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How I became pregnant for my husband’s 17-year-old son, by Nasarawa housewife

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Justina and her baby,the late Godwin and Donald

It was a cool evening at the Lafia township stadium on Thursday, November 26 and Mrs Justina Agbumi sat with other fun seekers to watch the evening training of Nasarawa United football players.

But while everyone else seemed to be having fun as they watched the professional footballers juggle the ball, the same did not seem to be the case with Justina as she sat quietly, looking sober.

Her pensive mien was in contrast with the gay mood of the nine-month-old baby in her bosom as he suck away playfully on a bottle of soft drink.

Justina has virtually turned into a recluse after the painful death of her husband and her abominable act with a young man her husband had with another woman outside wedlock.

Seeing that she was childless for 19 years after she got married to her husband, Donald Agbumi, and curious to establish whether she was indeed barren, she decided to put her fertility to test with the young man that was staying with them, not knowing that the young man in question is the biological son of her husband.

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It was the culmination of a game of deceit between the couple as Donald had brought in the young man and introduced him to Justina as one of his relatives from the village.

The efforts our correspondent made for one week to speak with Justina after a hint of the incident was dropped by one of her neighbours finally yielded result on Thursday at the Lafia township stadium where she agreed to speak about the matter.

Justina revealed how their relationship which was once the envy of many became laced with frustration, hate and abuse, such that neighbours and friends became peacemakers before the marriage was dissolved.

In an emotive voice, she recalled that with assault, name calling, abuse and starvation, the past 15 years had been the worst of her life simply because they didn’t have a child.

“It got to a point that I asked myself if I was still living with the same man I married.

“He suddenly became a beast, calling me barren, harlot and useless, just because I couldn’t take in,” she said as she fought back tears.

She continued: “He was my best friend before we got married. We were ready to have children as quickly as possible so we could move on.

“But after five years and more, there was nothing. I didn’t take in, so I became worried.

“We went for several tests but we were told I had no problem but my husband had low sperm count and he needed to regulate his diet, which we did, but nothing changed.

“Because he is the only son, his mother had already become hostile to me, visiting regularly from the village while my husband also joined her in frustrating me.

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“Before then, I visited places my faith would ordinarily not permit to, because all I wanted was a child. Yet nothing came out of it.

“That was how I started living alone. I cried daily but that didn’t bring any succour.

One day, I got an idea and decided to test my fertility with another man. I realised that would be adultery of the highest order, but I also felt it would be lesser sin if it was with my husband’s relation who was staying with us. I drew the young man closer and made him my best friend since my husband had stopped making love to me for close to seven months.

“Luring Godwin to start sleeping with me was a difficult decision but I was also considering my age.

“I had never cheated on my husband before, but I had reached the limit of my endurance and the circumstances around me was not in my favour.

“I concluded that I would test my fertility through Godwin.

“I had seem Godwin’s crotch during house cleaning, so I realised that his manhood was big enough to give me satisfaction, though he was only about 17 years old.

“I started admiring him anytime my husband went to work. I would summon courage and make advances to him, drawing him closer to me with petty items.

“In no time, he succumbed and we started having sex, though he was not too perfect because he had not been into it.

“But I was teaching him. I also warned him never to reveal it and threatened to kill him if he opened up to anybody.

“We progressed in that direction, especially during my ovulation period. In no distant time, he was able to impregnate me. I missed my period three months after.

“I was very happy that the plan to test my fertility worked and that what my husband could not do for years, Godwin did within a short time.

“One fortunate thing was that Godwin himself did not know that he was responsible for it.

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“Unfortunately for me, I didn’t know that Godwin was actually the biological son of my husband. The entire family hid it from me so that I would not victimise him.”

A twist had occurred in the matter when Godwin secured admission into the College of Education Akwanga and was travelling to commence registration when he had an accident that claimed his life.

“He died before I was delivered of a baby boy,” Justina said.

“When Godwin was buried, I did not attend his burial because I was not strong enough to travel to the village as I was heavily pregnant.

“But after his burial, I noticed that my husband was sad and affected by Godwin’s untimely death. He was affected psychologically so much that it almost cost him his job.

“He ceased to be a happy man, even when I delivered a baby boy for him.

“I made several attempts to discuss with him about the future of our new born baby, but it never interested him, because deep inside him, he knew he was not responsible for the pregnancy and was only pretending.

“The man was not happy at all. One morning, precisely in October this year, my husband abruptly woke me up and broke down in tears, but he was unable to tell me the cause of his misery.

“After about 40 minutes later, he was calm enough to tell me why he was crying.

“He started by apologising to me for not telling me from day one that the late Godwin was actually his biological son.

