What women really want in bed, by Tiwa Says

Men feel just because they are male, they are the ultimate sex machine, they assume that once they penetrate their partner and make a few thrusts, the job is done.

Sorry to burst your bubbles guys, it takes much more than penetration and a few thrusts to please a woman sexually.

In fact, there are so many ways to send a woman to seventh heaven without even penetrating her, but then how many men care enough to ask their partner how she will like to be pleased?

Well, for the sake of my fellow gender, I feel the need to share a few tips.

Let’s start with foreplay: men please stop assuming that just because you feel like sex, your partner should also be ready!!

We are wired differently! Take time to kiss touch and suck your partner in the appropriate places till she’s literally begging you to “come in”. When you invest time in foreplay, the sex is always more passionate and fun.

I know that just like eating, sometimes there might not be time for a complete meal, so you take a snack, but you can’t make that a habit, you need a full meal to function properly, and the same goes for sex.

Don’t neglect the breast: most women have sensitive nipples and like to have their breasts sucked, so please don’t deny us this right. The longer the better, but please, no biting or chewing!

Fingering: hmm…this is a serious one! It’s it’s not how hard or how fast most women prefer when you use your fingers to play around the labia and on the clitoris, and if you must slide it in, make sure it’s with gentle slow strokes.

Kissing: this can actually make love making very passionate if done between two people who actually enjoy kissing.

Oral sex: this is a very pleasurable exercise for both partners, most women derive pleasure in this but some don’t indulge because of inhibitions, which could be theirs or their partner’s. Having said that if you are willing to receive, you should be willing to give.

Ask: as much as what I’ve mentioned above may apply to most women, it may not apply to some. It is important to ask your partner what she wants and how she wants it.

Have a fun-filled weekend.

#tiwa_says.

The Eagle Online