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‘I was chased around by men who ought to protect me at work’

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…Nkiru Balonwu, Ernest Ndukwe, US Ambassador, UNILAG Deputy VC, others discuss societal ill

•AWB CO-CHAIR: Junior lawyers degraded, used as conference materials

African Women on Board, AWB, is in the fore front of the campaign to activate ‘zero tolerance’ for sexual harassment, intimidation and bullying’ of women in workplace as a way of ending that aspect of the societal ill, especially in the legal and educational sectors across the globe.

The group took their campaign a notch higher during its launch held at the main hall of the Wing Towers, located at Ozumba Mbadiwe Avenue, Victoria Island, Lagos.

Tagged Safety in the Workplace, Focus on the Legal and Private Sectors, the event featured 20 discussants, including the Chairman, MTN, Dr. Ernest Ndukwe, Chairman, Nigeria Economic Summit Group, Mr. Asue Ighodalo, US Ambassador to Nigeria, Mary Berth Leonard, Deputy Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos, UNILAG, Professor Ayodele Atsenuwa, Dean Faculty of Law, UNILAG, Professor Ige Boladekun, a representative of German firm, Sigma, Mrs Adeola Azeez, and Founder, Legalnaija, Adedunmade Onibokun.

The Co- Chair and Founder of the group, Dr. Nkiru Balonwu, set the tone for deliberations when she presented a brief history of the group. According to her, she started AWB as a result of frustrations emanating from her being chased around by men who ought to protect her in her place of work.

Her words: “I started AWB out of frustrations. I was tired of being chased around tables, boardrooms and otherwise”.

She added that the situation became worse in 2015 when she left her job and established her own business.

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According to her, things got so bad that she started looking inwards in search of what she did or did not do that made her a target of harassment,

Balonwu pointed out that enquiries she made revealed that other women were also harassed, bullied and even abused sexually, but they chose not to speak up.

This, she said, promotes a culture of silence which, she noted, paves the way to gender based violence with its concomitant effects such as low productivity and in extreme cases death.

The Co-Chair disclosed that prior to the birth of the group, she realized that such a menace was not going to be tackled by some cults but by a formidable group.

Degraded

Balonwu noted the importance of safety at workplace for everyone, saying she knew about sexual harassment in the banking sector but was extremely shocked to find out in a research she conducted that the ugly trend is more severe in the legal sector where she said junior lawyers are degraded and used as conference materials. She explained that the situation is not peculiar to Nigeria, stressing the group’s decision to start with the legal and private sectors in Nigeria because, according to her, they present both unique challenges and wonderful opportunities to address them.

Balonwu thanked sponsors, especially the late Innocent Chukwuma, whom she described as a true ally that stood by AWB and supported them with initial funds.

A former Dean, Faculty of Law, University of Lagos, UNILAG, Professor Chioma Agomo, in her brief remark and a message from Deputy Vice Chancellor, UNILAG, Atsenuwa, said: “It is not just about saying no, it is about educating people about what is inappropriate behaviour so that behaviour itself doesn’t take place.”

Agomo explained that we must get to the root if we want to effect changes and that such changes must be reflected in our school curricula because, according to her, what we teach or learn, directly and indirectly in educational institutions, lays foundation for the way we function in the larger society.

The scholar noted that the legal profession is bedeviled by harassment and abuse due to the hierarchical nature of the profession, which emphasizes respect for seniority in the bar.

She revealed how issues of sexual harassment were always trivialized and swept under the carpet.

Citing her tenure as a Dean in UNILAG, she said, “Each time we had a case of sexual harassment to treat at UNILAG, the Senate kept postponing it”.

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She opined that the culture of females taking the responsibility of preventing such violence must be inculcated in them in schools.

Agomo frowned at the way senior lawyers harass the junior ones and advocated for a new culture that would end the culture of silence in sexual harassment, pointing out that prevention was as important as punishment.

On his part, Ndukwe said he was always shocked whenever he heard people talk about gender violence, especially at the workplace.

Speaking on the topic, Tripling the bottom line, workplace safety, culture, change and the private sector’, the MTN Chairman revealed that the GSM giant does not concentrate on making profit but also on other things that would enhance acceptance such as giving back to the society.

