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Chief Imam of Lekki Central Mosque, Imam Ridwan Jamiu

Scholars proffer solutions to marital crisis

Scholars have attributed the collapse of family to societal challenges.

According to them, the solution is to halt the spate of broken homes and return the family values.

They spoke on Sunday during the first quarter Dawah Workshop organised by Lekki Muslim Ummah (LEMU), with a theme: “Towards Happy Marriage” at Lekki Central Mosque, Lekki.

Earlier in his remarks, the Chief Imam of Lekki Central Mosque, Imam Ridwan Jamiu said moral decadence in the society has led to corruption in high places, collapse of family structure, drugs among children and unhealthy society.

He said: “The family is a unit of the society, if family is sound and healthy, the community will be sound and healthy, and if family is unhealthy, the community will be unhealthy and this will affect the nation. This is why whenever we have any gathering like this, we are actually promoting peace and national security.

“Many of the society’s challenges came as a result of the collapse of the family. If you see some children who have taken to drugs, it is because the family has collapsed. There can hardly be successful parenting without successful coupling.

“Some of the reasons parents abandon their children at the mercy of the society is lack of faith even in the face of challenges. For instance, If you truly fear Allah, you wouldn’t go into crime as a solution to your economic challenges. You have to look for other lawful means of seeking wealth. But because there is lack of faith or better still, a spiritual decline, many people are very religious, but are not Godly. Some people go to places of worship only because they are looking for jobs and appointments.”

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Dr Rashidah Oke-Olaniyan of Daarussalam Taafidh International Academy, reminded parents of their position as role models, adding that they should think more about the future of their children.

She said: “Parents should know they are role models. The future of the children is important as well as their Hereafter.

“Think about the children all the time. When the home is broken, there is no way the woman can be the mother and the father at the same time. It is difficult. Go and ask the kids out there, they will tell you, I need to see my Mum, I need to see my Dad. In fact, when there is no father figure in the home, you see the child going out to look for a father figure that may not be right for him or her. If you don’t want society to teach your child, you have to be there to teach your child and by extension, you have to make your marriage work.”

A professor of Anatomic Pathology at the College of Medicine University of Lagos (CMUL) Prof Fatimah AbdulKareem and Chief Imam of Light House Muslim Community, Imam Nojeem Jimoh, said it is the intention of Allah for couples to be happy in their marriages.

Allah, the duo added that the primary thing Allah intends for the couple.

Prof AbdulKareem told the audience that good character and piety are main features to look out for in a prospectus relations.

Imam Jimoh urged the couples to fear in dealing with one another.

“It is sad to know there are lots of broken homes and marriages, but it is because many of us have gone away from the prescriptions of Allah as far as marriage is concerned. You find husbands and wives competing rather than complementing and cooperating. Allah has not forbidden the women to assist in putting food on the table,” he said.

Chairman on the occasion, Alhaji AbdulMajeed Ninalowo said the topic was chosen with a view to providing solutions to the growing marital challenges plaguing the Muslim Ummah in particular, and the world in general.

According to him, “such marital upheavals include high divorce rate, spousal abuse, unbridled adultery resulting in alarming rate of paternity fraud, baby mama and baby father syndrome, to mention but a few. Undoubtedly, the marriage institution is no longer what it used to be. Many couples, especially young ones, are not happily married,” he said.

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NBS: Nigeria’s Inflation Slips to 15.39% in August

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NBS: Nigeria’s Inflation Slips to 15.39% in August

Nigeria’s inflation rate eased to 15.39 per cent in August 2026 as the pace of price increases slowed across the economy, the National Bureau of Statistics has reported.

The latest Consumer Price Index report shows a modest fall from the 15.43 per cent recorded in July.

A sharper improvement was recorded in monthly inflation. The rate dropped from 1.57 per cent in July to 0.71 per cent in August, meaning prices continued to rise but at a much slower pace.

Food inflation also slowed significantly.

The NBS put year-on-year food inflation at 19.57 per cent in August. This was below the 25.30 per cent recorded a year earlier. Monthly food inflation also fell sharply, moving from 5.56 per cent in July to 1.02 per cent in August.

The statistics agency attributed the monthly decline to lower average prices for a range of food products, including palm oil, pepper, onions, cassava flour, beef, yam flour, egusi, ginger, fresh fish, Irish potatoes, chicken and turkey.

The improvement, however, was not shared equally across the country.

Adamawa had the highest annual food inflation rate at 38.85 per cent. Zamfara followed with 37.96 per cent, while Bayelsa recorded 36.20 per cent.

At the other end, Borno recorded negative annual food inflation of -4.04 per cent. Jigawa recorded -0.23 per cent, while Kebbi stood at 3.47 per cent.

For monthly food inflation, Katsina recorded the highest rate at 9.48 per cent, followed by Rivers at 8.86 per cent and Osun at 8.32 per cent.

The latest figures suggest a broad slowdown in price growth, although the wide differences between states show that many households are still facing very different food price pressures depending on where they live.

 

NBS: Nigeria’s Inflation Slips to 15.39% in August

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As Olalekan Oyeyemi is buried in Osogbo, authorities transfer murder probe to the State Criminal Investigation Department.

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Peter Obi Rejects Anambra Debt Claims, Challenges Soludo Govt to Produce Evidence

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Peter Obi Rejects Anambra Debt Claims, Challenges Soludo Government to Produce Evidence

Peter Obi Rejects Anambra Debt Claims, Challenges Soludo Government to Produce Evidence

Former Anambra State Governor and 2027 presidential candidate Peter Obi has rejected claims that he left the state with unpaid financial obligations when he handed over power in 2014, challenging the Anambra State Government to identify any contractor, supplier, worker or pensioner who was owed money by his administration at the time.

