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‘Masturbation is killing me’, Nigerian man cries for help

A Nigerian man simply identified as M. Nnaji has called for help over his masturbation addiction.

In a post on his verified X handle on Tuesday, Nnaji noted that his masturbation addiction is affecting his health and daily activities.

According to Nnaji, he said, “I can masturbate 3 to 5 times a day. I need help.”

Nnaji also added that quitting the act has become difficult because he watches porn a lot. He added that masturbation is gradually killing him on the inside.

“Stopping porn has been my problem. And I can’t leave the smartphone. Secretly, I’m dying inside of me,” he said.

Adding that he felt “relieved for speaking out,” the addict noted that the addiction has affected his sexual health, making him unable to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse.

“I have fasted and prayed because of this.

“I want to stop it. I don’t maintain an erection when I’m with a woman.”

Furthermore, Nnaji expressed his fears about getting married because of how the addiction has affected his sexual health.

“I’ll tell you this. It affects my erection, so I’m afraid of marriage.

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“I always feel guilty after it,” he added.

Reacting to Nnaji’s plea for help, Nigerians urged him to stay away from pornography and seek professional help.

An X user, simply identified as Big Olu, advised him, saying, “Stop watching porn! Occupy your mind with productive things like reading books, going outside, and playing football. It’s okay to masturbate, but excessive masturbation is a problem. Pray. Good luck.”

Cepheid also added, “Stop watching porn, listen to music often, and keep yourself busy. An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”

Aolak advised Nnaji when he said, “Always avoid being alone. Please always make sure you are around someone all the time; don’t give yourself privacy until you are sure of controlling yourself. Stop watching porn.”

While another X user applauded his courage for coming out seeking help, he urged Nnaji to get professional help and an “accountability coach.”

“Big ups to you for coming out to admit this. I’ll also advise you to get an accountability coach, like a close friend or brother, who can watch your progress. Someone you answer to when they ask if you failed or passed each day,” he said.

Recounting his personal experience with masturbation, Reece Houseboy on X notes that he is “facing the same thing, but mine is just once or twice daily. I want to start going out more so I’m not alone in the house most days. I’m going to start a tech class soon to get busy.”

Another netizen simply identified as UX Guy, advised Nnaji to quit the habit gradually.

“Don’t try to go for one month straight or more. You’ll fail and blame yourself. So take it a day at a time. Each 24 hours won is a victory. And mark your calendar to watch your progress.

“Steadily keep increasing the number of winning days each week, and you’ll steadily improve,” he said.

Buttressing UX Guy’s point, Pharizz, while recounting his personal experience, said, “I was once like you, determined to stop it.

“Take gradual steps, like starting to do it once a day.

“Once a week. Once a month.

“You can’t stop addiction immediately, no matter what.”

lso, Morlana, another X user, notes, “Start by reducing how many times you masturbate in a day.

“Five times is much. Start twice a day for a week, then move to once a day.

“Then move to twice a week. Once you feel the urge, play music, dance it off, or walk out, stroll out. Don’t be alone, then move to once a week.”

Some others urged him to seek spiritual help in a bid to overcome his masturbation addiction.

“You do need help. Only God can help you. Focus on God, and he will help you. Any other option is a waste of time,” Emmy King noted.

For Bae Amaka, she said, “Call on God and avoid idleness. Have strong faith, and you will get cured.”

Urging him to take a more spiritual part in healing from masturbation, Collins Weglobe advised him to “pray and fast from 6 a.m. to 3 p.m.

“Focus your prayers on restoration. Declare yourself free from every spirit of masturbation, and command this spirit to leave your body.

“Specifically, command it to exit through vomiting.

“Additionally, read Psalm 51 and ask the Holy Spirit to take control of your body.

“When you’ve completed this and experienced total restoration, feel free to thank me.”

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Tragic Tree Collapse in Enugu Kills 18 Passengers on Commercial Bus

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Tragic Tree Collapse in Enugu Kills 18 Passengers on Commercial Bus

Tragic Tree Collapse in Enugu Kills 18 Passengers on Commercial Bus

Awhum, Udi LGA, Enugu State — At least 18 passengers were killed after a massive ancestral tree, locally known as “Ukwu Akpu Awhum,” collapsed onto a commercial 18‑seater bus on Tuesday, during a heavy thunderstorm and rainfall. The bus was en route from Ukehe in Igbo‑Etiti LGA to Enugu metropolis when the tragedy occurred.

