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My wife has a caustic tongue, man seeking divorce tells court

A man, Kasali, has approached Grade A Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, asking it to end the relationship between him and his estranged wife, Kafayat, on the accounts of lack of love, verbal assault and constant fight.

Kasali stated that his marriage to Kafayat had hit the rock.

The plaintiff stated that the defendant had a caustic tongue and was in the habit of raining curses on him.

Kasali, in his divorce suit, also sought custody of two of their children with Kafayat, whom he stated are male and therefore needed to be groomed to be responsible men in the nearest future.

Kafayat agreed to divorce but refused that Kasali has custody of the said children.

The defendant explained that she had always being responsible for the welfare of their children, most especially in the area of their education.

She added that her husband rented a room for their two children in his custody who are teenagers thus exposing them to the vices in their community, because his first wife refused that they lived with her in his house.

Kasali, in his testimony, said, “My lord, my wife has made my life miserable.

“All I pray for is to be disengaged from our union because I no longer love her.

“Kafayat has a caustic tongue and has consistently rained curses on me.

“No man going about with such curses can ever make it in life.

“I do not want to wait till my wife ruins my life completely.

“She has made peace to desert me because of her constant fight.

“My wife will come to my house, shout on me, and turn the whole place upside down.

“Kafayat will then jump at me, hitting and punching me.

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“She has turned me to a source of ridicule in the presence of our neighbours and in the neighbourhood.

“I beg the court to grant me custody of our children under her care because she is not a good example to them and would lead them astray.”

Kafayat in her response said, “I agree to divorce. There is no point hanging on to a man of no worth.

“My lord, I plead with the court to rule that the two children my husband mentioned remain with me.

“I have always been responsible for the welfare of our four children.

“He has two of them with him, while the younger two are with me.

“My husband carries out no responsibility on our children.

“He would not pay their school fees nor buy them text books unless I sent money from Saudi Arabia where I was working.

“I am solely responsible for their feeding, education, and other necessary needs.

“My husband to my chagrin rented a room for our teenage children and left them there by themselves.

“According to him, his first wife refused that he brought them into his house

“He exposed our children to the vices in their community, and they are now almost getting out of hand.

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“He once handed one of our children over to a female leader in his church, who treated our child like a slave and hampered his education.

“I fought tooth and nail before he took him away from his spiritual mother.

“My lord, it is obvious that my husband has failed in his duty towards me and  our children.

“I appeal to the court to grant me custody of all our children so as to give them proper attention.

Ruling, the court president, Mrs S.M Akintayo, dissolved their wedlock.

According to her, the defendant readily acceded to divorce.

Akintayo stated that it was highly unconventional for a caring and rational father to rent an apartment for his underage children and leave them there to live by themselves, taking into consideration the security imbalances in the country and the exposure to youth delinquency.

She stated that the court had no option but to release the children to the parent willing and capable of providing them adequate care and maximum security.

Akintayo thus granted the defendant custody of their four children while the plaintiff was allowed access to them.

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Akpabio to represent Tinubu at Pope Francis funeral

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Akpabio to represent Tinubu at Pope Francis funeral

President Bola Tinubu has sent a five-member delegation to the funeral of Pope Francis, the head of the Roman Catholic Church, scheduled for Saturday in Vatican City.

The special adviser to the president on information and strategy, Bayo Onanuga, said in a statement on Friday that Senate President Godswill Akpabio would head the high-level delegation.

The delegation also includes the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Bianca Ojukwu; the president of the Catholic Bishops Conference of Nigeria, Archbishop Lucius Iwejuru Ugorji; the Archbishop of Sokoto Diocese, Archbishop Matthew Kukah; and the Archbishop of Abuja Diocese, Archbishop Ignatius Kaigama.

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Mr Onanuga said, “The delegation will formally deliver a letter conveying President Tinubu’s sympathy and condolences on Pope Francis’ passing to the acting head of the Vatican.

“On Monday, President Tinubu joined the Catholic faithful and Christians worldwide to mourn the death of Pope Francis, whom he described as a humble servant of God, a tireless champion of the poor, and a guiding light for millions.”

He quoted Mr Tinubu as saying that the 88-year-old pontiff’s death last Monday, which came after the celebration of Jesus Christ’s resurrection, represents his sacred return to his Maker.