“He said that while growing up many years ago, he had an affair with a girl which resulted in pregnancy and the girl refused to abort it. She gave birth to Godwin and his mother brought him up.

“So when he met me and I showed serious dislike for any man who already had a child out of wedlock, he decided to hide it from me in order not to lose me.

“He said he didn’t know how to tell me about it all these years. He said he had wanted to reject the pregnancy but his parents took responsibility while he proceeded with his studies.

“He said that when he started working after his studies, he decided that the boy should come and stay with us so that I could train him. But he hid his true identity from me to avoid victimization.

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“My husband again burst into tears that the late Godwin was his only son and that he knew full well that he was not responsible for the pregnancy that brought the new born baby boy.

“He pleaded with me to tell him the true father of the new born baby because we did not engage in any lovemaking in the period preceding the pregnancy.”

Justina said she realised at that point that lying would further complicate the situation, “so I decided to come clean.

“I burst into tears and cried uncontrollably. I found it difficult to explain to him since he had been plain with me at the late hour.

“I knelt down before him in tears and confessed to him that the late Godwin, his own son, was the father of my new born baby

“I pleaded with him to forgive me of all my sins; that it was an attempt to save my marriage and bear a child for him, and that I thought that rather than going outside, I should test my fertility with his relation to know whether the fault was from me or from him.

“I pleaded with him to forgive me of all my sins, saying that I took that course of action to protect the marriage and the consolation is that the new baby boy would replace his son, since it is his late son’s blood.”

According to Justina, her husband’s initial reaction was anger as he said he could not imagine his son sleeping with his wife to the point of impregnating her, and his wife allowing such to happen under the same roof.

Since their mutual confession on October 2021, however, their life has not remained the same as their previous cat and dog relationship deteriorated further.

She said: “He (Donald) kept emaciating. He hardly talked and was not excited about the new baby.

“We hardly talked and he hardly responded to my conversation. At a point, I was afraid that he might kill my son. His aloofness really worried me, so I ran out of the house to one of my uncles who also stays in town.

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“Two days after, precisely on the 27th of October, my husband slept and died in his sleep.

“Now his people are saying I might have been responsible for his death, and they are threatening to kill me too,” she said amid tears.

Justina added: “My brother, I am not myself. I am confused. I don’t deserve to be alive again, so I’m contemplating suicide because my effort to give my husband a child has ruined my life.

While it was difficult to confront the two families due to the calamity that befell them, our correspondent managed to speak with the late Donald’s mother, and she said: “She (Justina) killed my only son.

“From day one when we realised she could not conceive, we asked her to go but she refused.

“She brought instability into my son’s life which led to his death.

“My son told me all that happened before he died.”

She refused to talk further in spite of promptings from our correspondent.

Justina’s uncle, Mr Stephen, told our correspondent that he would not say anything “until after the burial of my sister’s husband.

“But for now, she is staying with me. Let them prove that she was responsible for her husband’s death.

“I will consult with our parents, particularly our father, because our mother is not alive.”

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Nigerian military’s X account hacked as attackers push crypto scam

The official X account of Nigeria’s Defence Headquarters (DHQ), @DHQNigeria, has been compromised, with hackers using the platform to promote a cryptocurrency scam to its nearly one million followers.

The account, which had about 982,900 followers, was taken over on Saturday, with unauthorised posts promoting Firelight FXRP rewards and directing users to a cryptocurrency claims portal.

The breach was confirmed by the Defence Headquarters in a statement signed by the Director of Defence Information, Major General Samaila Uba.

Uba said the military was treating the incident as a cybersecurity matter and had activated measures to secure the account and prevent further unauthorised activity.

He urged Nigerians to disregard any “suspicious, unauthorised or misleading content” published through the account while efforts continued to restore full control.

The DHQ also advised members of the public, journalists and other stakeholders to rely on its verified accounts on other social media platforms for official information during the recovery process.

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The compromised account has been an important communication channel for the Nigerian Armed Forces, providing updates on military operations, security developments, official activities and other information from the Defence Headquarters.

Screenshots reviewed after the breach indicated that the last clearly identifiable military-related post on the account was published on August 7, before the cryptocurrency-related content began appearing.

The account, created in May 2013, had built a substantial following over the years and retained its established identity even after the compromise, making the unauthorised posts potentially more convincing to unsuspecting users.

The attackers reportedly used the account to promote Firelight FXRP rewards and encourage users to visit a cryptocurrency claims portal. The Defence Headquarters has not endorsed the scheme and warned the public against relying on the unauthorised posts.

The exact method used to compromise the DHQ X account remains unknown. The military has not disclosed whether the attackers gained access through stolen login credentials, social engineering, a compromised device or another method.

