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Why women are such good liars!

Most of us will probably admit to the occasional little white lie.  But in fact, more than one in three people tell at least one lie every day.  And it turns out that the fairer sex is the biggest fibbers of all.  According to a survey, a shocking four in five women tell lies on a daily basis.  Some women even admit to doing so as many as 30 times a day – the equivalent of twice every waking hour.

This compares with two out of five men who said they tended to tell lies every day.  Fortunately, the picture is not as bleak as the statistics imply.  People said they mainly shied away from telling the truth to avoid hurting other people’s feelings.  The biggest reason they lied was to ‘make someone feel better’ (55 per cent).  This was followed by ‘to not get into trouble’ (32 per cent) and one in four put it down to the fact that ‘life is complicated.’  ‘Proving a point’ and ‘saving face’ were also common reasons to skirt around the truth.

Around 2,000 people were questioned for the poll commissioned by insurance company Privilege.  Ad researchers found a common theme running through people’s lies.  No one likes to leave a plateful of food when invited to a dinner party, and ‘saying you enjoyed a friend or relative’s cooking when you might not have was the number one reason for lying (42 per cent).  People also commonly fib about their job, their salary or their weight.  And they regularly pretend to share a hobby with someone they are trying to impress.

However, perhaps fortunately, most of our lies are relatively harmless.  Around 80 per cent said they only told a lie when it would not seriously hurt anyone – although one in ten said a small fib they told had ended up hurting someone they were close to.  The research also revealed that the most popular place to lie is ‘at home’.  Work and job interviews were the next most popular, followed by social media.  But the truth is most likely to be told in a court or doctor’s surgery.

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As for who we are most likely to lie to, friends are top of the list (30 per cent), followed closely by work colleagues and partners (around one in four) and then children.  Interestingly, it is in middle-age rather than in youth that we are most likely to lie – 46 was the average age of people who admitted regularly telling lies.’  Dan Simson, from Privilege, said: ‘Encouragingly, this has shown us that even though we can be guilty of telling the odd porky, on the whole, we are likely to tell the truth when it matters.

How white wine could unleash a monster within us!

What better way to have a good time at a party than with a glass of well-chilled sauvignon blanc, pinot grigio or chardonnay?  Unfortunately, after a couple of glasses of white wine, we can start acting a little crazy.  According to medical expert, Dr. Rosalind Haire: “White wine often unleashes a monster within us, and we lose all control, and a number of my patients have told me the same thing.

“They alleged that after a few glasses, they start behaving completely out of character.  One of them told of how she’d accosted a police officer and asked to hold his truncheon after too much lady petrol aka pinot grigio.  Another admitted that she’s given up drinking white wine because it makes her aggressive.  Other told tales of how they’d morphed into emotional wrecks-crying at sad songs and confessing their undying love to ex-boyfriends.

“This beast isn’t released when they drink beer, red wine or spirits.  It’s only white wine that makes them wild.  The first problem is that a cold white wine is all too quaffing on a hot day, so it’s easy to get drunk quickly.  On top of this, if you’re drinking something like prosecco, the carbon dioxide bubbles that make it fizzy causes the alcohol to enter the bloodstream faster than other alcohol beverage.  What’s more, as they often taste so sweet, you’d be forgiven for forgetting the high alcohol content of pinot or sauvignon.  You may think that you’ve drunk about the same amount as your lager-guzzling partner, but white wine is far more potent than beer.

So if you’re matching him drink for drink, you’re going to get far more boozed.  When you think about the percentages, white wine is about 10-14 per cent, which is double to triple that of beer.  It is sweeter and easier to drink so people get very drunk, very quickly on white wines.  But that’s not all.  Interestingly, if you’ve turned into a grigio gremlin in the past, you’re more likely to become one in the future.

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Attackers of Benue communities not Nigerians, says Gov Alia

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Attackers of Benue communities not Nigerians, says Gov Alia

 

Benue State Governor, Hyacinth Alia, says the criminal elements involved in the recent killings across the state are not Nigerians.

He said they were found speaking unfamiliar languages and exhibit foreign characteristics.

Alia disclosed this on Tuesday while speaking as a guest on Politics Today, a current affairs programme on Channels Television.

He was responding to the assaults on the state that have left scores killed and hundreds of residents displaced.

When asked about the identity of the attackers terrorising communities in the state, the governor said it was important to first clarify the nature of the threat.

“Let’s have the narrative very correct. We know Nigerians—by our ethnicities, we can identify a Fulani man, a Yoruba man, a Hausa man—we know them. Even the regular traditional herders, we know them. They work with cows, herding with sticks,” Alia said.

“But these folks [the attackers] are coming in fully armed with AK-47s and 49s. They do not bear the Nigerian look. They don’t speak like we do. Even the Hausa they speak is one sort of Hausa.”

The governor said intelligence from locals suggested the attackers could be foreign nationals.

“It’s not the normal Hausa we Nigerians speak. So it is with the Fulani they speak. There is a trend in the language they speak, and some of our people who understand what they speak give it names.

“They say they are Malians and different from our people. But they are not Nigerians—believe it,” he added.

Governor Alia said this marked a new and more dangerous phase of violence compared to previous confrontations with traditional herders.