He noted that MTN attaches much importance to whistle blowing which, he said, was always handled at group level, where information gathered is investigated before appropriate sanctions are applied, where applicable.

He called on organizations to build a culture where everyone is treated equally, irrespective of gender.

In her contribution, Partner West Africa Representative, Sigma Risk, Azeez, told the story of her assignment to re-position a German firm in Nigeria, and how she excelled.

According to her, she had to face the challenge of the Nigerian factor and the organization’s zero tolerance policy against professional misconduct.

Convinced that indecent dressing could lead to sexual harassment, the Sigma top shot advised women to be mindful of the way they dress.

The Chairman, Nigeria Economic Summit Group, Ighodalo, in her own presentation, noted gender balance as a pre-requisite for the success of any organization, pointing out that gender imbalance started from the way mothers allocate house chores to children.

She stressed that women should be allowed things that would enable them perform optimally, everywhere they go.

Speaking on the way many women prefer male bosses to female ones, Ighodalo, who said she had always thought that women make good leaders, advised women to look inwards and see how they could make things easier for the younger ones preferably through mentorship.

Timely

In her contribution made virtually, US Ambassador to Nigeria, Leonard, said the event was timely and encouraged African women, particularly those of Nigeria’s extraction.

She highlighted cases of sexual harassment of women trying to build their careers across the globe and urged the group to pursue its objectives of safety for women and girls across the country, vigorously.

Chinyere Okorocha, Yemi Candide and Professor Ige spoke on a sub topic: Safety in the (legal) workplace: The role of educational institutions and professional bodies in laying the foundation.

Ige disclosed that UNILAG has a sexual harassment policy and students/lecturers code of conduct.

The audience was thrown into uncontrollable laughter when he stated that going by the institution’s policy on relationships, any staff who wanted to start a relationship with a colleague must register his or her intention with the VC.

This, according to him, was a way of showing transparency.

“If you are proud of the proposed relationship, make it public”, he said.

He recounted the commotion a law student once caused her family when she threatened to commit suicide if she was not passed a course she failed and allowed to proceed to Law School and how he advised the student to repeat the course, saying she took the advice and was already in Law School.

Ige attributed harassment suffered by students to the fact that institutions are transactional in their operations while students are not willing to take responsibility of reading to pass examinations.

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He added that some lecturers do not understand their positions, explaining that students, who go to beg lecturers to pass courses they failed, make themselves vulnerable.

Speaking from the point view of students and young lawyers, the President, Moot Court, Faculty of Law, UNILAG, Edidiong Umoh, highlighted the procedural aspect of the law in schools and recommended internship for second year students to enable them have an appreciable of idea of the real nature of law.

Okorocha, Partner and Head of Section, Jackson, Etti and Edu, said the entire process must start at home, stressing that jumping to the university would be counterproductive.

She spoke about a firm whose boss was in the habit of having female lawyers who come for interview climb a ladder to get him a law book from book shelf to sexually harass them, saying some senior lawyers make the junior female ones conference materials.

Candide, a Senior Partner at Strachan Partners, described such act as criminal, adding that another senior lawyer has a bed room next to his office for obvious reasons.

He called for appropriate sanctions on perpetrators and a total commitment of all in the fight against gender based violence

Another Senior Partner at Strachan Partners, Ifeoma Solanke, told the audience that what she was taught in school contributes to just about 40 percent of her performances at workplace, noting that what one sees in school is often different from what happens at workplaces. She advocated for a compulsory internship for second year law students across the country.

Responding to a question about what a young lawyer should consider before joining any organization, particularly law firms, the Managing Partner, Adekunmade Onibokun and Co and Founder, Legalnaija, Onibokun, frowned at the manner in which younger lawyers prefer high pay to key factors such as growth opportunity, the caliber of people managing firm and the culture of such an outfit which he regretted are often shrouded in secrecy.

Vice President, Association of Law Firm Administration in Nigeria, Miss Oduola Onodikpe, who also spoke at the occasion, emphasized the need for safety of women at workplace. She advocated for inclusion of women in policy making groups, noting that one of her association’s mandate was to enhance that.