The Defence Headquarters has also not identified the individuals or group responsible for the breach and has not disclosed whether anyone suffered financial losses after interacting with the cryptocurrency content.

The incident highlights the growing security risks faced by verified social media accounts, particularly those belonging to government institutions and other organisations with large audiences.

Cybercriminals have increasingly targeted high-profile accounts because control of an established platform can give fraudulent messages an appearance of legitimacy and expose large numbers of followers to potentially harmful links.

In the case of the Nigerian military’s X account, the security implications extend beyond the cryptocurrency scam because the platform is also used to communicate official information concerning national security and the activities of the Armed Forces.

The DHQ has therefore cautioned the public against treating posts from the compromised account as official until the military confirms that it has regained full control.

Nigerians have also been advised not to click on suspicious links, connect cryptocurrency wallets, transfer funds or submit personal information in response to the unauthorised posts.

The Defence Headquarters said efforts to recover and secure the hacked X account were ongoing and that further information would be provided as the situation develops.

For now, the military’s warning remains clear: any cryptocurrency-related content appearing on @DHQNigeria should be treated as unauthorised until the Defence Headquarters announces that control of the account has been fully restored.

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From Pulpit to Ifá Shrine: Ex-Pastor Exposes ‘Deceit’ in Christianity, Embraces Yoruba Tradition

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From Pulpit to Ifá Shrine: Ex-Pastor Exposes ‘Deceit’ in Christianity, Embraces Yoruba Tradition

After a two-year soul-searching journey, an Ondo State-based cleric has publicly abandoned his pastoral ministry to embrace Ìṣẹ̀ṣe, the traditional Yoruba spiritual practice, citing widespread deception among Christian leaders and contradictions in the Bible.

Olabanjo Felix, who once led the Image of God Evangelical and Prophetic Ministries in Ibaka, Oka Akoko, Ondo State, has officially transitioned from Christianity to become a Babalawo (Ifá priest). In a viral video that surfaced on Thursday, Felix announced his new spiritual identity as Ifawamiri Aworan Olodumare, declaring his allegiance to the indigenous Yoruba faith. The former pastor told Sunday PUNCH that his decision was not impulsive but the culmination of a two-year period of intense spiritual introspection. During this time, he became deeply troubled by what he perceived as contradictions within the Bible and what he described as the commercialisation and manipulation of Christianity by Nigerian pastors. He emphasised that he publicly announced his transition to stop people from continuing to address him as a pastor, stating that he could not accept a title that no longer reflected his beliefs.

Felix did not mince words in his criticism of the Christian faith as practised in Nigeria. He alleged that there is “no true pastor of the Bible in Nigeria,” with the exception of Pastor Gbile Akanni, and accused many church leaders of turning Christianity into a family business designed to enrich themselves and brainwash their congregations. He claimed that his deep understanding of the Bible, acquired through years of study, made him increasingly uncomfortable with the inconsistencies he found in the scriptures. Felix further alleged that many pastors who publicly condemn traditional religions secretly consult Ifá practitioners for divination, a hypocrisy he said he could no longer tolerate. His frustration, he explained, was not with God but with the institutionalised deception he witnessed, which ultimately drove him to seek spiritual authenticity elsewhere.

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Before settling on Ifá, Felix revealed that he had seriously considered converting to Islam. He consulted a Muslim cleric who advised him to study the Quran, and he subsequently downloaded the Yoruba translation of the holy book. However, after reading it, he concluded that he found the same level of deception that had driven him away from Christianity. This realisation, he said, solidified his resolve to look inward toward his ancestral heritage, leading him to explore the traditional Yoruba spiritual system of Ifá. He began searching for genuine Ifá priests who could mentor him, determined to find a path that felt authentic and free from the manipulation he had experienced in the Abrahamic religions.

Felix’s search for guidance eventually led him to the Araba of Isararemọ, Oluṣẹgun Latunji Aifuwapẹ, whom he discovered on Facebook. He reached out to the revered traditional priest and expressed his intention to learn Ifá. Since joining the Araba’s spiritual community, Felix said he has been engaged in prayers, supplications, and the study of herbs and roots, which he described as potent and effective. He insisted that his practice is not fetish, as many outsiders assume, but rather a disciplined spiritual system focused on healing, destiny, and connection to the divine through the Orishas and ancestors. He noted that foreigners from around the world visit the Araba’s centre to learn about Ifá, a testament to the growing global interest in the tradition.

A significant factor in Felix’s decision to embrace Ifá was his personal experience with traditional herbs and roots. He said that his conviction was strengthened by witnessing their potency, which he contrasted with what he perceived as the empty rituals and ineffective prayers of modern Christianity. For Felix, the tangible results of traditional medicine and spiritual practices validated the Ifá system in a way that Christianity could not. He now views Ìṣẹ̀ṣe not as a primitive or backward belief system but as a sophisticated spiritual science that has sustained the Yoruba people for centuries, long before the arrival of colonial religions.

