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Romantic soldier, corper met three years before NYSC camp – Family
The family of a youth corper simply identified as Remi, who proposed to a female soldier, Private Sofiyat Akinlabi, at the National Youth Service Corps Orientation Camp in Yikpata, Kwara State, has said that the duo started their friendship three years ago in Abeokuta, Ogun State.
According to the family member, Remi and Akinlabi’s friendship started in Abeokuta over three years ago before the latter joined the military.
The Nigerian Army had detained Akinlabi on December 14, 2021, when viral video clips showed her accepting the marriage proposal of Remi at the camp in Yikpata, Kwara State.
The lovebirds had shared a hug and kiss to the delight of other corpers at the Mammy market.
The Director of Army Public Relations, Brigadier General Onyema Nwachukwu, told our correspondent that Akinlabi’s action amounted to taking advantage of her trainee, noting that the public would have been outraged and accused the Army of coercion had a male soldier proposed to a female corper during NYSC parade.
He said, “The female soldier in question violated the following rules of the NA: fraternisation while on official duty at the NYSC camp. That is, indulging in an amorous relationship with a trainee. Personnel must have served for three years before he/she can qualify for marriage.”
Speaking on the condition of anonymity because of the nature of the matter, the close family member of the corps member told Saturday PUNCH that they had lost each other’s contact, but was surprisingly brought together by fate at the NYSC camp late November.
He said, “They have known each other before they got to camp. They met in Abeokuta over three years ago before she joined the Army but lost contact some time ago. Meeting at NYSC camp was like a reunion.
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“They have been friends all along and Remi thought it wise to seize the opportunity of their meeting again to propose to her. He had to walk up to her as a man and not worry about her new status as a soldier because she would eventually get married.
“He got the courage and proposed to her out with a ring which she accepted. The whole thing was totally a surprise to her.
“It happened after the passing out parade on December 14, 2021. She was at the Mammy Market pressing her phone, she was just on her own and she never knew something of such would happen.
“When he walked up to her, she was over joyous and dumbfounded at the same time. She is a lady and her reactions were triggered by emotions. Like men, women are still emotional beings no matter who they are.
“Remi was not holding any phone and did not record the moment. He didn’t post anything on social media and she didn’t also post it on social media. It was the fellow corpers around that did the posting on social media.”
Asked why Remi preferred Akinlabi, who is a soldier, the family source said, “He can’t explain his love for her because they so connected emotionally when they met again and he believes it is true love.”
The NYSC Director-General, Brig.-Gen. Ibrahim Shuaibu, had during a briefing in Abuja on December 21, 2021, said though the scheme “encourage(s) them to inter-marry, we have never had a situation where a corps member will go and propose (to a soldier).”
He added that the Army won’t joke with its traditions.
‘Romantic soldier may be sentenced to one-month punishment after trial’
Asked whether the soldier has been released, an impeccable military source, who craved anonymity because he was not allowed to speak on the matter, told Saturday PUNCH that Akinlabi would be tried in line with extant military laws.
The military source said upon trial, Akinlabi might be sentenced to one-month punishment.
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He said, “She will go through summary trial because the offence she committed is not a grievous offence that will attract court-martial.
“During her trial, if she is able to prove that she was not the one who did that (posted on social media), they might overlook it but if she had not violated the military laws by fraternising with the corper, that wouldn’t have happened.”
According to the military official, there is a law guiding soldiers and officers when it comes to marriage.
He said, “There is an extant provision in the harmonised terms and conditions of service for soldiers, ratings and airmen. The provision has been there for years. If you are a soldier, whether male or female, you are not allowed to marry in the first three years of your service.
“It is a law and it is not contestable because the first three years of service, you will be engaged as a soldier, you cannot marry. The law is there and all recruits are told at the point of joining the Armed Forces.
“Also, no soldier is allowed to marry before joining the force. Some people conceal their marriage status, but if it is known, they will charge you for perjury.
