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I won’t compete with you, Muslim lady tells would-be hubby’s wife

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Na'ima Hudu
I won’t compete with you, Muslim lady tells would-be hubby’s wife
A Nigerian lady, Na’ima Hudu, has assured her Muslim sisters that she would not compete with them if she ends up as their husband’s second wife.
The farmer, who stated this in a Facebook post on Saturday, June 22, 2024, also said she would not go diabolical as a second wife.
Read her post below…
“If your husband informs you he would be getting married to me as a second wife, please wifey, do not panic! Because…
1. I am not getting married to our husband to compete with you, you’re my sister in Islam and that we share same husband doesn’t make either of us bad women.
2. By Allah, visiting seers and soothsayers aren’t in my blood, I never saw my mum nor sisters go diabolical and with Allah’s guidance I will NEVER tow that path till I take my last breath.
3. I will never encourage our husband’s bad behaviors even when it is towards to you. I will try as much as I can to always bring his mind to it whenever he is towing the wrong path. I do not want to know if your wife is a weakling in za oza room or her food tastes horrible.
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4. My friends, sisters or even parents would not have that chance to advice I hurt or treat you or your kids badly, I do not even have family members to do this. My sisters are yours, just as my mum is your mum, if I offend you, call my mum to lay a complain. In fact, my sisters would tilt more towards you and always support you as they are all first wives and them dey beef me
5. Know that your children are mine too and my household is always open for them to come in anytime! I do not fear your reactions when I treat them wrongly but I fear Allah’s punishment. So know that, even when you’re absent, I won’t harm them.
6. It is absolutely normal for us get jealous, especially when our husband begins to tilt or becomes fond of one of us more. However, what isn’t normal, is trying to hurt me in whatever way or paint me bad to our husband just to gain his pity.
7. When it’s your day, I am going to try not to interrupt with calls nor chats so you could have a swell time together, plus i expect same from you. Of course, not in the case of emergencies or even important matters.
So, no fear my sister and I pray Allah blesses our marriage with our husband.
If your husband informs you he would be taking me as a second wife, don
I won’t compete with you, Muslim lady tells would-be hubby’s wife

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Gunmen Kidnap Two Pregnant Women, Three Others in Sokoto Village

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Sokoto State Police Spokesperson, DSP Ahmad Rufai

Gunmen Kidnap Two Pregnant Women, Three Others in Sokoto Village 

Sokoto, Nigeria — Armed bandits have abducted five people, including two heavily pregnant women, during a violent attack on Maiwa Village in the Sabon Birni Local Government Area of Sokoto State. The incident occurred on Saturday, March 28, 2026, raising fresh concerns about security in the region.

A local resident, speaking anonymously, said the attackers arrived on seven motorcycles around 5 p.m., firing shots into the air to intimidate villagers. Many residents had gathered at the mosque when the bandits struck.

“They came and met us at the mosque, and before they shot in the air, I ran toward the police post,” the source said. “But the police fled when two bandits pursued me on motorcycles. After I escaped, the attackers went into homes and abducted the victims.”

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The kidnapped victims have been identified as Sadiya Umar, Firdausi Umar, Maryam Musa, Ubaida Musa, and Harira Nura. Both Sadiya and Ubaida are reportedly heavily pregnant and due to deliver soon.

In addition to the kidnappings, the bandits rustled 12 cows from the village but later returned them. Following the attack, several residents fled to neighboring Niger Republic in fear but returned on Sunday morning.

Efforts to obtain an official response from the Sokoto State Police Command proved unsuccessful, as the state spokesperson, DSP Ahmad Rufai, did not respond to calls or messages.

This attack underscores the persistent insecurity in northwestern Nigeria, where rural communities often face raids, abductions, and displacement due to bandit activity.

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Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

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Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

Debate as OPM Pastor Marries Autistic Man to Older Woman

The founder of Omega Power Ministries, Chibuzor Chinyere, has officiated the marriage of a young man living with Autism Spectrum Disorder to an older single woman, a development that has sparked widespread debate over consent, disability rights, and ethics in Nigeria.