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Felix’s public renunciation of Christianity has generated significant buzz on social media, with reactions sharply divided. Some online users have applauded his courage to follow his convictions and reconnect with his ancestral roots, while others have questioned the sincerity of his years in ministry. A number of commentators speculated that Felix may have always been a traditional practitioner in disguise, while others expressed sympathy for his former congregation, who had trusted his pastoral leadership. The viral video has also reignited broader conversations about the role of Christianity in Nigeria, the legacy of colonialism, and the growing movement of Nigerians returning to indigenous spiritual practices.

Felix’s story is part of a larger trend across the African diaspora, where individuals are increasingly rejecting foreign religions in favour of indigenous spiritual systems like Ifá, Vodun, and Candomblé. This movement is often framed as an act of decolonisation—a reclamation of identity, culture, and spirituality that was suppressed during the transatlantic slave trade and colonial era. For many, embracing Ifá is not merely a religious choice but a political and cultural statement about the importance of ancestral heritage and self-determination. Felix’s journey underscores this shift, as he described his transition as a homecoming to a faith that feels more authentic and aligned with his identity as a Yoruba man.

Now known as Ifawamiri Aworan Olodumare, Felix has fully embraced his new role as a Babalawo. He expressed gratitude to his mentor, the Araba of Isararemọ, for guiding him through the transition. While he acknowledged that his decision has attracted criticism, he remains firm in his conviction, stating that he cannot continue to live a lie. He said he will now dedicate his life to the practice and propagation of Ifá, focusing on healing, spiritual counselling, and the preservation of Yoruba cultural heritage. He also reiterated that his practice is transparent and open, in contrast to the hidden hypocrisy he claims to have witnessed in Christian circles.

Olabanjo Felix’s journey from Christian pastor to Ifá priest is a deeply personal and controversial one, reflecting broader tensions between tradition and modernity, faith and authenticity, and colonialism and cultural reclamation. While his allegations against Christianity have drawn sharp criticism from religious leaders, his story has resonated with many who feel disconnected from the faiths imposed on their ancestors. Whether viewed as a betrayal or a homecoming, Felix’s transition highlights the complex spiritual landscape of contemporary Nigeria and the enduring power of indigenous belief systems.

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Oyo Police Smash Human Parts Syndicate: 10 Arrested, Heart, Skull Recovered

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The Oyo State Police Command has arrested 10 suspected members of a human parts syndicate in a coordinated intelligence-led operation, recovering a suspected human heart, human flesh, pieces of a human skull, and assorted charms. The suspects were arrested at their various hideouts in the Iseyin and Saki areas of Oyo State following several months of sustained intelligence gathering, discreet surveillance, and close monitoring of their activities. The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Olayinka Ayanlade, disclosed this in a statement issued on Saturday, stating that the intelligence-led operation was carried out by operatives of the Command Monitoring Unit.

The police have identified the arrested suspects as Adam Ibrahim, 42; Nasiru Kabiru, 22; Tijani Wasiu, 54; Abiola Nasiru, 45; Amusa Gbadamosi, 57; Raheem Taofeek, 46; Jimoh Muritala, 35; Suleiman Busari, 47; Ganiyu Nurudeen, 36; and Usman Abdullahi, 52. Following the arrests, searches conducted at the suspects’ hideouts led to the recovery of several human parts, including one suspected human heart, human flesh, pieces of human skull, and assorted charms. The recovered items have been secured for forensic examination and further investigation.

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During interrogation, the suspects confessed to their various levels of involvement in dealing in human parts for different ritual purposes, and they are currently assisting investigators in unraveling the circumstances surrounding the source, procurement, and intended use of the recovered human parts. Further investigation revealed the syndicate’s modus operandi, with the suspects using code words to describe body parts—referring to the heart as “tomato,” flesh as “bread,” and hands as “hand fans” (abèbè).

The Commissioner of Police, Oyo State Command, CP Abimbola Ayodeji Olugbenga, commended the operatives for their painstaking intelligence-led operation and professionalism, assuring residents that the command remains resolute in its determination to rid the state of criminal elements and protect the sanctity of human life. The commissioner further urged members of the public to remain vigilant and promptly provide the command with credible information that could assist in preventing and detecting criminal activities across the state. Emergency contact numbers include the Oyo State Call Response Center toll-free line 615 and the Oyo State Police Command Control Room on 08081768614 and 07055495413. Efforts are ongoing to identify and arrest other members of the alleged syndicate.

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