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Scholars proffer solutions to marital crisis
Scholars proffer solutions to marital crisis
Scholars have attributed the collapse of family to societal challenges.
According to them, the solution is to halt the spate of broken homes and return the family values.
Earlier in his remarks, the Chief Imam of Lekki Central Mosque, Imam Ridwan Jamiu said moral decadence in the society has led to corruption in high places, collapse of family structure, drugs among children and unhealthy society.
He said: “The family is a unit of the society, if family is sound and healthy, the community will be sound and healthy, and if family is unhealthy, the community will be unhealthy and this will affect the nation. This is why whenever we have any gathering like this, we are actually promoting peace and national security.
“Many of the society’s challenges came as a result of the collapse of the family. If you see some children who have taken to drugs, it is because the family has collapsed. There can hardly be successful parenting without successful coupling.
“Some of the reasons parents abandon their children at the mercy of the society is lack of faith even in the face of challenges. For instance, If you truly fear Allah, you wouldn’t go into crime as a solution to your economic challenges. You have to look for other lawful means of seeking wealth. But because there is lack of faith or better still, a spiritual decline, many people are very religious, but are not Godly. Some people go to places of worship only because they are looking for jobs and appointments.”
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Dr Rashidah Oke-Olaniyan of Daarussalam Taafidh International Academy, reminded parents of their position as role models, adding that they should think more about the future of their children.
She said: “Parents should know they are role models. The future of the children is important as well as their Hereafter.
“Think about the children all the time. When the home is broken, there is no way the woman can be the mother and the father at the same time. It is difficult. Go and ask the kids out there, they will tell you, I need to see my Mum, I need to see my Dad. In fact, when there is no father figure in the home, you see the child going out to look for a father figure that may not be right for him or her. If you don’t want society to teach your child, you have to be there to teach your child and by extension, you have to make your marriage work.”
A professor of Anatomic Pathology at the College of Medicine University of Lagos (CMUL) Prof Fatimah AbdulKareem and Chief Imam of Light House Muslim Community, Imam Nojeem Jimoh, said it is the intention of Allah for couples to be happy in their marriages.
Allah, the duo added that the primary thing Allah intends for the couple.
Prof AbdulKareem told the audience that good character and piety are main features to look out for in a prospectus relations.
Imam Jimoh urged the couples to fear in dealing with one another.
“It is sad to know there are lots of broken homes and marriages, but it is because many of us have gone away from the prescriptions of Allah as far as marriage is concerned. You find husbands and wives competing rather than complementing and cooperating. Allah has not forbidden the women to assist in putting food on the table,” he said.
Chairman on the occasion, Alhaji AbdulMajeed Ninalowo said the topic was chosen with a view to providing solutions to the growing marital challenges plaguing the Muslim Ummah in particular, and the world in general.
According to him, “such marital upheavals include high divorce rate, spousal abuse, unbridled adultery resulting in alarming rate of paternity fraud, baby mama and baby father syndrome, to mention but a few. Undoubtedly, the marriage institution is no longer what it used to be. Many couples, especially young ones, are not happily married,” he said.
Scholars proffer solutions to marital crisis
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Nigeria Customs Service begins 2025 recruitment [How to apply]
Nigeria Customs Service begins 2025 recruitment [How to apply]
The Nigeria Customs Service (NCS) has announced the commencement of its recruitment exercise, assuring Nigerians that the process is entirely free and fair.
The agency has cautioned the public to be vigilant against scammers who may attempt to exploit unsuspecting applicants during the recruitment period.
Applications are invited for positions in the Superintendent, Inspector, and Customs Assistant cadres as part of the Service’s plan to recruit 3,927 officers in 2025.
This initiative is aimed at enhancing trade facilitation and supporting Nigeria’s economic recovery efforts.
“Our recruitment is entirely free and fair. At no stage do we charge fees. Anyone requesting payment is a scammer,” the agency emphasized, urging applicants to be wary of fraudulent schemes.
