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My wife has a caustic tongue, man seeking divorce tells court

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My wife has a caustic tongue, man seeking divorce tells court

A man, Kasali, has approached Grade A Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, asking it to end the relationship between him and his estranged wife, Kafayat, on the accounts of lack of love, verbal assault and constant fight.

Kasali stated that his marriage to Kafayat had hit the rock.

The plaintiff stated that the defendant had a caustic tongue and was in the habit of raining curses on him.

Kasali, in his divorce suit, also sought custody of two of their children with Kafayat, whom he stated are male and therefore needed to be groomed to be responsible men in the nearest future.

Kafayat agreed to divorce but refused that Kasali has custody of the said children.

The defendant explained that she had always being responsible for the welfare of their children, most especially in the area of their education.

She added that her husband rented a room for their two children in his custody who are teenagers thus exposing them to the vices in their community, because his first wife refused that they lived with her in his house.

Kasali, in his testimony, said, “My lord, my wife has made my life miserable.

“All I pray for is to be disengaged from our union because I no longer love her.

“Kafayat has a caustic tongue and has consistently rained curses on me.

“No man going about with such curses can ever make it in life.

“I do not want to wait till my wife ruins my life completely.

“She has made peace to desert me because of her constant fight.

“My wife will come to my house, shout on me, and turn the whole place upside down.

“Kafayat will then jump at me, hitting and punching me.

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“She has turned me to a source of ridicule in the presence of our neighbours and in the neighbourhood.

“I beg the court to grant me custody of our children under her care because she is not a good example to them and would lead them astray.”

Kafayat in her response said, “I agree to divorce. There is no point hanging on to a man of no worth.

“My lord, I plead with the court to rule that the two children my husband mentioned remain with me.

“I have always been responsible for the welfare of our four children.

“He has two of them with him, while the younger two are with me.

“My husband carries out no responsibility on our children.

“He would not pay their school fees nor buy them text books unless I sent money from Saudi Arabia where I was working.

“I am solely responsible for their feeding, education, and other necessary needs.

“My husband to my chagrin rented a room for our teenage children and left them there by themselves.

“According to him, his first wife refused that he brought them into his house

“He exposed our children to the vices in their community, and they are now almost getting out of hand.

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“He once handed one of our children over to a female leader in his church, who treated our child like a slave and hampered his education.

“I fought tooth and nail before he took him away from his spiritual mother.

“My lord, it is obvious that my husband has failed in his duty towards me and  our children.

“I appeal to the court to grant me custody of all our children so as to give them proper attention.

Ruling, the court president, Mrs S.M Akintayo, dissolved their wedlock.

According to her, the defendant readily acceded to divorce.

Akintayo stated that it was highly unconventional for a caring and rational father to rent an apartment for his underage children and leave them there to live by themselves, taking into consideration the security imbalances in the country and the exposure to youth delinquency.

She stated that the court had no option but to release the children to the parent willing and capable of providing them adequate care and maximum security.

Akintayo thus granted the defendant custody of their four children while the plaintiff was allowed access to them.

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Prison officer sentenced for engaging in sexual activity with inmate

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A 31-year-old prison officer, Linda De Sousa Abreu, has been sentenced to 15 months in prison for engaging in sexual activity with an inmate at HMP Wandsworth in London.

The incident, which took place on June 25, 2024, was recorded by another prisoner and later circulated widely on social media.

The footage, lasting nearly five minutes, led to De Sousa Abreu’s identification and subsequent investigation.

Authorities arrested De Sousa Abreu at Heathrow Airport on June 28, 2024, as she attempted to flee to Madrid. She had informed the prison of her resignation, stating she would not return to work.

De Sousa Abreu pleaded guilty to misconduct in a public office on July 29 last year. At her sentencing at Isleworth Crown Court on Monday, Judge Martin Edmunds KC described her actions as “immensely serious,” stating, “You engaged in sexual activity with a prisoner. That compromised your role as an officer and was misconduct which undermines discipline within the prison, putting fellow officers at increased risk.”

