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‘Masturbation is killing me’, Nigerian man cries for help

A Nigerian man simply identified as M. Nnaji has called for help over his masturbation addiction.

In a post on his verified X handle on Tuesday, Nnaji noted that his masturbation addiction is affecting his health and daily activities.

According to Nnaji, he said, “I can masturbate 3 to 5 times a day. I need help.”

Nnaji also added that quitting the act has become difficult because he watches porn a lot. He added that masturbation is gradually killing him on the inside.

“Stopping porn has been my problem. And I can’t leave the smartphone. Secretly, I’m dying inside of me,” he said.

Adding that he felt “relieved for speaking out,” the addict noted that the addiction has affected his sexual health, making him unable to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse.

“I have fasted and prayed because of this.

“I want to stop it. I don’t maintain an erection when I’m with a woman.”

Furthermore, Nnaji expressed his fears about getting married because of how the addiction has affected his sexual health.

“I’ll tell you this. It affects my erection, so I’m afraid of marriage.

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“I always feel guilty after it,” he added.

Reacting to Nnaji’s plea for help, Nigerians urged him to stay away from pornography and seek professional help.

An X user, simply identified as Big Olu, advised him, saying, “Stop watching porn! Occupy your mind with productive things like reading books, going outside, and playing football. It’s okay to masturbate, but excessive masturbation is a problem. Pray. Good luck.”

Cepheid also added, “Stop watching porn, listen to music often, and keep yourself busy. An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”

Aolak advised Nnaji when he said, “Always avoid being alone. Please always make sure you are around someone all the time; don’t give yourself privacy until you are sure of controlling yourself. Stop watching porn.”

While another X user applauded his courage for coming out seeking help, he urged Nnaji to get professional help and an “accountability coach.”

“Big ups to you for coming out to admit this. I’ll also advise you to get an accountability coach, like a close friend or brother, who can watch your progress. Someone you answer to when they ask if you failed or passed each day,” he said.

Recounting his personal experience with masturbation, Reece Houseboy on X notes that he is “facing the same thing, but mine is just once or twice daily. I want to start going out more so I’m not alone in the house most days. I’m going to start a tech class soon to get busy.”

Another netizen simply identified as UX Guy, advised Nnaji to quit the habit gradually.

“Don’t try to go for one month straight or more. You’ll fail and blame yourself. So take it a day at a time. Each 24 hours won is a victory. And mark your calendar to watch your progress.

“Steadily keep increasing the number of winning days each week, and you’ll steadily improve,” he said.

Buttressing UX Guy’s point, Pharizz, while recounting his personal experience, said, “I was once like you, determined to stop it.

“Take gradual steps, like starting to do it once a day.

“Once a week. Once a month.

“You can’t stop addiction immediately, no matter what.”

lso, Morlana, another X user, notes, “Start by reducing how many times you masturbate in a day.

“Five times is much. Start twice a day for a week, then move to once a day.

“Then move to twice a week. Once you feel the urge, play music, dance it off, or walk out, stroll out. Don’t be alone, then move to once a week.”

Some others urged him to seek spiritual help in a bid to overcome his masturbation addiction.

“You do need help. Only God can help you. Focus on God, and he will help you. Any other option is a waste of time,” Emmy King noted.

For Bae Amaka, she said, “Call on God and avoid idleness. Have strong faith, and you will get cured.”

Urging him to take a more spiritual part in healing from masturbation, Collins Weglobe advised him to “pray and fast from 6 a.m. to 3 p.m.

“Focus your prayers on restoration. Declare yourself free from every spirit of masturbation, and command this spirit to leave your body.

“Specifically, command it to exit through vomiting.

“Additionally, read Psalm 51 and ask the Holy Spirit to take control of your body.

“When you’ve completed this and experienced total restoration, feel free to thank me.”

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Ex-police officer kills two family members, one other over Badagry land

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Ex-police officer kills two family members, one other over Badagry land

The peaceful Yovoyan community in Badagry, Lagos, was plunged into grief on Tuesday morning following a tragic incident that left three people dead.

An ex-police officer, allegedly accompanied by an accomplice, shot and killed two family members and another individual over a land dispute.

The victims, identified as Mr. Richard Atideka, Mrs. Latevi Atideka—both residents of Yovoyan—and Mr. Muji Onilude, from the nearby Gberefu community, were fatally shot by the assailants.

A survivor of the attack, Mr. David Atideka, shared his harrowing experience, describing the terrifying event that took place between 2:00 a.m. and 2:30 a.m. at the Atideka family compound.

“I was inside my room discussing with my wife when I stepped out to urinate. As I did, I saw two armed men entering the compound. I quickly hid nearby.

“They entered my room, asked for me, and immediately shot my wife in the head. Out of fear, I ran to inform my elder brother, but when I arrived, I found his lifeless body—he had been shot too,” David narrated.

He further alleged that he saw his elder brother, the suspect, the ex-police officer, along with another armed person, leaving the compound after killing his wife and brother.

“The person I saw was my brother, the police officer. I recognised him clearly,” he said.

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NAN learnt that the alleged suspected killer had been in a long-standing dispute with his brothers over land ownership.

A reliable source disclosed that the suspect had been attempting to seize land from David and Richard Atideka.

