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Get Rich, Don’t Just Marry Rich – Ivy Ifeoma, Wife of Rudeboy, Advises Women
Get Rich, Don’t Just Marry Rich – Ivy Ifeoma, Wife of Rudeboy, Advises Women
Ivy Ifeoma, wife of Nigerian singer Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy of the famed P-Square duo, has ignited a powerful conversation about financial independence for women, self-worth, and relationship goals after sharing her unfiltered views in a viral TikTok video.
The social media personality and mother of two directly addressed a question that has followed her for years: Did she marry the music star because of his wealth and despite their noticeable age gap? Her answer was swift and unequivocal. She declared that she was already a millionaire before she ever met Paul Okoye, and she urged women across Nigeria and beyond to stop making marriage to a rich man their primary life ambition.
“I was a millionaire before I met this man,” Ifeoma stated firmly in the video, anticipating criticism before it could arrive. She then delivered her core message: “Marrying a rich man should not be anybody’s primary goal. Why would you even want to have a primary goal of marrying someone because they are rich? At the end of the day, it is their money, not your money.”
While she acknowledged that marrying into a wealthy family has its perks, she insisted those benefits are merely an “add-on” and should never be the foundation of a woman’s life plan. “Don’t get me wrong, marrying rich is a very good add-on because it can open doors of opportunities for you. But what I will tell you to do as a woman is to get rich,” she emphasized.
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Ivy Ifeoma and Paul Okoye tied the knot in a traditional wedding ceremony on May 25, 2024, in Igbere, Abia State. Since then, their relationship has often attracted public attention, particularly due to the age difference between them, with critics frequently assuming her motives were financially driven. By revealing that she was already a millionaire before meeting the singer, Ifeoma sought to shut down the narrative that she needed his money for survival. She explained that her personal experience taught her the importance of financial independence, which gives a woman peace of mind and confidence regardless of whom she marries.
According to Ifeoma, financial independence should be a priority for women seeking long-term security and personal growth. She further noted that successful and wealthy individuals are often attracted to ambitious, hardworking, and industrious partners. She encouraged single women to focus on self-improvement rather than making wealth the main factor in choosing a spouse.
Ifeoma is not alone in this stance. Her views align with similar sentiments previously expressed by Lola Omotayo-Okoye, the wife of Paul’s twin brother, Peter Okoye. In past interviews, Lola emphasized that women must “add value” to their relationships and avoid becoming “greedy and lazy” after marriage, stressing that she could not imagine asking her husband for money to buy her children necessities.
Furthermore, Nollywood actress Blessing Jessica Nze recently shared a similar message, warning that “marriage is not a survival plan.” Speaking on Tope Olowoniyan TV, she revealed how she started selling products in university to become financially independent, noting: “If you bring nothing to the table and rely entirely on your partner, you risk being seen as mere property.”
Similarly, actress and food entrepreneur Didi Ekanem weighed in on the topic in March 2026, advising young women that the “best gift to give yourself after graduation is not a husband, it is power.” She warned that walking into marriage empty often leads to seeking happiness in someone else, whereas building financial stability allows for a true partnership based on collaboration rather than survival.
Ivy Ifeoma’s viral video has clearly struck a nerve, sparking widespread debate about gender roles, financial literacy, and the evolving definition of success for modern Nigerian women. Her core message is a direct challenge to traditional expectations: rather than searching for a wealthy partner to change your status, focus on becoming wealthy yourself.
As she succinctly put it, while having a rich husband is a “good add-on,” a woman’s primary goal should be securing her own bag.
Get Rich, Don’t Just Marry Rich – Ivy Ifeoma, Wife of Rudeboy, Advises Women
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‘I didn’t eat or bathe for four days,’ Peller says after police detention
‘I didn’t eat or bathe for four days,’ Peller says after police detention
Popular Nigerian TikTok content creator Habeeb Hamzat, widely known as Peller, has opened up about his experience in police custody, alleging that he spent nearly four days in detention without food or access to a bath following his arrest by operatives of the Lagos State Police Command.