The court heard that De Sousa Abreu had a history of poor mental health and trauma. On the day of the incident, she had consented to the sexual activity and agreed to the presence of another inmate, who filmed the act while appearing to smoke cannabis. The video was later shared online without her consent, causing significant repercussions.

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Judge Edmunds acknowledged that De Sousa Abreu participated in the encounter with “evident enthusiasm” and had also engaged in sexual activity with the same inmate earlier that day, as well as on a prior occasion. He added: “Whether you intended it or not, the fact is that the video went viral and caused great harm.”

The fallout from the incident extended beyond De Sousa Abreu’s actions. Female officers at HMP Wandsworth reported increased abuse, harassment, and sexual advances from prisoners after the video’s release. Some officers’ children were also teased at school about their parents’ professions. Judge Edmunds remarked, “It is inevitable that the damage for which you were responsible at Wandsworth has spread, to some degree, through the prison estate.”

De Sousa Abreu’s 15-month sentence will see her serve half the time in custody, with the remainder on licence. She also received a 95-day reduction due to wearing an electronic tag for 190 days.

A spokesperson for the Prison Service condemned the incident, emphasising that such behaviour undermined the integrity of the system.

“While the overwhelming majority of Prison Service staff are hardworking and honest, we’re catching more of the small minority who break the rules by bolstering our Counter Corruption Unit and strengthening our vetting processes. As today’s sentencing demonstrates, where officers do fall below our high standards, we won’t hesitate to take robust action.”

Tetteh Turkson of the Crown Prosecution Service described De Sousa Abreu’s conduct as “a shocking breach of the public’s trust,” adding, “She was clearly an enthusiastic participant who wrongly thought she would avoid responsibility.”

 

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Container falls on tricycle in Ogbomoso, three die

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Tragedy struck in the Takie area of Ogbomoso, Oyo State when a container-laden truck lost control and fell on a commercial tricycle, crushing three people to d3ath.

The accident which occurred around 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday, January 7, 2025, at Takie Junction, trapped two female passengers and the tricycle rider under the fallen container.

According to eyewitness accounts, the truck lost control while navigating a bend, causing the container to topple and crush the tricycle beneath it.

Rescue officials later confirmed that all three victims had died.

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Efforts are ongoing to remove the container from the road to prevent further accidents and restore normal traffic flow in the area.

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Police arrest ex-convict, two others plotting to burgle Minna shop

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Police arrest ex-convict, two others plotting to burgle Minna shop

Operatives of the Niger State Police Command have arrested three notorious armed robbers including an ex-convict planning to burgle a provision store in Minna.

Spokesperson of the command, SP Wasiu Abiodun, who disclosed this in a statement on Monday, January 6, 2025, said the suspects were arrested in a hotel room based on credible intelligence.

According to the PPRO, the ex-convict, Jibrin Ndako, 19, was recently released from prison for motorcycle theft.

“In a continuous effort of the Niger State Police Command to stem the tide of crime and criminality in the State, the following arrests were made; on 4/01/2025 at about 6pm, based on a credible intelligence received, police operatives attached to Tudun-Wada Div arrested three suspected notorious armed robbers and burglars who are; Jibrin Ndako 19yrs of Barikin-Sale, Haruna Abubakar 20yrs of Angwan-Kamfani and Aliyu Abdullahi 18yrs of Kpakungu, Minna,” the statement read.

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“The suspects were arrested in a hotel along Eastern Bye-Pass, Minna where they lodged in a room and they were found with dangerous weapons of three cutlasses and one industrial iron cutter.

“During interrogation, Jibrin Ndako who had just returned from a jail term for the offence of theft of motorcycles, narrated that he met his accomplices from Agaie and brought them to Minna to join him in breaking a targeted provision store located at Barikin-Sale Minna before their arrest by the Police.

“The suspects have been transferred to State Police Headquarters, Minna for further investigation and diligent prosecution.

“The suspects are still undergoing preliminary investigations at the Div and they will soon be transferred to SCID Minna for further investigation and diligent prosecution.”

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