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General Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida (IBB) and late wife, Maryam

How I met my late wife, Maryam, converted her to Islam – IBB

Former Nigerian military president, General Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida (IBB), has opened up about his love story with his late wife, Maryam Babangida, including her conversion to Islam.

This revelation comes from his newly released autobiography, A Journey in Service, which offers an intimate look into their life together.

The book, officially launched on Thursday alongside a fundraiser for the Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida Presidential Library, provides captivating details about their early romance, marriage, and shared experiences.

Babangida fondly recounted meeting Maryam, formerly known as Maria Okogwu, during their youthful days while residing at the unmarried officers’ quarters on Kanta Road, Kaduna.

Their bond blossomed from friendship into a lifelong partnership, marked by love, resilience, and mutual respect.

He described being captivated by her beauty, calling her “stunning” with an enchanting smile.

Their bond endured despite his military training abroad in India and the UK, and he often visited her at the home of his close friend and cousin, Garba Duba.

At 28, after surviving a near-death experience in battle, Babangida decided to settle down.

While recovering from a chest injury at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, he reflected on his relationships and realized he wanted to marry Maryam.

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He said, “I had settled on Maria as the woman I would wed before being discharged from the hospital, and as soon as I was discharged, I made my way to Kaduna, where she lived with her mother and uncle. I was anxious to share the good news with her: I had decided we were destined for a life together. I admired her greatly for her reserved nature and the fact that she was well brought up.

“I wanted to make my intentions known to her and was determined not to accept No for an answer. Fortune favours the bold, and it smiled upon me; I counted and still count myself lucky. Initially, Maria was highly sceptical of me as marrying material.

“She knew that I had a track record of being something of a man about town, and those were not the qualities she wanted in a husband. She was unconvinced of my capacity to be serious, and many people said as much to her.”

Babangida revealed that faith played a central role in his life, and he required Maryam to convert to Islam before they married.

According to him, this was not difficult for Maryam, who had both Christian and Muslim family influences.

“I shared with her the fact that my faith was an integral and essential part of my life and that I would require her to convert to Islam.

“Praise be to Allah; this was not a difficult decision for Maria. Being part-Christian and part-Muslim at birth and already living in a Muslim household, it was never going to be wholly uncharted territory for her.

“She adapted with relative ease to married life as a Muslim,” he stated.

Babangida also assured her he would not take multiple wives, a decision he believed contributed to their strong marriage.

The couple married on September 6, 1969, and had four children—Aisha, Muhammad, Aminu, and Halima.

Maryam died from ovarian cancer in Los Angeles on December 27, 2009, at 61.

Babangida admitted that coping without her had been difficult but said memories of their life together had provided solace.

How I met my late wife, Maryam, converted her to Islam – IBB

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Gunmen Attack Wedding in Kaduna, Kill 13, Abduct Several Guests

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Commissioner of Police in Kaduna State is CP Muhammad Rabiu

Gunmen Attack Wedding in Kaduna, Kill 13, Abduct Several Guests

Suspected bandits have attacked a wedding ceremony in Kahir village, located in Kagarko Local Government Area, killing at least 13 people and abducting an unspecified number of guests.

The incident occurred late Sunday night in Kaduna State when heavily armed assailants reportedly stormed the venue and opened fire on attendees gathered for the celebration.

Eyewitness accounts indicate that the attackers arrived at about 11:47 p.m., shooting indiscriminately inside the wedding hall and causing widespread panic. A resident, Shehu Bala, said some guests sustained gunshot injuries during the assault.

According to reports, the gunmen operated for nearly an hour without resistance, leaving several casualties in their wake.

Injured victims were initially taken to Kagarko General Hospital, while those with critical injuries were later transferred to medical facilities in Kaduna for advanced treatment.

A community leader confirmed that 13 people lost their lives in the attack and have since been buried. He added that efforts are ongoing to ascertain the exact number of those abducted by the assailants.

