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Fiancé of lady who called off wedding shares his own story

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David Okike and Helen Ozioma Michael

David Okike, the Nigerian man whose fiancée called off their wedding, has shared his own side of the story.

The Eagle Online had earlier reported that Helen Ozioma Michael, known as Ada Uburu on social media, from Ebonyi State, called off the wedding over alleged assault and maltreatment by her fiancé.

Taking to Facebook on Friday, Okike denied allegations of domestic violence against Ada Uburu, who he also referred to as Sandra Obi, claiming he never laid hands on her all through the eight years of their relationship.

He also claimed that she had terminated three pregnancies because, according to him, she did not want to have a child outside wedlock.

According to Okike, she is currently pregnant for him and he won’t collect the dowry he paid on her until she delivers the baby.

In the write up, titled: “MY ABORTED MARRIAGE WITH SANDRA OBI (Ada uburu); MY STORY,” Okike said: “Contrary to the statement my wife posted on her Facebook profile bearing Ada Uburu, which is currently trending, this is my story.

“Let me first clarify that we have dated for over 8 years and she bears Ada Uburu with her official name, Michael Helen Ozioma, and another identity – Sandra Obi, which she uses to suit her purpose of identification at a particular time.

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“Within these years, I have never on any occasion, irrespective of the level of provocation, raised my hand on her and this is because I respect and adore her.

“There was no such occurrence where I raised a knife, cutlass, and or harmer on her and it was shocking to read her fabrications in that regard.

“Accepted that there is no perfect relationship, I can’t deny the fact that we sometimes disagree but it never led to assault as she alleged.

“I make the above statements knowing that we were not leaving alone but surrounded by relatives which can as well serve as witnesses to how we lived while we were together in my house.

“My mother-in-law still keeps in touch to date. This goes to prove that she is on her own and doesn’t enjoy her family’s support in the destructive line she has towed.

“This is difficult for me to bring to the public domain but I am aware that he who asserts must prove and that silence sometimes means acceptance and as such, I am handicapped safe from letting the public into this issue.

“I am now certain that she isn’t the woman meant for me as She is more interested in tarnishing my image and ruining my reputation after swindling me and postponing our scheduled marriage for four consecutive times.

“To what gains exactly? Even after terminating three of my pregnancies without my consent. Why would a rational thinking woman keep quiet while I spend heavily on wedding arrangements when she was convinced she didn’t want the marriage to hold.

“She had always maintained that she never wanted a child before wedlock, which I accepted and respected her decision because of the love I have for her.

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“After paying her bride price in 2020, she took in and terminated the pregnancy at Federal Teaching Hospital, Abakaliki. That was the third pregnancy she terminated.

“I was pained and we had some misunderstanding and it got to a stage where my mother-in-law got worried if she could still get pregnant because of her series of abortions.

“Be it as it may, when we went for marriage counseling, the church decided that her condition doesn’t permit holy matrimony but rather marriage blessings, this got her unnecessarily worked up.

“She became hostile to me and got angry at any little provocation. It was the height of her frustration. She isn’t what I bargained for after all.

“The pictures I see all over the internet are misleading and a ploy to lead the general public astray.

“This is someone I have supported financially even to the extent of opening a pharmaceutical and poultry business for her, facilitated her covid 19 grants which she never gave me a dime from, rather she had her way and lavished it on her extravagant lifestyle.

“I thank God that she is taking this direction and I accept and respect her decision. But telling lies to play a victim, is way beyond normal and unacceptable.

“Regardless of what happened, she is having my child, and the Uburu tradition and culture don’t allow that I receive the dowry I paid as she is pregnant for me at present, when she delivered my child, I will surely receive my dowry.

“A woman with multiple identities.

“David Okike

“Husband to Sandra Obi.”

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Gunmen Kill Three in Jos Community Hours After Tinubu Visit

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Governor of Plateau State, Celeb Mutfwang
Governor of Plateau State, Celeb Mutfwang

Gunmen Kill Three in Jos Community Hours After Tinubu Visit

Gunmen have again struck in Jos, killing three residents just hours after the visit of Bola Ahmed Tinubu to Plateau State, deepening concerns over rising insecurity in Plateau and the effectiveness of ongoing security measures.

The latest attack occurred in Nyamgo Gyel, a community in Jos South Local Government Area, where residents said the victims were ambushed by armed men while returning home—highlighting a troubling pattern of attacks in Plateau communities.

The victims were identified as Luka Sandu Pam, 36, Samuel Davou, 38, and Deme Saidu, 35. They were reportedly riding on a motorbike when the assailants opened fire on them at close range, killing them instantly and leaving families devastated.

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Eyewitness accounts revealed that the victims were among a group of about 15 young men who had earlier gone to a mining site in Gero. Trouble began as they made their way back home and unknowingly walked into an ambush.

The Youth Leader of Gyel community, Dung Davou, confirmed the incident, describing it as sudden and chaotic.