Widow of the late Innocent Chukwuma, Josephine, expressed support for AWB, saying that was what her late husband would always do as he was passionate about everyone, especially women.

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Delta lady dies after 2 friends pushed her into pot of boiling pepper

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Roseline

Delta lady dies after 2 friends pushed her into pot of boiling pepper

A Nigerian man identified as Israel Joe, has revealed how his friend, Roseline, died after she was pushed into a boiling pot of fresh pepper and tomatoes by her two female friends in Sapele, Delta State.

Joe stated that Roseline, a caterer, went on a trip with her friends to Sapele for a catering job where she tragically passed away on Saturday, April 13.

In a Facebook post on Friday, Joe said that before her untimely death, Roseline confided in him about two of her friends who were treating her coldly.

He urged the Nigeria Police to investigate and arrest the killers of Roseline, pointing out that no progress has been made in the case since her murder.

Joe’s post read, “She was pushed into a big boiling pot of fresh pepper and tomatoes by her friend on Saturday, 13th April. She battled for about two weeks with her roasted/boiled body and finally ḍíęɗ last week Friday 26th April.

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“Nobody in the neighborhood in Otokutu knew Roseline had been allegedly kíIIed by these same friends. She was buried with no one to bid her goodbye and with no single bųríaI poster to honour her. Just two days in the morgue, the mørtųarƴ attendants demanded she be carried away to be buried.

“She traveled with them for a catering job in Sapele where they were speaking their local language with this Yoruba girl, Rozzy, not understanding their conversation.

“All of a sudden, she landed in a very big pot of boiling fresh pepper and tomatoes where they even still delayed in rescuing her. She was later rushed to Sage Hospital by Estate in Warri, where they managed the situation, but my friend couldn’t make it.”

Joe said he was pained that those responsible for her death were still walking free.

He added, “What pains me is that these two girls are still walking and gallivanting everywhere like nothing happened. I hate intimidation and oppression, especially against non-indigenous persons. The police must smoke them out so they can face the law. Na God dey help who nor get helper.

“We shall fight for Rozzy. You can not just be kíIIęɗ like a chicken and bųřried like an aŋímąl. Nobody deserves such a hørribIe dęąth. We never got to meet Rose, only chatting on Facebook due to endless busy schedules only to see you, at the most disgusting sight at Sage Hospital, hoping for your recovery, but dęąțĥ stole you Justice shall prevail, including if you would be exhumed.”

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My wife slept with our plumber, connived to dupe me — Man tells court

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My wife slept with our plumber, connived to dupe me — Man tells court

Grade A Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State has adjourned till June 3, further hearing in the divorce suit brought before it by a man, Ige, against his wife, Sikira, whom he accused of irresponsibility and infidelity.

Ige added that Sikira was a dupe.

According to Ige, Sikira lacked the ability to take proper care of him and their children and always carried out her duties towards them in a lackadaisical manner.

The plaintiff explained further that the defendant encouraged him to employ the service of a particular plumber when he was building his house, but unknowing to him, the man was her lover.

Ige stated that Sikira was having s3xual affair with the plumber on a regular basis while he was at work.

The plaintiff added that the defendant connived with the plumber to dupe him by adding extra amount to every item he bought when carrying out plumbing work at his site.

Ige said that Sikira eventually moved out of his house and went with all his property.

The plaintiff stated that he desired a fresh start and therefore wanted a clean cut from his wife, which was why he was in court.

The defendant denied all the allegations brought against her but gave in to divorce.

The defendant described the plaintiff as the pot calling the kettle black.

According to the defendant, the plaintiff was in the habit of drinking himself to stupour and beating her.

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She told the court how she caught her husband having sex with a teenager in their apartment.

Sikiral further explained that he once came back home drunk and that he beat and tore her clothes to shreds.

She added that he took the nude pictures of her and sent it to his girlfriend.

The defendant also said that the plaintiff’s girlfriend urged him to seek a way of afflicting the defendant with madness.

According to his girlfriend, it would cost just N200 to perpetrate the evil.

Ige gave his testimony, saying, “My lord, I came to court today because I want a clean cut from my wife.

“Sikira has ridiculed me enough. My life is also not safe with her.

“I met and fell in love with her, and went to her parents with my family to ask for her hand in marriage.

