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Updated: Sex-starved husband cries out as wife threatens to date another woman
Updated: Sex-starved husband cries out as wife threatens to date another woman
Eighteen years ago, Ishaq Ojo exchanged marital vows with his wife, Awawu. But the love between the couple flipped recently sending the once happy couple on a warring path that has shattered their matrimony.
In a video recording exclusively obtained by our reporter, Ojo is seen frantically crying for help while struggling to break free from the grip of his wife, who is threatening to dispatch him into early grave.
The couple’s daughter (name withheld) and a female relative of Awawu are also heard pleading with Awawu to stop attacking Ojo.
The recorded incident occurred at the couple’s home in Obide-Ntabo Ibaragun near Ijoko area of Ado-Odo/Ota Local Government Area, Ogun State.
“I will make sure that I kill you. I have been told to kill you and I will kill you. It is today that you will die…” Awawu threatened in the video recording.
Ojo on his part is seen screaming: “She has bitten me again! She has smashed my mobile phone on the ground…Please, don’t kill me!”
Their daughter is also heard saying: “My mother, please don’t kill him… I beg you in the name of God, consider the fact that both of you have been taking care of me.”
Speaking with our reporter, Ojo, who works with a Lagos-based television station as a cameraman, explained that the recording captured moments when Awawu drew a kitchen knife and went after him after trying unsuccessfully to suffocate him with a pillow.
He said he was left with no choice but to cry out for help.
The embattled husband said: “I fled home more than two weeks ago when she brought out a knife and threatened to kill me.
“Our daughter and one of my wife’s sisters, who were around, were the ones holding her back from stabbing me with the knife. Hence, I fled home for my dear life.
“I had barely returned from work that day when she stirred up an altercation, and before I knew it, she went into the kitchen, brought out a knife and tried to stab me.”
But what actually turned Ojo and Awawu into estranged couple after almost a decade in marriage? Ojo offered an insight, saying that his wife suddenly forbid him from mating with her, giving various excuses.
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He said: “She sells building materials and I was responsible for setting her up in the business.
“The genesis of this crisis is that I took a second wife after she deliberately denied me sex for more than six months.
“She had been threatening to kill me even before she found out about the new woman in my life.
“She actually trailed my new woman to her residence where she threatened that she would deal with her if she did not desist from seeing me.
“I decided to take a second wife after she stopped me from making love to her for six months.
“First, she told me she was having sex with other men outside, including an hotelier, who is one of her rich customers and that I can no longer make love to her.
“At another time, she told me that she usually experienced low sales and patronage in her business each time I had sex with her. Hence, she denied me sex at home.
“She continued to assault me each time I tried to make love to her.
“She had used a screwdriver to stab me and also bit me with her teeth several times. The scars are all over my body.”
Ojo explained further that he once reported his wife to some Muslim clerics, who intervened and pleaded with her to no avail.
“When I invited some Muslim clerics who taught her the Koran to talk to her, she again said that she usually suffered misfortune in her business whenever we had sex and that was the reason she denied me of sex.
“The clerics told her that she was wrong to have denied me sex but she turned a deaf ear to their admonitions.
“I was advised by people to leave my home for her because she could kill me one day.
“After she found out about my new wife, she started asking me to make love to her everyday.
“However, if I refused that sex should not be an everyday thing, she would assault me and threaten to deal with me if I did not quit my affair with my new wife, especially after she found that I had impregnated the lady and she was delivered of a baby.
”She held me by the throat and attempted to suffocate me with a pillow. And when I managed to free my neck from her grip, I ran out of the house.
“She then went to report to the police at the Agbado Police Division that I assaulted her just to prevent me from attending the naming of the baby my new wife had for me.
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“I was arrested and detained, and she asked that I should be charged to court for assault.
“Even when the policemen there told her that the penalty for assault is seven years imprisonment, she insisted that I must be prosecuted.
“My family members and friends pleaded with her and the police, I was freed after the police forced me to sign an undertaking that I would never assault her again and that I must desist from seeing my new wife and baby henceforth.
“She also took the matter to a monarch in Ota where she was cautioned about her attitude and asked to stop hostility with me.
“Dissatisfied, she took the matter to a radio programme and maligned my person.
“She is from Ibadan. She is about 46 years old and its very disturbing how she changed overnight.
Sometime ago, she woke me in the wee hours and confessed that she was seeing a rich hotelier who happened to be one of her customers and that she had sex several times with the man. I could not believe my ears and I was devastated.
“A few days later, she changed the story, saying that she was only trying to gauge my reaction and was not dating the hotelier.
“Later, she said that a spirit husband was making love to her while sleeping and that she could no longer have sex with me. I was no longer having any peace of mind at home.
“I am the owner of my house at Obide Ntabo community in Ado-Odo/Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State. But I needed to leave the home to save myself from untimely death from my cruel wife.
“She has two I could children for me; a boy and a girl. I could not have raised my hand against her because I know that she is a sickle cell patient. But she is cruel at home, not minding her fragile health.”