“Even after three years in service and you want to marry, you must write to your commanding officer, informing him that you want to get married and the commanding officer will make some enquiries. ‘This officer, this soldier, how is his/her way of life? Is he or she ready for marriage? If she/he marries, hope the marriage will not distract him/her from his military works?’
“When the commanding officer is convinced, he will approve it and then the soldier or officer will start his or her process of getting married.
“If an officer wants to get married to a soldier, one of them must leave the service, but an officer can marry an officer and a soldier can marry a soldier; there is no problem in that. Aside from that, an officer or a soldier, whether male or female, can marry any decent civilian.”
Family appeals
Meanwhile, the family source, who said Remi had been very devastated since the arrest of his lover, begged the military to release Akinlabi.
“We appeal to the Nigerian Army to tamper justice with mercy and release her. She is a woman and she has emotions. We don’t want her to be dismissed; we want her to continue her job in the military,” the source said.
In a related development, civil society organisations, including the Women Empowerment & Legal Aid, chaired by Funmi Falana, have called on the Chief of Army Staff, Lt. General Farouk Yahaya, to respect the decision of Akinlabi to accept Remi’s proposal.
She argued that no male soldier had been punished for proposing to a love interest in public as seen on social media.
She, therefore, declared as illegal, the detention of Akinlabi.
Also, two petitions on Change.org platform by activists Deji Adeyanju of Concerned Nigerians and Omoyele Sowore of Revolution Now have attracted over 10,000 signatures.
The petitioners shared photos of male soldiers proposing to their love interests in uniform on Facebook and called for the release of Akinlabi.
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Bandits Kill Two Abducted Victims After Collecting ₦6m Ransom in Niger State
Bandits Kill Two Abducted Victims After Collecting ₦6m Ransom in Niger State
KONTAGORA, Niger State — In another disturbing incident highlighting the worsening insecurity in parts of northern Nigeria, suspected bandits have reportedly killed two kidnapped residents despite collecting a ₦6 million ransom from their families.
The victims, identified as Anas and Sallama, popularly known as Babawo, were reportedly killed along Maidubu Road in Yamma Ward, Kontagora Local Government Area of Niger State.
The tragic development came after their families allegedly paid the kidnappers ₦6 million in an effort to secure their release.
The two victims were among eight residents abducted during a bandit attack in the area. Although some of the kidnapped persons were subsequently released, Anas and Sallama reportedly did not survive their ordeal.
Security expert Bakatsine disclosed the incident in a post on his official X account on Saturday, November 14, 2026.
According to the security analyst, the families of the victims had made efforts to negotiate with the kidnappers and secure the freedom of their loved ones.
However, despite the reported ransom payment, the armed men allegedly went ahead to kill the two captives.
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The incident has once again raised serious concerns over the activities of armed groups operating in Niger State and the growing dangers faced by residents in vulnerable communities.
The killing also underscores the helplessness of families caught in the grip of kidnapping gangs, who are often forced to raise huge sums of money in desperate attempts to rescue abducted relatives.
The fact that the victims were reportedly killed despite the payment of ransom further highlights the brutality of the perpetrators and the uncertainty surrounding ransom negotiations with criminal gangs.
As of the time of filing this report, there was no further official information on the circumstances surrounding the killings or whether security agencies had launched an operation to track down the perpetrators.
The Niger State Police Command had also not issued an official statement on the incident in the report that disclosed the killings.
Bandits Kill Two Abducted Victims After Collecting ₦6m Ransom in Niger State
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Zamfara Bloodbath: 53 Killed as Vigilantes Ambush Bandits After Kidnapping Spree
Zamfara Bloodbath: 53 Killed as Vigilantes Ambush Bandits After Kidnapping Spree
GUSAU, Zamfara State — No fewer than 53 people have reportedly been killed following a bloody gun battle between local vigilantes and suspected bandits in Zamfara State, in another grim reminder of the worsening security crisis in Nigeria’s North-West.
The deadly confrontation occurred on Thursday in Zoma village, Bukkuyum Local Government Area, after local vigilantes reportedly laid an ambush for an armed gang passing through the community.