“We started hearing sporadic gunshots, and everyone scattered. Unfortunately, three of our people were killed,” he said.

He alleged that the attackers were suspected armed herdsmen and condemned what he described as repeated and unprovoked attacks on the community. He called on security agencies to act swiftly to prevent further loss of lives.

Security sources in Plateau State have yet to release an official statement on the latest killings, but local residents say fear and tension have intensified, especially in rural settlements where such attacks often occur without warning.

The incident comes shortly after President Tinubu’s visit to the state capital, Jos, where he met with stakeholders and reassured citizens of the federal government’s commitment to restoring peace following a series of deadly attacks.

Despite these assurances, the renewed violence has raised fresh questions about security response effectiveness in Nigeria’s Middle Belt, a region long plagued by farmer-herder clashes, banditry, and communal conflicts.

Community leaders are now calling for increased military deployment, improved intelligence gathering, and stronger collaboration between security agencies and local vigilantes to curb the escalating violence.

In a related development, at least 10 people were reportedly killed and several others injured after gunmen attacked Angwan Rukuba community in Jos North Local Government Area last Sunday—one of several recent incidents underscoring the fragile security situation in the state.

Observers warn that continued attacks could worsen the humanitarian situation and displace more residents if urgent and sustained security interventions are not implemented.

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Amnesty International Condemns Wike Over ‘Violent Remark’ Against Journalist

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Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Minister, Nyesom Wike
Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Nyesom Wike

Amnesty International Condemns Wike Over ‘Violent Remark’ Against Journalist

Amnesty International has strongly criticised the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Nyesom Wike, over what it described as a reckless and violent remark allegedly made against a journalist during a live television interview.

The rights group raised the alarm in a statement posted on its official X (formerly Twitter) account on Saturday, warning that such comments could encourage attacks on journalists and further endanger press freedom in Nigeria.

The controversy followed Wike’s appearance on Channels Television, where he reacted strongly to remarks by journalist Seun Okinbaloye about concerns over Nigeria drifting toward a one-party state.

During the exchange, Wike reportedly said, “If there’s any way to break the screen, I would have shot him…”—a statement that has since sparked outrage among civil society groups and media advocates.

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Reacting, Amnesty International described the comment as “reckless and violent language”, warning that such rhetoric from a senior government official could normalise violence against journalists and expose media professionals to danger simply for doing their jobs.

The organisation also pointed out that the statement may violate Nigeria’s broadcasting standards regulated by the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission, which prohibits inciting or harmful speech on air.

According to Amnesty, the remark is “unlawful and unacceptable”, particularly coming from a member of the federal cabinet, and reflects a troubling pattern of hostility toward the media.

The group called on Wike to immediately retract the statement and issue a public apology, stressing that public officials must exercise restraint and responsibility in their public communication.

“Mr Wike must withdraw his violent statement immediately and apologise,” Amnesty said, reiterating the need to protect journalists’ safety and uphold democratic values.

The incident has triggered broader reactions from civil society organisations and media stakeholders, many of whom warn that inflammatory political rhetoric could intimidate journalists, weaken independent reporting, and undermine Nigeria’s democracy if not addressed.

Observers say the development highlights growing concerns over freedom of expression in Nigeria, urging authorities to reaffirm their commitment to safeguarding the media and ensuring journalists can operate without fear of threats or intimidation.

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Pastor Found Dead in Guest House After Night Out With Married Female Church Member

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Reverend Michael Kofi Appiah

Pastor Found Dead in Guest House After Night Out With Married Female Church Member

Reverend Michael Kofi Appiah, the founder of Light of Faith Ministry, was tragically found dead in a guest house in Takoradi, Ghana, following a night out with a female church member. The incident has sparked widespread concern and prompted an ongoing police investigation into the circumstances surrounding his death.

According to reports, Reverend Appiah and the woman checked into the guest house around 10:00 p.m., where they reportedly ordered food and drinks. Staff became alarmed later in the night after hearing unusual calls for help, only to discover the pastor unresponsive in his room. Authorities and medical personnel were promptly notified, and the pastor was confirmed dead at the scene.

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The exact cause of death remains unclear, and an autopsy has been scheduled to determine the circumstances. Police are currently gathering evidence and interviewing witnesses, while urging the public to avoid speculation as investigations continue.

The pastor’s sudden death has shocked church members and the wider community, prompting an outpouring of condolences on social media. Many have expressed grief over the loss of a preacher who had a significant impact in Takoradi and beyond.

Authorities have assured that a thorough and transparent investigation will be conducted to ascertain what led to the tragedy, including examining any possible foul play. Meanwhile, the pastor’s remains have been transferred to the morgue pending the outcome of official inquiries.

This incident comes amid rising concern over safety and accountability in public and private spaces, highlighting the need for careful monitoring and investigation whenever such sudden deaths occur.

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