“This is the second phase we are seeing. The initial ones were with the traditional herders. The traditional herders—we had fewer troubles with them.

“What we are experiencing has a new, different, strange face, and it’s now alarming,” the governor said.

“These terrorists are everywhere. We are under a siege. These people just come and hit and kill and run back. Where are they running to?”

He revealed that the attacks appeared highly coordinated and strategically executed.

“The way these killings are being planned and carried out is definitely coordinated,” he stated.

“Some local government areas in Benue share borders with Cameroon, and those borders are quite porous.”

The governor also said intelligence reports point to the existence of terrorist hideouts in parts of Taraba and Nasarawa states, as well as in areas within Cameroon.

“The terrorists have their havens in Taraba, Nasarawa, and in border regions of Cameroon,” Alia stated.

This came amid growing concern over a spate of attacks across Benue and Plateau states that have claimed dozens of lives, displaced entire communities, and deepened the security crisis in Nigeria’s Middle Belt.

Two weeks ago, on the same show, Plateau State Governor, Caleb Muftwang, also raised fresh concerns about the identity of those behind the persistent killings in the state, revealing that many of the attackers do not speak any known Nigerian language.

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I’m not in supremacy battle with Ooni, says new Alaafin

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I’m not in supremacy battle with Ooni, says new Alaafin

 

Newly installed Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Abimbola Owoade, has denied being in royal supremacy battle with the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, or any other monarch.

He spoke through his Director of Media and Publicity, Bode Durojaiye, in a reaction to an online viral video

He also said at no time did the Alaafin order his men to beat up the father of a monarch of a village in the United States of America.

The statement read in part, “The attention of the Media Office of the Alaafin of Oyo has been drawn to a misleading and wicked fabrication of a video produced by an online medium, Awikonko TV, and shown on YouTube .

“In the malicious video, the anchor narrated how the Alaafin of Oyo , Oba Abimbola Akeem Owoade 1, ordered his men to beat to a pulp ‘father of the monarch’ of a village in the United States of America and later handed him over to the police.

“The misguided anchor said the action was in attestation of Alaafin Owoade’s supremacy battle with the Ooni of Ife. The anchor of the video was not only a pathological liar, but should be confined to dungeon of eternity for being heartless in dishing out such lies.

“What really happened was that the ancestral lineage of descendants of Oyotunji village in the USA is Oyo town. It was more than two occasions, during the reign of the late Alaafin, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi III , that the people of Oyotunji village traced their ancestral home to Oyo town and were given red carpet reception.

“When a new Alaafin was appointed and after the coronation, the Oyotunji monarch thought it expedient to pay congratulations visit to his ancestral royal father, which he did.

“He was well received by the Alaafin before his departure.

“Where then did this online medium defecating the social media space get its own story, if not a cooked up one. The video shown neither correlates nor synchronises with the anchor.

“What is more? How possible is it for the Alaafin to order the beating of a monarch who paid him a visit from a foreign village and with Oyo town as its ancestral home?

“However, to those who are bereft of Yoruba history, as a purveyor of authentic Yoruba traditions and given the responsibility of the Alaafin who is expected to be diplomatic, energetic and protective of his people could not have condescended so low as to have ordered his men to beat to a pulp father of a monarch from a village that belongs to Oyo in the United States of America.”

He said further, “Alaafin Owoade 1 is a royal father who puts emphasis on his own integrity, works to develop a strong ethical foundation with an understanding of Godly behaviour.”

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Bandits attack Kwara North, kill vigilante, six others

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Kwara State police spokesperson, SP Adetoun Ejire‑Adeyemi

Bandits attack Kwara North, kill vigilante, six others

Suspected bandits killed seven people—including a vigilante—in separate attacks on Sunday, April 21, 2025, in Ilesha Baruba and Kemanji communities of Baruten and Kaiama Local Government Areas, Kwara North Senatorial District.

According to the state police spokesperson, SP Adetoun Ejire‑Adeyemi, “The state police command is investigating two grievous incidents that occurred on Sunday, April 21, 2025, in Baruten and Kaiama Local Government Areas of the state.”

At around 9:30 p.m., ten armed men stormed the Ilesha Baruba Motor Park and opened fire on civilians gathered at a nearby relaxation spot. Six people—identified as Alhaji Ja’awire, AbdulJabar, Mohammed Nasamu, and three others—were killed, and two more suffered serious gunshot wounds.

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“The deceased have been deposited at the Ilesha Baruba Morgue for autopsy, while the injured are receiving treatment,” Ejire‑Adeyemi said.

Earlier that day, at about 11:30 a.m., a Kemanji-based vigilante group on patrol in the Kainji National Park area came under fire from suspected bandits.

In the ensuing exchange, three bandits were fatally wounded, and vigilante member Yusuf Samba “M” was shot and later succumbed to his injuries.

Ejire‑Adeyemi added that police have arrested an informant linked to the bandit network. “This individual has proven to be a valuable asset in advancing the investigation.”

The Kwara State Police Command has activated full security measures—including tactical teams, intensified surveillance, and intelligence‑led operations—to restore peace.

Residents are urged to cooperate with law enforcement and warned that anyone aiding or abetting crime will “face the full weight of the law.”

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