The suspected bandits were said to have been travelling through the area after allegedly abducting several people from neighbouring Gummi Local Government Area.
Residents, who spoke to the Agence France-Presse (AFP), said the vigilantes had received information about the movement of the armed group and positioned themselves to intercept the attackers.
A traditional village chief, who requested anonymity for security reasons, said the ensuing exchange of gunfire left dozens of people dead on both sides.
According to him, 44 suspected bandits were killed, while nine vigilantes also lost their lives during the fierce confrontation.
The traditional ruler further claimed that a notorious bandit commander identified as Jijji, who allegedly led the earlier kidnapping operation, was among those killed.
Two other residents, Kabiru Tafida and Basiru Buhari, reportedly corroborated the account of the confrontation and the casualty figures.
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However, the reported death toll has not been independently verified, while the Zamfara State Police Command said it had yet to receive detailed information about the incident.
The development has renewed calls by residents for stronger government support for community-based security groups confronting heavily armed criminal gangs across the state.
One of the residents, Buhari, appealed to the authorities to provide vigilantes with adequate weapons and ammunition, warning that the bandits operating in the area were equipped with sophisticated firearms.
Zamfara remains one of the states worst affected by banditry in Nigeria’s North-West, with armed groups repeatedly attacking communities, abducting residents for ransom, rustling cattle and looting or burning properties.
The persistent violence has forced many rural communities to rely on local vigilante groups for protection amid concerns over the ability of conventional security agencies to contain the attacks.
The latest incident further highlights the worsening insecurity confronting communities in the region, particularly those in remote areas where poor telecommunications infrastructure often delays the reporting of violent attacks.
Zamfara Bloodbath: 53 Killed as Vigilantes Ambush Bandits After Kidnapping Spree
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“I Needed Money” – Blessing CEO Admits Faking Breast Cancer Diagnosis, Sparks Outrage
“I Needed Money” – Blessing CEO Admits Faking Breast Cancer Diagnosis, Sparks Outrage
Controversial Nigerian relationship influencer and self-acclaimed therapist, Blessing Okoro, popularly known as Blessing CEO, has triggered widespread outrage after reportedly admitting that her claims of battling breast cancer were false and that she fabricated the story because she needed money.
According to a report by Pinpoint News, the social media personality confessed that her emotional disclosure about having breast cancer was not genuine, explaining that financial difficulties influenced her decision.
Her reported admission has sparked angry reactions, particularly among Nigerians who had expressed sympathy and concern following her earlier claims about her health.
The development has also raised questions about the credibility of online fundraising appeals and the growing exploitation of public sympathy by social media personalities.
The controversy has attracted fierce criticism from social media users, many of whom described the alleged deception as insensitive to women genuinely battling breast cancer and other life-threatening illnesses.
Critics argued that fabricating a cancer diagnosis for financial gain trivialises the suffering of patients undergoing painful treatments and makes it increasingly difficult for people with genuine medical emergencies to receive public support.
Some commentators also expressed concern that the incident could discourage Nigerians from contributing to legitimate medical fundraising campaigns.
Blessing CEO reportedly attributed her action to financial pressure, saying she needed money. However, the explanation has done little to calm the growing backlash, with critics insisting that financial difficulties cannot justify misleading the public with a fabricated life-threatening illness.
The influencer, who has frequently attracted public attention for her controversial opinions on relationships, marriage and family matters, has repeatedly found herself at the centre of social media debates.
However, the latest controversy has generated a different level of condemnation because of its implications for public trust, medical fundraising and people genuinely battling cancer.
As of the time of filing this report, no official statement from law enforcement authorities regarding possible legal action over the alleged deception had been reported.
The controversy continues to generate reactions online, with some Nigerians demanding accountability and calling for stronger scrutiny of fundraising appeals made by social media influencers.
“I Needed Money” – Blessing CEO Admits Faking Breast Cancer Diagnosis, Sparks Outrage
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