The social media influencer made the claims in a series of posts shared on his Snapchat account shortly after regaining his freedom, describing the experience as the most difficult ordeal of his life.
According to Peller, the conditions in detention left him physically exhausted and emotionally shaken, adding that he had never experienced anything similar before.
“I am ugly now. I can’t show my face yet. Omo, I sleep cell for almost four days. It has never happened to me before in my life,” he wrote.
Peller and his associate, Bello Oladipo, were arrested on July 2, 2026, along the Lagos-Calabar Coastal Road in the Lekki area of Lagos after police officers intercepted their vehicle, which allegedly had no registration number plate.
The encounter reportedly escalated when Peller began recording the interaction with his mobile phone. He later alleged that one of the officers pulled his shirt and pointed a gun at him during the incident.
However, the Lagos State Police Command disputed the allegation, insisting that the duo obstructed officers who were carrying out their lawful duties during a routine operation.
The command subsequently charged Peller and Oladipo before a Lagos Magistrate Court on July 7 on a three-count charge bordering on conspiracy to resist public officers, obstructing police officers in the discharge of their lawful duties, and conduct likely to cause a breach of public peace by allegedly threatening and filming police officers during the operation.
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Both defendants pleaded not guilty to the charges.
Following their arraignment, the court granted each defendant ₦500,000 bail with two sureties. The magistrate directed that one of the sureties must be a blood relative, while both sureties are required to present tax clearance certificates covering the previous two years. The case was adjourned until August 11, 2026, for further hearing.
Reflecting on his days in detention, Peller claimed he neither ate nor bathed throughout the period, saying fellow inmates jokingly referred to him as their “001” shortly after he was brought into the cell.
“As dey put me for cell, people wey dey cell talk say, ‘You be our 001 now.’ Omo, I burst laugh once. I no follow anybody talk till I comot.
“001 wey una wan give water beans.
“I no chop for four good days. I no bath,” he wrote.
His account has sparked widespread reactions across social media, with many users expressing sympathy over his alleged experience, while others urged that the legal process be allowed to run its course.
The incident has also reignited public debate about police-citizen encounters, the treatment of suspects in detention, and the growing role of smartphones and social media in documenting interactions between law enforcement officers and members of the public.
As of the time of filing this report, the Lagos State Police Command had not publicly responded to Peller’s latest allegations regarding the conditions of his detention. His claims remain personal allegations that have not been independently verified, while the criminal charges against him and his co-defendant are still before the court.
The case is expected to resume on August 11, when the court will continue hearing the charges against the two defendants.
‘I didn’t eat or bathe for four days,’ Peller says after police detention
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Nollywood actress appeals for support as recurring cancer spreads to bones
Nollywood actress appeals for support as recurring cancer spreads to bones
Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu has made an emotional appeal to Nigerians and well-wishers for financial assistance after revealing that she is battling cancer for the second time, with the disease now spreading to her bones.
In a video shared on social media on Tuesday, the actress disclosed that she was first diagnosed with cancer in 2023. She said she underwent surgery and chemotherapy after the diagnosis, and although the treatment initially appeared successful, the disease later returned.
According to Anijekwu, recent medical examinations revealed that the cancer has spread to her bones, making her condition more complex and significantly increasing the cost of treatment.
She explained that doctors have recommended radiation therapy and another surgery as part of her ongoing treatment, adding that the monthly cost of her medical care is now about ₦600,000.
Speaking emotionally in the video, the actress said she has spent several months moving in and out of hospitals as she continues her fight against the illness.
“I had cancer in 2023. I did my surgery and took chemotherapy, but later it came back again. I’ve been in and out of the hospital. The doctor recently told me it has reached my bones, and the treatment is now much more expensive,” she said.
Anijekwu also disclosed that the disease has affected both of her breasts and caused swelling in one of her hands, making her health challenges even more difficult.
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Appealing directly to members of the public, she pleaded for financial assistance to enable her continue treatment.
