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  • Illegal emigrant narrates deadly experience in desert while trying to move to Europe
  • Sight of Mediterranean sea forced me to cancel trip to Italy

Twenty two years after walking through the valley of the shadow of death, in search of greener pastures, Stephen Onyekamma has remained terrified. Unlike those who by faith would confess they fear no evil when confronted with such pangs of death, reliving of his experience still sends shivers down the spines of Onyekamma.

As he narrated his experience in the sahara desert to Saturday Vanguard, Onyekamma would intermittently pause out of traumatic effect and in thanksgiving to God for sparing his life. Initially, he was reluctant about recounting the experience, as he insisted it was one he wouldn’t want to remember. But upon insistence by our correspondent, Onyekamma buckled.

 Journey to Libya

Six years after graduating from the Imo State University (IMSU), and after failed attempts to secure a job, Onyekamma decided to get out of Nigeria. That was in 1999. The graduate of Political Science had Italy as his destination country. Rather than following the right process of seeking visa into the European destination, he opted to go through the desert.

From Owerri, Onyekamma moved to Kebbi State and from Kebbi to Niger Republic. According to him, Niger Republic was a converging ground for those seeking to smuggle themselves into Europe through the desert. Unfortunately for the young graduate, he arrived Niger Republic in 1999 at a time he said the country was thrown into turmoil due to a coup d’ etat in which the country’s president was killed. Though he said he was aware of the coup, that however, could not deter him as he was desperate to hit the deadly desert. Waiting for the political unrest in Niger to subside could be a dream killer for him. Onyekamma therefore, resolved to weather the storm.

“After my graduation, I searched for job but couldn’t get. After six years, I decided to travel to Europe through the desert. My plan was to get to Libya, work a little and then move through the Mediterranean Sea to Italy.

“Before I left in 1999, I knew there was a coup in Niger, but I couldn’t wait, since I had already made up my mind to travel”.

Robbed in Niger

Onyekamma had undergone tutelage on how one could safeguard his money while in the desert. According to him, there were three available options – hiding the money in the collar of one’s dress while making the dress, or  opening the heel of a shoe to conceal it. The third option was to tie the money in a nylon and swallow it, with the hope of excreting it during the call of nature. All of these options however, could not save Onyekamma. While in Niger Republic trying to board a Libya bound vehicle, he ran into rebels who he said had seized control of part of the country. They stripped him of his belongings, forcing him to return to the capital city of Niger. The rebels had mastered the modus operandi of the emigrants.

“The first setback I had was being robbed by rebels in Niger. I hid my money in the collar of my shirt, but the fear of being killed would even make one to surrender the money willingly. Having lost all I had, I returned to the capital city to restrategize. I was in Niger for about two years to raise some money before I took off again”.

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Experience in the desert

Those who navigate through the desert do their best to get well equipped for the deadly journey. While water and snacks are desideratum, the transporters also go with mechanics, should the vehicle break down in the desert. However, there are very dreadful situations in which a vehicle that developed fault in the desert would require changing some parts.

This could be the most traumatizing fate that could befall anyone travelling through the desert. When such happens, Onyekamma said the driver and his crew would abandon the emigrants in the desert and make their way back to Niger with a promise of returning with the vehicle parts. In some cases, Onyekamma submitted that the emigrants were abandoned for weeks. In such cruel situation, the travellers are left stranded and at the mercy of death, as they run out of water and snacks. Dehydration would set in, and they would be ready to drink anything liquid, including urine, in a battle for survival. But would the urine even be available? Onyekamma said it was at the desert he realized men slide into dehydration faster than women.

“When you run out of water in the desert, you would be  desperate to drink anything liquid. It was at the desert I observed that a woman’s body had more water than that of a man. Men fell into dehydration faster than women. We begged women to try to urinate for us to drink to gain some strength. Whoever is able to urinate then, becomes a saviour.

“Out of every 50 persons going through the desert, only about 20 could survive”, he narrated.

Life in Libya

After about two weeks in the desert, Onyekamma finally arrived Libya. At the North African country, he went for training on vehicle alignment, and was able to master it within a short time. With the job, he could raise money to feed. But he was overcome by the sight of the terrifying Mediterranean Sea. He therefore, decided to go through the desert again to return to Nigeria, rather than heading to Italy.

“When I saw the boat they use in conveying people to Europe and the rampaging Mediterranean Sea, I became terrified and decided to return to Nigeria. I felt it was more dangerous stepping on the sea, than  returning to the desert. That was how I returned to Nigeria in 2005”.

Return to Nigeria

Today, Onyekamma, a father of five, having survived in the desert, believes nothing can kill him except God says it’s time. Unfortunately, he is yet to conquer money for which he soldiered through the desert. He is still struggling with the vicissitudes of life. While hoping that some day, life would get better, he holds that desert should never be an option for anyone who values life.

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Cleric Questions Airport Chapel Project, Demands Religious Parity

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Cleric Questions Airport Chapel Project, Demands Religious Parity

 

A wave of debate has followed a viral video in which an Islamic cleric, Alaramma Ismail Maiduguri, criticised the recent groundbreaking of an ecumenical chapel and pilgrimage centre at Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, raising concerns over what he described as perceived religious imbalance.

In the video, the cleric alleged that the project — which he speculated could cost as much as N25 billion — reflects unequal treatment of religious groups. While there has been no widely confirmed official figure for the project’s cost, the claim has nonetheless sparked conversation across social and religious circles.