“I paid her bride price and provided all that her family demanded as marital rite.

“Sikara, after all I have spent, got to my house and started misbehaving.

“I realised after we got married that she lacked the ability to run a proper home.

“My wife was lackadaisical concerning my welfare and that of our children.

“The attention and dedication of a loving mother and wife was obviously missing in our lives.

“Sikirat preferred to be out all day than stay back home to keep me and our children company.

“My lord, I stopped trusting my wife a long time ago.

“Sikira is wicked and was unfaithful to me.

“She introduced a plumber to me when I was building my house, and I employed him to do the plumbing work.

“I never had an inkling that the man was her lover.

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“They were consistently having s3xual affair while I was away at work.

“Sikira went further to connive with this man to dupe me.

“She would ask him to add an amount to the items he purchased for the plumbing work and collect this from him.

“My wife made our home a hell to live in and also made my life miserable.

“She later left with all my property.

“My lord, I want to put my past behind me and start life afresh.

“I, therefore, pray that this court grant me a clean cut from my wife.

“My lord, I pray that you dissolve our marriage and grant me custody of our children, who she hardly showed affection towards.”

Sikira stated, “My lord, my husband is the pot calling the kettle black.

“All he said about me are lies.

“Ige is irresponsible. He was always drinking himself to stupour and punching me.

“I once caught him having sex with a teenager in our room.

“He once came back home drunk and, as usual, descended on me with punches.

“He went further to tear my clothes, took my nude pictures and sent them to his girlfriend.

“His girlfriend urged him to afflict me with madness.

“She told him it would only cost him N200 to do so.

“I did not pack out of his house. He threw my belongings out.

“I am also no longer willing to stay married to him.

“I pray that our marriage be dissolved.”

The court president, Mrs S.M Akintayo adjourned the case.

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Ex-FCMB manager sentenced to 121-year imprisonment

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Nwachukwu Placidus

Ex-FCMB manager sentenced to 121-year imprisonment

Justice S. N. Odili of the Anambra State High Court sitting in Onitsha, Anambra State, has convicted and sentenced a former manager with First City Monument Bank, FCMB, Onitsha branch, Nwachukwu Placidus, to a cumulative 121 years imprisonment.

A statement issued by the anti-graft agency on Saturday said Placidus bagged the jail term for diverting fixed deposit funds of a customer to the tune of N112,100,000 for his personal use.

He was arraigned on Tuesday, March 27, 2018 on 16-count charges bordering on forgery, stealing, obtaining by false pretence and uttering, by the Enugu Zonal Command of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC.

One of the counts reads: “Nwachukwu Placidus between February 2009 and November 2014 in Onitsha, Anambra State within the jurisdiction of the Anambra State High Court of Nigeria with intent to defraud obtained the sum of (N112,100,000) One Hundred and Twelve Million, One Hundred Thousand Naira only, from Idemili Microfinance Bank under the false pretence that you have placed the said money in a fixed deposit account with First City Monument Bank PLC for it, which pretence you knew to be false and you thereby committed an offence”.

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He pleaded not guilty to the charges when they were read to him, thus setting the stage for his trial.

In the course of trial, the EFCC, through its counsel, Mainforce Ekwu presented four witnesses and tendered several relevant documents which were admitted in evidence.

In his judgment, Justice Odili held that “the prosecution proved its case beyond reasonable doubt” and sentenced the convict to nine years imprisonment on count 3, 4 years on count 4 and 9 years on counts 5 to 16 respectively. He was discharged on counts 1 and 2. The sentences shall run concurrently.

The court further ordered the convict to restitute the said sum to his victim, Idemili Microfinance Bank.

Placidus ’journey to the Correctional Centre began when a petitioner , Idemili Microfinance Bank LTD, alleged that the sum of N112, 100, 000 was handed over to him as the branch manager of FCMB in Onitsha, for fixed deposit. However, when the petitioner approached the bank to terminate and withdraw the deposit, the bank denied receiving the said funds.

Upon receipt of the petition, the EFCC swung into action and investigations revealed that the convict diverted the money for his own use and issued a fake fixed Deposit Certificate to the petitioner.

Ex-FCMB manager sentenced to 121-year imprisonment

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