Eyewitnesses said the ancient tree fell without warning, crushing the bus and its occupants instantly. “The rain was very heavy, the wind was strong, and we heard a loud crash,” one resident recalled. All passengers were reportedly killed on impact.

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Local resident Charly Okeke suggested that recent human activity, including tying red and white cloths around the tree trunk for spiritual purposes, may have weakened the tree, contributing to the collapse. The community has been thrown into mourning, as families grapple with the sudden loss.

Emergency responders and local volunteers rushed to the scene, pulling survivors from the wreckage and transporting the injured to nearby hospitals. Authorities are expected to investigate the cause of the collapse, though no official statement has been released by Enugu State authorities as of now.

The tragedy highlights the dangers posed by aged trees along busy roads, especially during periods of torrential rain and strong winds, and underscores the need for public safety measures and regular assessments of roadside trees to prevent similar disasters.

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Carbon Monoxide Leak Kills 37 Miners in Plateau

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Carbon Monoxide Leak Kills 37 Miners in Plateau

Kampani Zurak, Wase LGA, Plateau State — Tragedy struck early Wednesday morning as a carbon monoxide gas leak at an underground mining site claimed the lives of at least 37 miners and injured more than 20 others. The incident occurred around 6:30 a.m., shortly after workers returned from morning prayers.

According to eyewitness Safiyanu Haruna, survivors and local residents discovered miners unconscious inside the poorly ventilated tunnels. “It’s heartbreaking to wake up to the news that 37 miners, who had been struggling to make ends meet, have died,” he said.

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The injured miners were immediately transported to a hospital in Wase town for treatment. Authorities and emergency response teams had not yet arrived at the site when the leak occurred, highlighting the dangers of underground mining in poorly regulated areas.

Funeral prayers for the deceased are currently being held in the community, with the Local Government Area chairman reported to have attended. Security forces have sealed off the mining site to prevent further casualties and aid ongoing investigations.

The tragedy underscores the critical need for improved mining safety regulations, particularly in remote areas where miners often work under hazardous conditions with limited safety protocols. Experts warn that carbon monoxide exposure in mines can be deadly within minutes if ventilation and gas detection measures are inadequate.

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Kano Closes Entertainment Centres Ahead of Ramadan

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Kano State Governor, Abba Kabir Yusuf
Kano State Governor, Abba Kabir Yusuf

Kano Closes Entertainment Centres Ahead of Ramadan

The Kano State Government has ordered the immediate closure of all entertainment centres across the state as part of measures to ensure a peaceful and spiritually focused observance of Ramadan. The directive, issued by the Kano State Censorship Board, affects entertainment venues popularly known as gala houses, as well as disc jockey (DJ) operators and related entertainment outlets under the board’s regulatory jurisdiction.

Abdullahi Sulaiman, the board’s Public Relations Officer, announced that the closure will take effect from 10:00 p.m. on Wednesday, 18 February 2026, and will remain in force throughout the holy month. He explained that the action aims to create a calm and morally conducive environment for Muslim residents to observe fasting, prayers, and other religious activities without distractions.

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The board emphasised that reopening dates, particularly for Eid‑el‑Fitr celebrations, will be communicated at the appropriate time. Enforcement teams have been mobilised to ensure compliance, with sanctions for violations under the board’s regulatory mandate.

Officials clarified that the closure does not apply to event centres used for weddings, conferences, or political gatherings, which fall outside the board’s jurisdiction. Board director Usman Dankwano reiterated that only entertainment outlets such as gala houses are affected by the directive.

The government said the decision aligns with efforts to promote social harmony, maintain public order, and respect religious observances during Ramadan. Residents and business operators are urged to comply fully to avoid penalties.

The move reflects a broader pattern in northern Nigeria, where authorities adjust entertainment and public activities during Ramadan to respect cultural and religious practices while maintaining community peace.

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