Ojo added: ”The Baale (head) of our community heard about the matter on a radio programme when my wife reported me. But when the Baale asked her about it, she denied being the one mentioned, saying that nothing was wrong with her marriage.
“However, when the Baale called me on the phone I opened up to him that the matter was about me and my wife and that she actually took the matter to a radio programme.
“It was then that she now told the Baale that she denied being the one mentioned on the radio programme because she did not want her domestic matter to gain public traction, especially in our neighbourhood.
Awawu could not be reached through calls and text messages to get her comments.
Source: The Nation
Updated: Sex-starved husband cries out as wife threatens to date another woman
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Cybercrime Trial: Court Orders Arrest of Omoyele Sowore
Cybercrime Trial: Court Orders Arrest of Omoyele Sowore
The Federal High Court in Abuja has ordered the arrest of activist and presidential candidate of the African Action Congress (AAC), Omoyele Sowore, after he failed to appear in court for the continuation of his ongoing cybercrime trial involving alleged defamatory social media posts against President Bola Tinubu.
Sowore is standing trial before Justice Mohammed Umar on a two-count charge filed by the Department of State Services (DSS) under the Cybercrimes (Prohibition, Prevention, Etc.) (Amendment) Act, 2024. The charges stem from posts he allegedly made on his verified X (formerly Twitter) and Facebook accounts, in which he referred to President Tinubu as a “criminal” following a public statement made by the President during a foreign visit.
At Tuesday’s resumed hearing, Sowore was expected to open his defence after previously pleading not guilty during his arraignment on December 2, 2025. However, he was absent from court. He had earlier informed the court in a letter that he travelled to Lagos in search of legal representation after his legal team withdrew from the case, leaving him to temporarily represent himself.
Following an application by DSS counsel, Justice Umar revoked the bail earlier granted to Sowore and issued a bench warrant for his arrest, ordering that he be produced before the court to continue trial proceedings. The court noted that the defendant had been previously warned that failure to attend proceedings—especially under the ongoing day-to-day trial schedule—could result in bail being withdrawn.
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The DSS alleged that Sowore’s posts, made on August 25, 2025, were capable of inciting public disorder and were intentionally designed to damage the reputation of the President. According to the charge sheet, the posts described President Tinubu in strong language and were published across Sowore’s official social media handles on both X and Facebook.
The prosecution further argued that the statements amounted to cyberstalking and were capable of causing a breakdown of law and order under Sections 24(1)(b) and 24(2)(a), (b), and (c) of the Cybercrimes Act. Evidence tendered includes screenshots of the posts, digital records, and correspondence between the DSS and Sowore requesting deletion of the content.
The DSS had earlier written to X (formerly Twitter) and Meta Platforms Inc., demanding the removal of the posts and requesting the suspension of Sowore’s accounts. It also directly contacted Sowore, urging him to delete the posts from all platforms. While X and Meta were initially included as co-defendants in the case, they were later removed in an amended charge filed before the court.
Before the latest hearing, Sowore had also filed a motion requesting that Justice Umar recuse himself from the case, alleging bias and citing what he described as unfair treatment of his lawyers. He claimed that his legal team withdrew due to intimidation and the court’s decision to adopt a day-to-day hearing process, which he argued contributed to their unwillingness to continue representation. In the meantime, Sowore informed the court that he would represent himself until he secured new counsel. Justice Umar has not ruled on the recusal application and has continued with proceedings in the matter.
The court has adjourned the case for further hearing, with the DSS insisting that the defendant has a case to answer under the Cybercrimes (Prohibition, Prevention, Etc.) (Amendment) Act, 2024. Sowore remains the sole defendant following the withdrawal of X and Meta Platforms from the amended charge.
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Gunmen Kill Two Soldiers, Police Officer in Plateau Midnight Raid
Gunmen Kill Two Soldiers, Police Officer in Plateau Midnight Raid
Suspected gunmen attacked the National Institute for Policy and Strategic Studies (NIPSS) in Kuru, near Jos, Plateau State, on Monday night, killing three security operatives in an attempt to breach the nation’s premier policy institution. The assault began around 11:40 p.m. on June 15, when armed men stormed the facility and opened fire on security personnel stationed at the gate. This triggered a fierce exchange of gunfire as security operatives mounted swift resistance to prevent the attackers from gaining deeper access to the premises.
The attack resulted in the deaths of three security personnel, including two soldiers attached to the institute’s security detail and one police officer serving as an orderly to a retired Deputy Inspector-General of Police. According to sources, the slain police officer was assigned to a retired DIG, while the two soldiers died during the exchange of fire that followed the attempted breach. A staff member of the institute, speaking on condition of anonymity, confirmed that security operatives engaged the assailants in a fierce confrontation to prevent them from gaining access to the institution. The swift response of security forces prevented the gunmen from penetrating deeper into the facility or reaching the residential quarters where course participants were lodged. One resident recounted, “I was sleeping when I heard gunshots. I didn’t know what to make of it, but when I woke up, I discovered it was real because the gunshots had already caused commotion within the NIPSS. It turned out that the institution was under attack.”