The attackers were also said to have looted shops within the community, carting away food items, provisions, and drugs from a local chemist during the raid.

“The entire community was thrown into panic due to the heavy gunfire, forcing many residents to flee into nearby bushes,” the community leader said.

Police authorities in Kagarko have confirmed the incident but stated that investigations are still ongoing, particularly regarding the number of abducted victims. The spokesperson of the Kaduna State Police Command, DSP Hassan Mansur, also confirmed the attack, noting that a comprehensive report would be released upon conclusion of investigations.

Meanwhile, the Deputy Governor of Kaduna State, Dr Hadiza Sabuwa Balarabe, alongside a serving senator, visited injured victims receiving treatment at the hospital in Kagarko.

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MURIC Commends Police, DSS Over Ikorodu Religious Tension

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Executive Director of MURIC, Professor Ishaq Akintola

MURIC Commends Police, DSS Over Ikorodu Religious Tension

The Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC) has praised security agencies for averting a potential religious crisis in Ikorodu, Lagos State, following tensions between Muslim residents and traditional Oro worshippers.

In a statement issued on Monday, the group’s Executive Director, Ishaq Akintola, specifically lauded the Divisional Police Officer of Ebute Ipakodo Police Division and operatives of the Department of State Services (DSS) for their swift intervention.

The commendation followed an incident last week in which Oro worshippers in Ikorodu West reportedly imposed a curfew restricting movement from 10 p.m. on Thursday, March 26, to 12 noon on Friday, March 27. The restriction, according to MURIC, disrupted normal activities, particularly affecting Muslims observing Friday congregational prayers.

Akintola described the action as “illegal, illegitimate and unconstitutional,” arguing that no group has the authority to impose movement restrictions without the approval of the state government. He maintained that such actions contravene provisions of the Nigerian Constitution guaranteeing freedom of movement and worship.

He further stressed that only a state government, acting on security advice, could lawfully impose a curfew, warning that unilateral actions by any group could trigger a breakdown of law and order.

MURIC also criticised what it described as a pattern of “extremist” conduct by Oro adherents in Ikorodu, contrasting it with what it termed more moderate practices in other parts of Lagos State. The group urged traditional worshippers to exercise restraint and respect the rights of others while practicing their religion.

While affirming the constitutional right of traditionalists to worship, Akintola emphasised that such rights must not infringe on those of other citizens.

The group called on security agencies to remain vigilant, noting alleged threats by Oro worshippers to continue with similar activities. It also appealed to Muslims in Ikorodu and across Lagos State to remain law-abiding and avoid taking matters into their own hands.

MURIC warned that with the country approaching a sensitive election period, any form of unrest could be exploited by elements seeking to destabilise the peace, urging all parties to prioritise dialogue and coexistence.

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Blessing CEO Opens Up on Alleged Domestic Abuse, Explains Reason for Divorce

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Blessing CEO Opens Up on Alleged Domestic Abuse, Explains Reason for Divorce

Nigerian relationship coach and social media personality, Blessing Okoro, has revealed that domestic violence was a major factor behind the collapse of her marriage.

Speaking during an interview on With Chude, Blessing recounted a series of alleged abusive incidents involving her former husband, including claims that she was assaulted shortly before and on the day of their wedding.

According to her, the alleged abuse was not hidden, as it reportedly occurred in the presence of close friends and members of her bridal party. She stated that her chief bridesmaid and others who witnessed the incidents are still available to corroborate her account.

Blessing further alleged that one of the incidents occurred over a domestic disagreement, noting that she was beaten for not carrying out a household task.

Reflecting on the experience, she expressed regret over proceeding with the marriage despite what she described as clear warning signs, adding that her decision at the time has remained a difficult chapter in her life.

The relationship coach’s revelation has since sparked conversations on social media about domestic violence, particularly within intimate relationships, and the importance of recognizing and addressing early signs of abuse.

 

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