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Edo State High Court

An estranged husband, Paul Nosakjare, has alleged that their pastor, Joseph Igwemoh of Global Influence International Ministries, told him to be using condom when making love with his wife, Stella Maris Alegbe-Paul, because the man of God was also having sex with her.

The plaintiff levelled the accusation in a divorce suit hearing before the Edo State High Court 13 sitting in Benin City.

Nosakhare, during his testimony before the court presided over by Justice Hassana Garuba on Thursday, alleged that his wife refused him sex on their wedding night.

In the suit, marked: B/478B/19 Nosakhare Paul v Mrs Stella Maris Alegbe-Paul and Pastor Joseph Igwemoh, the petitioner, being represented by Benedicta Okoduwa and Douglas Ogbankwa, said: “On the 1st day of May, 2018 at about 7:30pm, I got to Pastor Joseph Igwemoh’s office at his Church Global Influence International Ministries at Owoseni Street, off Mission Road, Benin having gone to fix his car for him, as I am an auto electrician.

“I got to the door of his Office but found it locked and the lights were off too.

“I knocked for over five minutes and I heard Pastor Joseph Igwemoh ask: ‘Who is that?’

“And I said I was the one.

“He asked me to wait only for my wife, Mrs. Stella-Maris Alegbe-Paul, to come out from Pastor Joseph Igwemoh’s office sweating profusely and looking ruffled.

“I asked her what she was doing there and she said it was a personal business.

“Just then I saw Pastor Joseph Igwemoh coming out of the same office my wife came out from, wearing singlet and boxers and taking orange.

“When I confronted Pastor Joseph Igwemoh that he was having an affair with my wife, the said Pastor Joseph Igwemoh started harassing and intimidating me with the police.

“He first started with the New Benin Police Station in Benin, but the DPO (Divisional Police Officer) asked me to go that I didn’t do anything.

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“Then on Thursday, the 18th day of October, 2018, Pastor Joseph Igwemoh arrested me to State CID of the Edo State Police Command in Benin City, wherein the matter was investigated by the Conflict Resolution Unit.

“The IPO was one Mahmud who started beating me up that I must confess that I put something on the Internet against Pastor Igwemoh, which I denied.

“I told him I will not write anything until I see my Lawyer.

“He then detained me for more than 24 hours and when my Lawyer came, I was granted bail.

“During the investigation, after I was granted bail, I wrote a letter to the said Pastor Joseph Igwemoh through my Lawyer and copied the Commissioner of Police, Edo State and the Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development wherein I complained about the adulterous affairs going on between him and my wife.

“The Pastor did not respond to that letter till now, but instead he lured my wife to pack out of our matrimonial home and I heard he rented an apartment for her at Ugbowo, Benin City.

“Throughout my marriage with my wife, she denied me my conjugal right.

“Pastor Igwemoh warned me to always have sex with my wife with condoms as my wife is not used to sex, saying my wife was her daughter.

“Pastor Joseph Igwemoh was even charged to court in this case as then Deputy Commissioner of Police, State CIID, Edo State (DC Okoh retired) did the right thing and asked that the Pastor be charged to court, which was done.

“The case is before Oredo Magistrate Court 6, Benin City and the case is ongoing.

“Pastor Joseph Igwemoh of Global Influence Ministry has really frustrated me.

“He was the one that joined me and my wife together in marriage and I was even his Assistant Pastor.

“I also once saw my wife and Pastor Joseph Igwemoh in his office, with Pastor Joseph Igwemoh lying down and my wife was sitting by his waist on a foam, while there are chairs in the office.”

The case was adjourned to February 14, 2022 for further hearing.

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Gunmen Kidnap Two Pregnant Women, Three Others in Sokoto Village

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Gunmen Kidnap Two Pregnant Women, Three Others in Sokoto Village 

Sokoto, Nigeria — Armed bandits have abducted five people, including two heavily pregnant women, during a violent attack on Maiwa Village in the Sabon Birni Local Government Area of Sokoto State. The incident occurred on Saturday, March 28, 2026, raising fresh concerns about security in the region.

A local resident, speaking anonymously, said the attackers arrived on seven motorcycles around 5 p.m., firing shots into the air to intimidate villagers. Many residents had gathered at the mosque when the bandits struck.

“They came and met us at the mosque, and before they shot in the air, I ran toward the police post,” the source said. “But the police fled when two bandits pursued me on motorcycles. After I escaped, the attackers went into homes and abducted the victims.”

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The kidnapped victims have been identified as Sadiya Umar, Firdausi Umar, Maryam Musa, Ubaida Musa, and Harira Nura. Both Sadiya and Ubaida are reportedly heavily pregnant and due to deliver soon.