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Rivers Sole administrator finally appears before Reps, seeks more time

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Rivers Sole administrator finally appears before Reps, seeks more time

The Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ibas (rtd.), has finally met with the House of Representatives Ad-Hoc Committee investigating the declaration of a state of emergency in the state.

Ibas, who had missed two earlier invitations, appeared before the lawmakers at the National Assembly on Friday and requested a fresh date for a more detailed briefing.

Before the session moved behind closed doors, Ibas addressed the committee led by House Leader, Prof. Julius Ihonvbere. He began by expressing appreciation for the panel’s efforts in upholding democratic principles and offered an explanation for his previous absences.

He said the earlier non-appearances were not intentional but resulted from the challenges of administering a state under emergency, compounded by the timing of public holidays and weekends.

“The absence, of course, was not out of disregard, but rather due to the weighty and urgent demands of stabilising governance in a state under a declared emergency,” Ibas stated.

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He noted that while the security and political atmosphere in Rivers had improved, it remained fragile, necessitating a well-prepared and comprehensive engagement with the committee.

“The situation in Rivers State was relatively calm, but still fragile,” he said, while requesting more time to properly brief the panel.

Following the meeting, the committee issued a statement acknowledging Ibas’s apology and confirming that a new date would be set for the postponed engagement.

“The Committee has magnanimously accepted his apology,” the statement read, adding that Ibas had earlier sent a formal letter of regret and had shown “respect and responsibility” by attending the session in person.

The committee also reiterated its resolve to carry out its assignment objectively and within the bounds of its constitutional duties, citing Sections 11(4) and 88 of the 1999 Constitution. It called on all stakeholders to remain cooperative and supportive of the inquiry, stressing the importance of democratic governance and national stability.

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Omokri : How Tinubu’s political mastery started with Abiola, says El-Rufai, Obi’s forces can’t stop him

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Omokri : How Tinubu’s political mastery started with Abiola, says El-Rufai, Obi’s forces can’t stop him

Reno Omokri, a former aide to ex-President Goodluck Jonathan, has credited President Bola Tinubu with playing a key role in the victory of the late Chief MKO Abiola during the annulled 1993 presidential election.

In a Facebook post on Thursday, Omokri argued that Tinubu’s influence and political acumen stretch far beyond recent elections, noting that opposition figures such as former Kaduna State governor Nasir El-Rufai and 2023 Labour Party presidential candidate Peter Obi lack the momentum to challenge Tinubu’s reelection in 2027.

“The recent seismic political realignments in Nigeria in favour of President Bola Tinubu should not surprise students of history,” Omokri wrote.

“Historical context is required to understand President Bola Tinubu. He did not start winning almost impossible-to-win elections in 2023. He is a veteran of such odds stacked against you elections.”

Omokri emphasized Tinubu’s pivotal role in Abiola’s 1993 campaign:”Many people forget or do not even know that then-Senator Bola Tinubu was Chief MKO Abiola’s right-hand man, helping him strategise and win the famed June 12, 1993 election upset.”

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He continued, “For roles requiring trust, with perhaps the exception of his son, Kola, and his late wife, Kudirat, there was nobody Chief Abiola looked to politically above then-Senator Tinubu. Even his political foe, Alhaji Sule Lamido, recently and grudgingly admitted it during an interview.”

Omokri described Tinubu as a uniquely skilled politician:”Hate him or love him, President Bola Tinubu is the best politician in Nigeria. He understands human nature, anticipates betrayal before it happens, and plans ahead for it.

“He also forgives easily, where there is repentance, and is able to work on the basis of no permanent enemy or friend but permanent interests.”

According to Omokri, Tinubu’s strength lies in his personal approach to politics:”But perhaps his biggest selling point is his relationship building abilities. The man knows how to reach out and touch people at the point of their need instead of waiting to get them by appealing to their greed, like his opponents.”

Looking ahead to the next general election, Omokri expressed confidence in Tinubu’s political future:”As long as God spares his life, I do not see anyone who can stop his reelection in 2027. Certainly not Nasir el-Rufai, who could not deliver his state to the APC when he was in office, how much more now that he is an out of office has been.”

He concluded with sharp criticism of Obi’s political approach:”And neither can Peter Obi, who has been exposed as an Islam-hating ‘Yes Daddy’ opportunistic politician.”

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