Why oral sex by couple is no sin – Apostle Suleman

Why oral sex by couple is no sin – Apostle Suleman

Apostle Johnson Suleman, the general overseer of Omega Fire Ministries International, has sparked debate after declaring that oral sex between a husband and wife is not sinful.

The cleric made the comment during a question-and-answer session at a church service, though it is unclear when the service took place. A video of his remarks surfaced on YouTube on 22 August 2025.

During the session, a woman — believed to be in her 50s — asked, “Daddy, Sir, is oral sex a sin?” Mr Suleman, popularly called “Daddy” by members of the congregation, chuckled before responding.

“Should I answer from the Bible?” he asked, as the audience urged him to speak. “Anything you do with your wife indoors is not a sin. So long as she’s your wife and both of you agree to do it, (it is not a sin),” he said.

Some congregants murmured at his response, but Mr Suleman continued:“I can show you (from the Bible). When the Bible was talking about the wife of your youth, it was talking about ‘go within thy walls, let thy hands pass through her cisterns.’ What do you think the Bible was saying? So long as it is not fetish, a ritual, it is not diabolic, (it is not a sin).”

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He also dismissed claims that oral sex is inappropriate because the mouth is used to pray. “Don’t you use the same mouth to gossip? Don’t you use the same mouth to tell lies?” he asked in Pidgin English.

Anticipating backlash, the preacher said he was unfazed. “Save your home, save your home,” he told worshippers, urging couples not to deny their spouse’s request for sex.

While Mr Suleman insisted the practice is permissible in marriage, health specialists have long cautioned against it. Oral sex — also known as orogenital sex — involves using the mouth, lips or tongue to stimulate a partner’s genitals or anus.

Adegboyega Fawole, a gynaecologist at the University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital, warned in 2017 that it could expose people to Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) infections in the mouth, raising the risk of HPV-related oral cancers. The virus is also linked to cervical cancer, genital warts and anal cancer.

Similarly, Bamidele Mutiu, a consultant microbiologist at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, explained in a 2021 interview that organisms causing sexually transmitted diseases survive in genital secretions and are not destroyed by saliva.

Why oral sex by couple is no sin – Apostle Suleman

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