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The NCS outlined eligibility criteria, stating that applicants must be Nigerian citizens by birth, possess a valid National Identification Number (NIN), and have no criminal record or ongoing investigations.
Academic qualifications for the three cadres are as follows:
Superintendent Cadre: A university degree or Higher National Diploma (HND) along with an NYSC discharge or exemption certificate.
Inspectorate Cadre: A National Diploma (ND) or Nigeria Certificate in Education (NCE) from an accredited institution.
Customs Assistant Cadre: At least an O’Level certificate (WAEC or NECO).
In addition to these qualifications, the NCS stressed that all applicants must be physically and mentally fit, providing evidence of medical fitness from a recognized government hospital.
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Tinubu to critics: I won’t reduce my cabinet size
Tinubu to critics: I won’t reduce my cabinet size
President Bola Tinubu on Monday unequivocally responded to critics who described his cabinet as “bloated” by saying he is unprepared to reduce the size of his 48-man cabinet.
“I am not ready to shrink” the size of my cabinet, Tinubu said during a media chat at his Bourdillon residence in the highbrow Ikoyi area of Lagos State.
“I am not prepared to bring down the size of my cabinet,” the former Lagos governor said, arguing that “efficiency” has been at the core of his selection of ministers.
The president also said he has no regret removing the petrol subsidy in May 2023, saying Nigeria cannot continue to be Father Christmas to neighbouring countries.
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“I don’t have any regrets whatsoever in removing petrol subsidy. We are spending our future, we were just deceiving ourselves, that reform was necessary,” he told reporters.
Tinubu appointed 48 ministers in August 2023, three months after his inauguration. The Senate immediately screened and confirmed the ministers. One of the ministers, Betta Edu, was suspended in January while another, Simon Lalong, moved to the Senate.
There were calls for the President to reshuffle his cabinet as many Nigerians have not been impressed by the performance of some of the ministers, especially in the face of unprecedented inflation, excruciating economic situation and rising insecurity.
In October 2024, Tinubu re-assigned 10 ministers to new ministerial portfolios and appointed seven new ministers for Senate confirmation. He also sacked five of his ministers but critics insist that the President’s cabinet remains large, especially with the creation of a Livestock Ministry with a minister.
Tinubu to critics: I won’t reduce my cabinet size
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Tinubu: Food stampede incidents, grave error
Tinubu: Food stampede incidents, grave error
..Don’t publicise gifts distribution if you don’t have enough
President Bola Tinubu has described the recent three stampede incidents during distribution of relief materials to children and others as a grave error.
He told people to be more organised and stay away from giving palliative or publicity of the giving if they had insufficient materials.
He stated this during his first presidential media chat on Monday.
The President said he had been sharing palliatives in his Lagos residence for 25 years without any incident and blamed the recent food stampedes in the country on poor organisation.
A total of 35 children died on December 18 during a stampede that happened at a funfair event in Ibadan, Oyo State.
10 people, including children, also died on December 21 in another stampede at the Holy Trinity Catholic Church in the Maitama district of Abuja during the distribution of palliatives.
Another 22 people were reported dead during a rice distribution event at Amaranta Stadium in Ojika, Ihiala LGA, on the same day.
“It’s unfortunate and very sad, but we will continue to learn from our mistakes. I see this as a grave error on the part of the organisers,” he said.
But the President insisted that the incidents should not dampen the “happiness of the season”.
“It is very sad that people are not well organised. We just have to be more disciplined in our society. Condolences to those who lost members, but it is good to give,” Tinubu said.
“I’ve been giving out foodstuff and commodities, including envelopes in Bourdillon, for the last 25 years, and I’ve never experienced this kind of incident because we are organised and disciplined.
“If you know you won’t have enough to give, don’t attempt to give or publicise it.”
The President compared the situation to food banks in countries such as the United States of America (USA) and Britain, noting their structured approach.
“Every society, even in America, has food banks. They have hungry people. In Britain, they have food banks and warehouses, and they are organised. They take turns m lining up and collect,” he added.
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