“I need to live. I need to survive. I’m asking Nigerians to please help me. Anyone that can help, please, I need help.
“Even my hands have swollen. The cancer has affected both breasts. I need to live. Please help me. I need to survive.
“Your one naira and your two naira can add up to something reasonable for me to get the proper treatment for this cancer. I’m begging you, please help me,” she said.
The actress noted that the financial burden of managing the illness has become overwhelming for her family, prompting her decision to seek public support.
Before her health challenges became public, Anijekwu built a career in Nollywood, featuring in a number of English- and Igbo-language productions.
While there is no widely documented record of her appearing in major blockbuster productions, she has remained active in the industry and is now receiving public attention following her emotional appeal for support.
Her story has drawn sympathy from fans and members of the public, with many expressing hope that she will receive the financial assistance needed to continue her treatment and recover.
Nollywood actress appeals for support as recurring cancer spreads to bones
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Baba Ijesha Receives Chieftaincy Title, Brand-New Car from Ooni of Ife
Baba Ijesha Receives Chieftaincy Title, Brand-New Car from Ooni of Ife
Nollywood actor Olanrewaju Omiyinka, popularly known as Baba Ijesha, has announced that the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, Ojaja II, conferred a chieftaincy title on him and presented him with a brand-new car during a recent visit to the monarch’s palace in Ile-Ife, Osun State.
The actor disclosed the development in a Facebook post on Thursday, where he expressed gratitude to the revered traditional ruler for what he described as a warm royal reception, fatherly support and generous gifts extended to him and his wife, Afolashade Omiyinka, popularly known as Luminee.
According to Baba Ijesha, the Ooni bestowed on him the traditional title of “Baba Awada Konge Oduwa,” a recognition he described as a significant milestone in his life.
Sharing photographs from the palace visit, the actor thanked the monarch for the honour and the confidence reposed in him and his family.
“My deepest gratitude to His Imperial Majesty, Ooni of Ife. Baba, thank you for the royal welcome, fatherly love and the confidence you gave my wife and me. For the luxurious gifts you blessed us with, including the brand-new car, I am truly humbled.
“As a son of the soil, I am honoured by the chieftaincy title of Baba Awada Konge Oduwa. Ile-Ife, Ile Oodua, and all the chiefs and citizens, thank you.”
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As of the time of filing this report, the Ooni’s Palace had not issued an official statement confirming the conferment of the title or the presentation of the vehicle. The announcement is based on Baba Ijesha’s public statement and photographs shared from the palace visit.
The reported royal recognition comes just weeks after the actor and his wife welcomed their first child together, a baby boy named King Kagar Omiyinka.
Baba Ijesha announced the birth on social media, thanking God for the new addition to his family and describing the child as a divine blessing. The couple later held a naming ceremony that attracted attention on social media after the cost of the Aso Ebi fabric generated mixed reactions among Nigerians.
The actor’s latest announcement has equally sparked widespread reactions online.
While many fans and well-wishers congratulated Baba Ijesha on receiving what they described as a prestigious traditional honour, others questioned the decision in light of his previous conviction.
In July 2022, Baba Ijesha was convicted by a Lagos Special Offences Court on charges relating to the sexual assault of a minor and sentenced to 16 years’ imprisonment.
However, following a review of the applicable sentencing provisions and credit for time already spent in custody, he was released in November 2025 after serving more than three years in prison.
Since regaining his freedom, the actor has gradually returned to public life, frequently sharing updates about his family and expressing gratitude for what he describes as a second chance.
The reported honour from the Ooni has reignited public debate, with supporters describing it as an act of cultural recognition and encouragement, while critics argue that public honours should take into account the broader societal implications of celebrating individuals with criminal convictions.
The development has once again placed Baba Ijesha, the Ooni of Ife, and the conversation around traditional honours and public accountability at the centre of public discourse.
Baba Ijesha Receives Chieftaincy Title, Brand-New Car from Ooni of Ife
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