Obi made the statement in response to renewed claims by the administration of Governor Chukwuma Soludo that the state is still servicing loans and other financial obligations inherited from previous administrations.

The dispute has opened a fresh political debate over Anambra’s debt profile, the financial obligations inherited by successive governments and the management of the state’s resources before and after Obi left office.

Obi, who governed Anambra between 2006 and 2013 before handing over to his successor in 2014, said he paid what was due during his tenure and left the state in a financially stable position.

He challenged the Soludo administration to provide evidence of any unpaid obligation incurred by his government that remained outstanding when he left office.

According to Obi, if the state government can identify any contractor, supplier, employee, pensioner or other beneficiary who was owed money by his administration at the time of the handover, he would be prepared to address the matter.

The former governor also said his administration left funds in government accounts, including an alleged ₦2.14 billion ecological fund balance, when he handed over power.

However, the claim regarding the ecological fund is from Obi’s camp and would require confirmation from the relevant official financial records.

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The response followed comments by the Anambra Commissioner for Finance, Izuchukwu Okafor, who said the state was still repaying loans inherited from previous administrations.

Okafor said the Soludo administration had not obtained any commercial bank loan since it came into office in 2022, arguing that the government’s focus had been on reducing the state’s inherited financial obligations.

He said the state’s debt burden had been substantially reduced under Soludo and that the administration had also cleared inherited liabilities relating to contracts, gratuities and pensions.

The commissioner said some loans taken by previous administrations remain subject to repayment and deductions from the state’s federal allocations.

This distinction is at the centre of the current disagreement.

The Soludo administration is not necessarily claiming that Obi personally left unpaid bills to contractors or workers. Rather, the government is pointing to loans and other financial commitments inherited from successive administrations, some of which continue to be serviced.

Obi, on the other hand, is arguing that his administration settled the obligations that were due and payable when he left office and should not be held responsible for liabilities incurred by subsequent governments.

The issue has therefore raised questions about the difference between a state’s overall outstanding debt and debts that were specifically incurred by an individual administration.

Available public debt records have shown that Anambra had outstanding formal obligations around the period Obi left office. However, the political dispute centres on when particular obligations were incurred, which administration contracted them, when repayment became due and whether they should be described as unpaid debts inherited from Obi’s administration.

The Soludo administration has maintained that it inherited financial commitments from previous governments and has been working to reduce them.

The finance commissioner reportedly said the state’s domestic debt was now close to zero and that the government had reduced its overall debt burden significantly.

He also said the Soludo administration had not resorted to commercial bank borrowing since assuming office, presenting the reduction in liabilities as evidence of improved fiscal management.

The government has simultaneously highlighted investments in infrastructure and other projects while maintaining that debt reduction remains an important part of its financial strategy.

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Obi’s camp, however, has questioned the basis for attributing current financial obligations to his administration.

The former governor has repeatedly presented his tenure as one characterised by fiscal discipline, savings and investment in infrastructure, education, healthcare and other sectors.

His supporters have pointed to the savings and financial reserves accumulated during his tenure as evidence that the state was handed over in relatively strong financial condition.

Critics of the former governor, however, argue that the financial position of a state cannot be assessed solely by looking at cash balances or the absence of unpaid bills because governments can inherit long-term obligations whose repayment extends beyond the tenure of the administration that contracted them.

That distinction is particularly relevant in Anambra, where governments have succeeded one another while continuing to service financial commitments made over several administrations.

The latest exchange has consequently shifted the political conversation from whether Anambra has debt to the more specific question of which administration incurred particular liabilities and whether those obligations were outstanding at the time of each handover.

The dispute also comes at a politically sensitive period, with Obi preparing for the 2027 presidential election under the Nigerian Democratic Congress (NDC).

Questions about his record as Anambra governor are likely to remain part of the political debate as the election approaches, particularly because his administration’s economic management has been a central part of his political narrative.

For Soludo, who is serving as Anambra governor, the emphasis has been on the state’s current fiscal position and the steps his administration says it has taken to reduce inherited liabilities while funding development projects.

For Obi, the priority is to establish that he did not leave unpaid obligations to contractors, workers, pensioners or other beneficiaries when he left office.

The former governor has therefore challenged the state government to publish specific records showing any outstanding obligation attributable to his administration at the point of handover.

The competing claims have yet to be resolved by an independent audit or judicial determination.

What remains clear is that Anambra’s debt debate involves more than a simple disagreement over whether the state owes money. It encompasses loans contracted by successive administrations, repayment schedules, inherited liabilities, outstanding contracts and the question of how political leaders should be held accountable for financial commitments made during their tenure.

As the exchange continues, official debt records, audited financial statements and handover documents could provide the clearest basis for determining the extent of liabilities inherited by each administration.

Until such records are independently reviewed, claims that Obi either left the state completely debt-free or was solely responsible for all of its inherited obligations should be treated with caution.

The latest dispute therefore leaves two competing narratives: Obi’s insistence that he paid what was due before leaving office, and the Soludo administration’s position that Anambra continues to service financial obligations inherited from previous governments, including loans dating back to earlier administrations.

With the 2027 election approaching, the controversy is likely to remain part of the wider political contest over Obi’s record in Anambra and his claims of fiscal discipline in government.

Peter Obi Rejects Anambra Debt Claims, Challenges Soludo Government to Produce Evidence

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