“They had taken the matter to court, where the suspect was arrested and detained but later released on bail. They were due for a final court judgment this Thursday,” the source revealed.

Meanwhile, Mr Yusuf Onilude, the son of slain Muji Onilude, said his father had just left his room moments before he was murdered.

“My father came to my room at about 2:10 a.m. We spoke for a few minutes before he left.

“Less than five minutes later, I heard gunshots outside. I rushed out and saw a man running away. I chased him, but he fired shots in the air and escaped.

“When I returned, I found my father in a pool of blood. He had been shot dead,” he said.

Reacting to the incident, community representative Mr James Yovoyan urged the police to ensure the perpetrators were brought to justice.

Chief Lorence Atideka, the family head, lamented the tragedy, calling on the government to arrest and prosecute everyone involved.

However, Henry Atideka, the son of the alleged killer, denied the accusations, claiming that unknown gunmen carried out the attack.

“My father was not around when the incident happened, and he has been invited by the police.

“Although the family had some disagreements, it was not about land but a conspiracy, which we planned to resolve this Thursday,” he said.

Henry expressed optimism that the police would uncover the truth and punish the culprits.

However, a senior police officer who wished to remain anonymous confirmed that the police had taken the corpses to the General Hospital in Badagry and had launched an investigation into the killings.

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12-year-old ‘Yahoo’ trainee, others rescued in Lagos, training centre dismantled

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12-year-old ‘Yahoo’ trainee, others rescued in Lagos, training centre dismantled

The Lagos State Police Command has uncovered and dismantled an illegal internet fraud training facility, commonly known as a “Yahoo School,” in the Iju area of the state.

In a statement released on Tuesday, the command’s spokesperson, Benjamin Hundeyin, confirmed the arrest of four principal suspects along with six trainees.

Among the trainees was an underage boy identified as Minachi Udochukwu.

Hundeyin noted that preliminary investigations revealed that the principal suspects recruited the trainees from Anambra State, engaged them in internet fraud, and confiscated their earnings.

The statement read in part, “During the successful operations, the police detectives arrested four Yahoo experts who were running the notorious school, namely Chibuike Ihejika, 23; Stanley Ihejika, 22; Obiora Oyediba, 26; and Emmanuel Oyedibe, 25.

“The other six suspects are their criminal trainees, all of whom were undergoing training in cybercrime and fraud: Okorie Henry, Otoh Chisom, 20; Okeke Kwufrochikwu, 26; Uchenna Obeji, 26; Minachi Udochukwu, 12; and Chinedu Ukachukwu, 23.

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“Preliminary investigations revealed that the principal suspects of the facility recruited their trainees from Anambra State, engaged them to commit internet fraud and other related crimes.

“The proceeds from their fraudulent activities were being confiscated by the principal suspects.”

While the command warned the owner of the facility to turn himself in at the State Criminal Investigation Department, it assured all that all suspects would be charged to court for prosecution upon the conclusion of the investigation into the case.

The statement further revealed that Ugochukwu had been provided with medical care after healing marks of injury believed to have been sustained during the training was found on his body

“In line with due process of the law, the underage suspect among them, Minachi Ugochukwu, 12 years old, with healing marks of injuries on his body allegedly inflicted on him by the main principal suspect to compel him into the commission of the criminal acts, is being given medical attention and kept in protective custody till his relatives are identified and reunited with him,” Hundeyin stated.

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The command also warned parents and guardians to monitor the activities of their children and wards to prevent them from being exploited, lured, or compelled into falling into criminal activities.

It, however, called on members of the public who have fallen victim to the fraudulent activities of the criminal syndicate to come forward to the SCID, Yaba, with their complaints.

“The Commissioner of Police, Lagos State Command, CP Olohundare Jimoh, also commends the police personnel involved in this operation for their dedication and professionalism that resulted in this success.

“The CP Jimoh assures all Lagosians that the Command remains resolute and committed to combating all forms of crimes and criminalities, including cybercrime tagged ‘yahoo,’ etc.

“He urges residents to report every suspicious activity or incident to the police in their localities for prompt action,” the statement added.

 

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Portable, Speed Darlington set for boxing match

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Portable, Speed Darlington set for boxing match

Controversial Nigerian artists Speed Darlington and Portable are poised to square off in a celebrity boxing match.

The event will take place on April 18, 2025, at the Balmoral Convention Centre in Lagos state.

According to reports, the altercation between the two began in March when Darlington offered Portable N500,000 to play at his next performance.

Portable, who described the amount as ridiculous, tagged Darlington “poor”. Noting that he charges N20 million for performance.

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“You are inviting me for a show, and you don’t have money. You use my name to promote your show. I charge N20 million, ask around. I don’t know that you are poor. I don’t want to be friends with poor people”.

In his response, Darlington expressed regret for inviting Portable. He said “I regret it because why the insults?”

Portable replied by challenging Darlington to a fight, boasting that he would defeat him just as he did to popular actor, Charles Okocha.

The match has finally been arranged following netizens demand, with the organiser.

Announcing the fight on Instagram the organizer, Mygamerush wrote; “You asked and now it is here. Two street kings’ battle for ultimate street supremacy.”

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