In addition to the kidnappings, the bandits rustled 12 cows from the village but later returned them. Following the attack, several residents fled to neighboring Niger Republic in fear but returned on Sunday morning.

Efforts to obtain an official response from the Sokoto State Police Command proved unsuccessful, as the state spokesperson, DSP Ahmad Rufai, did not respond to calls or messages.

This attack underscores the persistent insecurity in northwestern Nigeria, where rural communities often face raids, abductions, and displacement due to bandit activity.

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Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

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Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

The founder of Omega Power Ministries, Chibuzor Chinyere, has officiated the marriage of a young man living with Autism Spectrum Disorder to an older single woman, a development that has sparked widespread debate over consent, disability rights, and ethics in Nigeria.

The wedding, held on Sunday, March 29, followed days of intense backlash after the cleric made a viral appeal seeking a wife for the man, identified as Aboy Chibuzor.

According to the pastor, the groom—who lives with Autism Spectrum Disorder—was abandoned as a child at the church gate and has remained under his care. He explained that the man is non-verbal and dependent on assistance for daily activities, including feeding, bathing, and routine care, while his biological family remains unknown. Chinyere said the marriage was arranged to provide the man with companionship and long-term support, insisting that the intention was to improve his quality of life.

As part of the union, the pastor announced a series of financial and welfare packages for the couple, including a ₦10 million wedding gift, a house accommodation, and an overseas vacation, alongside a pledge of ₦20 million after 10 years. He also revealed that members of the church contributed additional financial support, further boosting the couple’s welfare.

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The marriage comes after significant criticism from members of the public who described the initial proposal as demeaning to women and ethically questionable. In response, the cleric issued an apology, stating he “can never degrade any woman,” while maintaining that his actions were driven by compassion and responsibility for the man under his care.

Following the wedding, the pastor expressed optimism, noting what he described as early progress in the groom’s condition, including the ability to feed himself independently. He also expressed faith that the man could eventually speak, attributing the changes to divine intervention.

Despite the pastor’s assurances, the development has continued to raise serious concerns among observers and experts, particularly around the capacity for informed consent, the power dynamics between caregiver and dependent, and the absence of independent medical or legal evaluation. Critics argue that while individuals with autism have the right to relationships, proper safeguards must be in place to prevent exploitation.

The incident has reignited national conversations about marriage rights for persons with disabilities, highlighting the need for clearer legal frameworks that balance autonomy with protection. As discussions continue, many stakeholders are calling for stronger oversight and guidelines to ensure that vulnerable individuals are not placed at risk under the guise of care or support.

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Jos Attack: Plateau Govt Declares 48-Hour Curfew After Deadly Assault

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Plateau State Governor Caleb Mutfwang
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Jos Attack: Plateau Govt Declares 48-Hour Curfew After Deadly Assault

The Plateau State Government has imposed a 48-hour curfew in Jos North following a deadly terror attack in Jos that claimed several lives and left many others injured.

The curfew, which began at midnight on March 29 and will run until April 1, was announced by the State Commissioner for Information and Communication, Joyce Ramnap, as part of urgent steps to contain the situation and restore order.

The decision comes after suspected terrorists launched a coordinated assault on Gari Ya Waye community in Angwan Rukuba, an area within Jos, on Sunday evening.

Eyewitnesses said the attackers, riding on motorcycles, stormed the area at about 7:30 pm, opening fire indiscriminately on residents who were going about their normal activities. The sudden gunfire caused panic, forcing many to flee, while others were caught in the violence.

Although the exact number of casualties is yet to be officially confirmed, multiple residents were reportedly killed, with several others sustaining injuries. Homes and properties were also affected in the attack.

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Describing the incident as a “barbaric and unprovoked attack,” the Plateau State Government said the curfew in Jos North is necessary to prevent further violence, enable security agencies to regain control, and protect lives and property.

Under the directive, residents are required to stay indoors throughout the curfew period, except for essential services operating under strict security supervision.

Security has since been reinforced across the area, with the Nigeria Police Force, military, and other agencies deploying additional personnel. Authorities have launched intelligence operations, stop-and-search checks, and patrols to track down those responsible for the attack.

The government has urged residents to remain calm, cooperate with security operatives, and provide credible information that could assist ongoing investigations.

Officials also extended condolences to families of victims, assuring that efforts are underway to ensure justice is served.

The latest incident underscores growing concerns over security in Plateau State, as communities continue to grapple with recurring violence. Analysts say sustained security presence and improved intelligence gathering will be key to preventing further attacks.

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