‘Privacy Is Peace to Me’ – Baba Ijesha’s Wife Abiodun Tokunbo Finally Speaks Out
LAGOS, Nigeria – For years, Abiodun Folashade Tokunbo watched from the shadows as her husband, Nollywood actor Olanrewaju Omiyinka – better known as Baba Ijesha – dominated headlines for both his craft and his controversies. Through it all, she remained silent, private, and deliberately out of the public eye. Now, for the first time, she is explaining why.
In a heartfelt Instagram post that has since gone viral, the fashion entrepreneur and Chief Executive Officer of House of Luminee finally broke her silence on her marriage to the embattled actor, revealing that privacy is peace to me – a philosophy she has held onto throughout their relationship. The revelation comes days after Baba Ijesha announced the birth of their son, King Kagar Omiyinka, a moment that prompted Tokunbo to reflect on their journey together and share a glimpse into their private world.
Tokunbo took to Instagram to share a photograph documenting her journey with the actor over the years. She accompanied the image with a powerful message expressing gratitude despite the challenges they have faced together. “Before and After. Aanu Ni! Oju ri! But Anu speaks. This right time to fly together. Privacy is peace to me,” she wrote. Her words resonated deeply with followers who had no idea the couple had been together for over a decade. The post marked the first time Tokunbo publicly acknowledged her relationship with the actor, ending years of speculation about his personal life.
Tokunbo’s comments came shortly after Baba Ijesha announced that the couple had welcomed a baby boy together. On Monday, the actor took to social media to share the good news, introducing their child as King Kagar Omiyinka. He also showered praises on Tokunbo, describing her as “my ever beautiful wife, strong Jagaban.” The announcement surprised many followers, as neither Baba Ijesha nor Tokunbo had publicly disclosed a romantic relationship before now. The couple had deliberately kept their relationship away from public scrutiny, a decision Tokunbo now explains was essential to her peace of mind and overall well-being. Tokunbo revealed that the newborn is their first child together after 12 years, referencing her daughter in earlier remarks. However, it remains unclear whether the couple had been together for over 12 years. Actor and filmmaker Yomi Fabiyi, a longtime ally of Baba Ijesha, appeared to confirm the news when he shared a video of the couple and congratulated them on the birth.
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The birth announcement comes nearly seven months after Baba Ijesha regained his freedom following the completion of a prison sentence imposed after his conviction in a child sexual assault case. Monday’s announcement marks one of the most significant personal developments the actor has publicly shared since leaving prison and signals a new chapter in his private life, even as public discussions around his conviction continue. Baba Ijesha was convicted in July 2022 for the sexual assault of a minor and sentenced to five years in prison. He completed his sentence earlier in 2026 and has since been attempting to rebuild his career and personal life. The birth of his son with Tokunbo marks a fresh start for the actor, who has largely stayed out of the public eye since his release.
Abiodun Folashade Tokunbo, the woman behind the actor’s quiet personal life, is a force in her own right. She hails from Ijesha Isu, Ekiti State, where she was born as the sixth daughter in a family of eight. She attended Hosanna Africa Primary School before proceeding to Methodist Girls High School for her secondary education. She later obtained a National Diploma in Banking and Finance from The Polytechnic, Ibadan, and earned a Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration from Lagos State University. She launched her fashion brand, House of Luminee, in 2013, shortly after completing her final examinations at LASU. Her big break came when Nollywood actress Mercy Aigbe discovered one of her designs online and reached out to the model featured in the post. Since then, she has built a notable presence in the Nigerian fashion space, working with A-list celebrities including Mercy Aigbe, Shola Shobowale, Ini Edo, Queen Silekunola Ogunwusi, Mide Martins, Mercy Johnson, and others. Today, House of Luminee is recognized as one of Lagos’s premier fashion houses, known for its elegant and sophisticated designs. Tokunbo has built a reputation for excellence in the industry, earning the respect of colleagues and clients alike.
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The couple’s decision to keep their relationship private has sparked widespread curiosity. While Baba Ijesha has been a public figure for decades, Tokunbo remained firmly in the background, never appearing at red-carpet events or granting interviews about her personal life. Her Instagram post now offers a rare glimpse into their relationship, showing that they have weathered storms together – both professional and personal. The phrase “Oju ri” (meaning “we have seen it all” in Yoruba) suggests a shared history of trials and triumphs, while “Aanu ni” (meaning “it is mercy”) reflects gratitude for how far they have come.
The couple’s announcement drew widespread attention online, largely because they had deliberately kept their relationship away from public scrutiny over the years. Fans and followers have since reacted with congratulations and admiration for the couple’s milestone. Many praised Tokunbo for her grace and discretion, while others expressed surprise at the revelation. “Finally, we know the woman behind the man. Congratulations to you both,” one follower wrote. Another commented: “Privacy is indeed peace. Wishing you both all the best with your new baby.”
The public acknowledgment of his marriage and the birth of his son could mark a turning point for Baba Ijesha as he seeks to rebuild his public image. While his conviction and imprisonment left a stain on his reputation, his recent personal milestones suggest a man attempting to move forward. Tokunbo’s public support and the announcement of their child together present a narrative of redemption and new beginnings. However, it remains to be seen whether the actor can fully rehabilitate his career in an industry where public perception often determines success.
As Abiodun Tokunbo and Baba Ijesha embark on this new chapter together, her words ring true: “This right time to fly together.” After years of secrecy, the couple has chosen to share their joy with the world, even as they maintain the privacy that Tokunbo holds dear. For Tokunbo, the decision to keep her marriage private was never about shame or secrecy – it was about protecting her peace. And now, with her son in her arms and her husband by her side, she is ready to embrace the future with gratitude and grace.
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