Referencing reports that senior government officials, including George Akume and Festus Keyamo, were present at the ceremony, and that land allocation in the Federal Capital Territory falls under the supervision of Nyesom Wike, the cleric argued that the development raises questions about fairness in public infrastructure tied to religion.

He framed his position around equity, insisting that if such a facility is being supported — whether directly or indirectly — then comparable provision should be made for Muslims. He called for the allocation of land and resources for a mosque at the airport, maintaining that equal representation is essential in a religiously diverse country like Nigeria.

The cleric also referenced broader concerns about inclusivity under the administration of Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Kashim Shettima, suggesting that the development could reinforce existing anxieties around the Muslim-Muslim ticket — a political arrangement that has remained a subject of public discourse since the 2023 elections.

While acknowledging that Christians have the right to places of worship, he argued that fairness demands parallel opportunities for all faiths, particularly in shared national spaces such as airports.

The remarks also extended to broader national issues, with the cleric questioning what he perceives as uneven attention to victims of violence in different parts of the country. These claims, however, remain part of ongoing public debate and are not independently verified within the context of his statement.

Observers note that such reactions, while rooted in personal and group perspectives, highlight enduring sensitivities around religion, governance, and public resource allocation in Nigeria. They also underscore the need for transparency in government-backed or government-associated projects to prevent speculation and build public trust.

As discussions continue, the issue reflects a familiar national conversation: how to balance diversity, ensure fairness, and manage perception in a multi-religious society.

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Cleric in Anambra Faces Suspension for Staging ‘Miracles,’ False Prophecies

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Cleric in Anambra Faces Suspension for Staging ‘Miracles,’ False Prophecies

The Diocese of the Niger, Anglican Communion, has suspended a priest, Reverend Ifunanya Maduka of St. Paul’s Anglican Church, Nteje in Anambra State, over allegations of staging fake miracles and delivering false prophecies.

The suspension, which takes immediate effect, was conveyed in an official letter dated April 27, 2026, and signed by the Bishop on the Niger, Rt. Rev. Dr. Owen Nwokolo. According to the Church authorities, the cleric will serve a six-month suspension without pay following findings of conduct deemed grossly unbecoming of an ordained minister.

In the letter, the Diocese accused Rev. Maduka of orchestrating deceptive spiritual acts, including arranging and manipulating prophetic sessions and miracles with the involvement of individuals allegedly known to him and financially induced to participate. These acts were reportedly presented to congregants as genuine manifestations of divine power.

Church authorities further disclosed that when confronted with evidence of the alleged misconduct, the priest admitted to his involvement in the activities described as “unholy practices.”

The Diocese expressed strong disapproval of the actions, stating that they contradict the sacred duties and ethical standards expected of clergy within the Anglican Communion. It noted that such behavior raises serious ecclesiastical, moral, and disciplinary concerns, including deception of worshippers, abuse of the name of God, and actions that could be interpreted as obtaining money under false pretence.

“Such actions are wholly inconsistent with the calling, character, and sacred responsibilities of an ordained minister of the Gospel,” the statement read.

The Church also lamented the broader impact of the incident, stating that the alleged actions have brought dishonour to the Christian faith, undermined the integrity of the Diocese, and exposed the Church to public ridicule.

As part of the disciplinary measures, Rev. Maduka has been directed to hand over all church property, including records, documents, and keys, to the People’s Warden of the parish. He has also been instructed to vacate the church premises within four days of receiving the suspension notice.

The Diocese confirmed that a disciplinary panel will be set up to conduct a thorough investigation into the matter and recommend further actions in line with Church regulations.

The development has sparked conversations within the Christian community about accountability, integrity, and the need to uphold ethical standards in religious leadership.

 

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Bride Abandoned 24 Hours After Wedding as Groom Declares Marriage ‘a Mistake’

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Bride Abandoned 24 Hours After Wedding as Groom Declares Marriage ‘a Mistake’

A newlywed woman was left devastated after her husband abruptly ended their marriage just hours after their lavish wedding ceremony, in a shocking turn of events that has since drawn widespread attention online.

The incident, shared by a relative on a popular discussion forum, involved a couple described as childhood sweethearts in their mid-20s whose relationship had long been admired within their social circle. Their wedding, attended by more than 250 guests, was reportedly a grand affair, symbolising what many believed to be a perfect union.

However, the marriage unravelled almost immediately.

According to the account, the couple had barely begun their honeymoon journey when the groom made a startling confession. While seated on a flight to their destination, he reportedly turned to his bride and said, “This was a mistake,” before withdrawing completely and refusing further communication.

Upon arrival, the bride returned home on the next available flight, while the groom remained behind. It was later alleged that he spent his time at the honeymoon resort engaging in reckless behaviour, further compounding the emotional distress caused.

In the weeks that followed, the bride was left to manage the aftermath of the failed marriage, including returning wedding gifts and responding to guests, while coping with public embarrassment and personal heartbreak.

About a month later, the groom reportedly attempted to reconcile, offering explanations that he “wasn’t ready” for marriage and had felt pressured into the commitment. His efforts, however, were rejected.

The marriage was subsequently annulled.

Sources indicate that the former couple, who share overlapping social and academic networks, now face awkward encounters at public gatherings.

Despite the ordeal, the woman has since moved on with her life. She is now married with three children, a development many observers have described as a testament to her resilience.

The story has sparked varied reactions online, with some users questioning the pressures surrounding early marriage and others pointing to the complexities that can exist behind seemingly ideal relationships.

The incident serves as a reminder, commentators say, that outward appearances of perfection may mask deeper personal uncertainties within relationships.

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