was briefed about the conduct of Prince Kpokpogiri, he ordered the arrest of the Prince and the policemen that the prince came with.
Vanguard was told that his arrest is to enable him to regain his sanity after which he would be questioned on the issue about ownership or otherwise on the vehicle in question.
DIG Joseph Egbunike confirmed the arrest to Vanguard saying, “Yes, I called my CP Sanda Umar, CP Administration who despatched officers to arrest them. He (Kpokoogiri) became insulting and uncontrollable. I ordered his detention to enable him to calm down. Besides, he has a pending petition against him which CP Sanda Umar is investigating.”
It would be recalled that Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh had earlier dragged Prince Kpokpogri to the police headquarters, accusing him of extortion, blackmail and threat to life.
A petition written by her lawyer and dated 10 September 2021 demanded a police probe of the politician/lover for a variety of allegations, including criminal defamation, hacking, cyberstalking, and obtaining by false pretences.
The petition read: “Our client has reasons to believe that Kpokpogri Joesph had planted a closed-circuit television camera (CCTV) at private areas of his residence and staged-managed those visits with the aim of blackmailing our client.
“She was surprised when sometime in August the said Joseph started demanding for the sum of five million naira from her and threatened to expose her nude pictures and other such document relating to her if refuses to pay.
“To actualize this demand, the said Kpokpgri started sending messages, documents and files containing sensitive information and materials relating to our clients to her phone while releasing some to the public.
“Our client believes that Joesph hacked her phone and illegally obtained private conversations she had with a third party which he, Joesph Kppkpogri then caused to be released to the public on or about the 6th day of September 2021.
“Our client has been receiving series of threats phone calls which she believes are being orchestrated by the said Kpokpogri.
“On or about the 7th day of September 2021, our client received a phone call from this line 09038727436 which threatened her that if she writes anything against the said Kpokpgri, they will kill her; that they know where her son is schooling and every other detail about her.
“By reason of the above, we urge you to use your good office to cause a detailed investigation into the above facts with a view to bringing Joseph Kpokpgri to book.”
Tonto and Kpokpogri are said to have parted ways over allegations he was cheating on her.
Tiwa Savage speaks on leaked sex video
Award-winning singer Tiwa Savage has reacted to her leaked short sex video weeks after she claimed someone was trying to blackmail her with the video.
Hours after the video was eventually leaked on Monday night, October 18, 2021, the songwriter took to her Instagram stories to react to the video.
“You hated how I was able to control the narrative and get ahead of the story before it consumed me and how I’m able to joke on stage about something you thought should destroy me and make me feel ashamed,” she wrote.
Continuing, the Universal Music Group recording music act owned up to having a sex video with her boyfriend leaked saying she won’t be cowed in to blackmail. “You must knock my head when you see me otherwise. Gistloversblog with my full chest.”
The video has since set a fresh frenzy on social media platforms.
Tiwa is one of the trending topics from Nigeria, in Lagos, and some other parts of the globe.
In an earlier interview with a U.S-based radio station, Tiwa had said the video was mistakenly posted on snapchat but later deleted.
“So what happened was the person did it on Snapchat and he posted the tape by accident and deleted it but someone caught it.”
She went ahead to confirm the sex video saying she is aware of the implications it might cause her, stating “It’s a tiny clip but it’s me and it’s going to be out there forever. There are probably going to be memes.”
I’m giving all my love to my dog- Erica
BBNaija ex-housemate Erica has disclosed that she will be showering all her endearment to her pet dog.
The ex-BBNaija season in a post declared she had decided to give the entirety of her love to her dog.
The Star girl opined that most human beings are incapable of acknowledging and cherishing good people which is what informed her decision.
She wrote, “I’m giving all my love to my dog. Most humans don’t appreciate good people.”
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