The attack caused widespread panic in Kuru and surrounding communities in Jos South Local Government Area. Bulus Haruna, a resident of Kuru, told reporters that the sustained gunfire shattered the night’s silence and threw residents of Kuru, Vom—home to the National Veterinary Research Institute (NVRI)—and other communities into apprehension, as heavy shooting echoed for several minutes and left many fearing for their safety.
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The NIPSS management confirmed the security incident in a statement issued early Tuesday by the Head of Public Affairs Department, Dr. Osime Samuel. In the statement, the institute informed the public that a security incident had occurred in the vicinity of the Institute in the early hours of the day, but noted that the situation was promptly brought under control through the swift response of security personnel and relevant security agencies. The institute assured the public that there is no threat to the safety of participants, staff, residents, or facilities, and that normal activities are continuing as scheduled. However, the institute cautioned against speculation, stating it would be “premature to speculate on the nature, scope, or outcome of the event” and that it is “unable to confirm details currently circulating on social media and other unofficial platforms.”
Security agencies have commenced investigations to determine the circumstances surrounding the incident. The Plateau State Police Command spokesperson, SP Alfred Alabo, confirmed the attack and stated that an investigation has been launched. Security presence around the institution has been significantly reinforced, and manhunt operations are underway to identify and apprehend those responsible. As of press time, the motive behind the attack remained unclear.
NIPSS Kuru is Nigeria’s foremost policy institution responsible for training senior government officials, military officers, technocrats, and policy strategists drawn from across the country. The institute plays a critical role in shaping public policy and governance frameworks in Nigeria, making it a significant national asset. The attack on such a high-profile institution has raised concerns about security around strategic government facilities in Plateau State and the broader North-Central region.
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Why I Have Not Resumed as Ambassador to Mexico — Reno Omokri
Why I Have Not Resumed as Ambassador to Mexico — Reno Omokri
Nigeria’s ambassador-designate to Mexico, Reno Omokri, has dismissed reports suggesting that the Mexican government rejected his diplomatic appointment, insisting that the delay in his resumption is purely administrative and linked to Mexico’s preparations for the 2026 FIFA World Cup.
Speaking during an appearance on Channels Television’s Politics Today, the former presidential aide described claims of his rejection as politically motivated narratives designed to misrepresent the realities of diplomatic engagements between nations.
According to Omokri, Mexico is currently focused on its responsibilities as one of the co-hosts of the 2026 FIFA World Cup, alongside the United States and Canada, a development he said has slowed several routine government processes, including diplomatic protocols involving newly appointed foreign ambassadors.
“Mexico has not rejected me. Not at all. You should understand that Mexico is currently hosting the World Cup alongside the United States of America, and all their focus is on that,” Omokri said during the interview.
The ambassador-designate explained that his situation is not unique, noting that several Nigerian envoys appointed by President Bola Ahmed Tinubu are yet to resume their assignments abroad because they are still awaiting the completion of diplomatic formalities required by their host countries.
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“Most of us ambassadors have not resumed. So, I’m not the only one. A lot of my colleagues are in my situation, but it’s okay. These things happen,” he stated.
Omokri maintained that reports alleging his rejection by Mexico were being amplified by political opponents and lacked any official basis.
“The opposition will always say things like I have been rejected. We do not work on the basis of the opposition. We work on the basis of reality,” he added.
The controversy surrounding his appointment gained traction after reports emerged that some diaspora groups had allegedly petitioned Mexican authorities to reject his nomination, citing concerns over his past political positions and public comments. However, there has been no official communication from the Mexican government indicating that Omokri’s appointment has been rejected.
Under international diplomatic practice, an ambassador-designate cannot formally assume office until the receiving country grants agrément, a diplomatic approval that signifies acceptance of the envoy. The process is standard across the world and can take weeks or months depending on the host country’s internal procedures and priorities.
Omokri was among the 65 ambassadors-designate whose postings were approved by President Tinubu as part of efforts to strengthen Nigeria’s diplomatic representation across the globe. His nomination attracted significant public attention due to his political evolution from being a vocal critic of Tinubu to becoming one of the administration’s prominent supporters.
The former presidential aide has repeatedly defended his decision to serve in the administration, stating that national service should transcend political differences.
During the interview, Omokri also took a swipe at opposition politicians, arguing that political instability within opposition ranks weakens their chances against the ruling government.
“How can you say a man who has been in three political parties in six months is going to defeat a president who has been stable politically since 1989?” he asked.
Until the necessary diplomatic procedures are concluded and his credentials are formally accepted, Omokri remains Nigeria’s ambassador-designate to Mexico and is expected to assume office once the host country completes the required approval process.
Why I Have Not Resumed as Ambassador to Mexico — Reno Omokri
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