The wedding, held on Sunday, March 29, followed days of intense backlash after the cleric made a viral appeal seeking a wife for the man, identified as Aboy Chibuzor.

According to the pastor, the groom—who lives with Autism Spectrum Disorder—was abandoned as a child at the church gate and has remained under his care. He explained that the man is non-verbal and dependent on assistance for daily activities, including feeding, bathing, and routine care, while his biological family remains unknown. Chinyere said the marriage was arranged to provide the man with companionship and long-term support, insisting that the intention was to improve his quality of life.

As part of the union, the pastor announced a series of financial and welfare packages for the couple, including a ₦10 million wedding gift, a house accommodation, and an overseas vacation, alongside a pledge of ₦20 million after 10 years. He also revealed that members of the church contributed additional financial support, further boosting the couple’s welfare.

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The marriage comes after significant criticism from members of the public who described the initial proposal as demeaning to women and ethically questionable. In response, the cleric issued an apology, stating he “can never degrade any woman,” while maintaining that his actions were driven by compassion and responsibility for the man under his care.

Following the wedding, the pastor expressed optimism, noting what he described as early progress in the groom’s condition, including the ability to feed himself independently. He also expressed faith that the man could eventually speak, attributing the changes to divine intervention.

Despite the pastor’s assurances, the development has continued to raise serious concerns among observers and experts, particularly around the capacity for informed consent, the power dynamics between caregiver and dependent, and the absence of independent medical or legal evaluation. Critics argue that while individuals with autism have the right to relationships, proper safeguards must be in place to prevent exploitation.

The incident has reignited national conversations about marriage rights for persons with disabilities, highlighting the need for clearer legal frameworks that balance autonomy with protection. As discussions continue, many stakeholders are calling for stronger oversight and guidelines to ensure that vulnerable individuals are not placed at risk under the guise of care or support.

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Jos Attack: Plateau Govt Declares 48-Hour Curfew After Deadly Assault

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Plateau State Governor Caleb Mutfwang
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Jos Attack: Plateau Govt Declares 48-Hour Curfew After Deadly Assault

The Plateau State Government has imposed a 48-hour curfew in Jos North following a deadly terror attack in Jos that claimed several lives and left many others injured.

The curfew, which began at midnight on March 29 and will run until April 1, was announced by the State Commissioner for Information and Communication, Joyce Ramnap, as part of urgent steps to contain the situation and restore order.

The decision comes after suspected terrorists launched a coordinated assault on Gari Ya Waye community in Angwan Rukuba, an area within Jos, on Sunday evening.

Eyewitnesses said the attackers, riding on motorcycles, stormed the area at about 7:30 pm, opening fire indiscriminately on residents who were going about their normal activities. The sudden gunfire caused panic, forcing many to flee, while others were caught in the violence.

Although the exact number of casualties is yet to be officially confirmed, multiple residents were reportedly killed, with several others sustaining injuries. Homes and properties were also affected in the attack.

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Describing the incident as a “barbaric and unprovoked attack,” the Plateau State Government said the curfew in Jos North is necessary to prevent further violence, enable security agencies to regain control, and protect lives and property.

Under the directive, residents are required to stay indoors throughout the curfew period, except for essential services operating under strict security supervision.

Security has since been reinforced across the area, with the Nigeria Police Force, military, and other agencies deploying additional personnel. Authorities have launched intelligence operations, stop-and-search checks, and patrols to track down those responsible for the attack.

The government has urged residents to remain calm, cooperate with security operatives, and provide credible information that could assist ongoing investigations.

Officials also extended condolences to families of victims, assuring that efforts are underway to ensure justice is served.

The latest incident underscores growing concerns over security in Plateau State, as communities continue to grapple with recurring violence. Analysts say sustained security presence and improved intelligence gathering will be key to preventing further attacks.

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