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‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’
‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’
A Reader wrote: I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university. Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me. In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, you wrote about why second marriages might not work. I am a living example of that. I’d been married for over 12 years with three children when I changed jobs for a challenging management post in a bank. The salary almost doubled what I earned and I quickly made friends with a colleague who was about the same age. Her name is Tina and it was inevitable that both families met.
“We attended each other’s functions and Francis, Tina’s husband, was a particularly friendly chap. Tina had regaled me with stories of his affairs but I saw the reason why women found him attractive – he was dishy!
When Tina travelled abroad on a course and Francis came to the office, I wondered what he wanted. Thinking he needed help with his bank account, I went to him. But he said he just dropped by because he was lonely and missed Tina so much. He also missed her home-cooking. I was touched and promised to drop some packaged meals at his place. He was to put them in the freezer and help himself whenever he felt hungry.
“True to my word, I dropped the meals at the house of a very eager Francis. He offered to pay for them, but I refused. He insisted I stayed for a drink. To be frank with you, Francis had always intrigued me. I mean, he must have something special for all those women to be panting after him. So, when he made a pass at me, I didn’t resist. Like a lamb to the slaughter, I let him lead me to his matrimonial bed. I wasn’t disappointed – Francis really knew how to bonk! Why else was I risking my marriage for this? He made my head spin with his love-making, transporting me to places I never imagined possible.
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“That was how our affair started. So though Tina and I worked together, I parcelled off the guilty I felt at helping myself to her husband. I knew we were playing with fire – both of us were married with children and Tina, my friend, was the one who’d introduced me to her husband. That shows the extent of her trust and complacency in her marriage. Seun, my husband and I had since lost the magic of our early years. Even then, he wasn’t as hot as Francis was.
Comparing Seun to Francis was like comparing a Christmas sparkler to a rocket! My head had already been turned by Francis’ sizzling, scorching ways.
So the affair continued for about a year before the bubble burst. I was returning from another illicit date with Francis when my husband was waiting for me with a disgusted look on his face. “Tina just rang”, he spat. “She saw you with her husband coming out of a hotel. She said she’d become suspicious of her husband yet again and had followed him only to see both of you together.
“All the glow of our love-making drained out of me. “We are just friends having a meal together …” I panicked. Seun warned I shouldn’t insult his intelligence. Instead, I should be thinking of what to tell my friend when I faced her in the office the next day. As for this sham of marriage, Seun told me it was now dust. He couldn’t cope with the thought that his wife had been having a torrid affair with a supposed family friend for months. What I had was not a fling, he told me nastily, it was a relationship and I was now free to pursue my passion.
“The hardest part was facing Tina in the office. She made a scene and all eyes were on me as if I’d committed a crime. Our head of department invited us both to his office when he heard the commotion, and to be fair to him, he didn’t pass judgement. All he said was that we’d both fouled up the office atmosphere and one of us would have to be transferred to another branch. I quickly offered to go. I felt really awful at first. But Francis was really sorry for breaking up my marriage and quickly found me a flat, which I moved into with two of my children.
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“My eldest, a boy, decided to stay with his father. So that was how Francis and I became a reluctant couple, Tina stayed put in her matrimonial home – she’s used to her husband’s philandering. Whatever sadness I felt at the death of my marriage was quickly erased by Francis’ love-making. Fate put on its final seal when I discovered I was pregnant. It wasn’t planned and I was really angry with myself. Francis, on the other hand was delighted and before the baby was due, insisted on a traditional marriage. Seun had already instituted a divorce anyway and I would be a fool to contest it with a full-blown pregnancy!
‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’
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Two Weeks to His Wedding: Groom-to-Be Beaten to Death by Lagos Mob
Two Weeks to His Wedding: Groom-to-Be Beaten to Death by Lagos Mob
A man who returned to Nigeria to marry his fiancée has been killed by a mob in Lagos Island after an alleged traffic accident. The tragedy has sparked outrage and renewed calls for an end to jungle justice.
LAGOS, Nigeria – Basit had one mission: to return home, marry the love of his life, and begin a new chapter. Instead, his wedding—scheduled for just two weeks away—turned into a funeral. The groom-to-be was beaten to death by a mob on the night of Wednesday, September 2, 2026, in the Patey neighborhood of Lagos Island, Lagos State, following an alleged hit-and-run incident that residents say sparked their fury. According to multiple eyewitness accounts, Basit was driving along Freeman Street when his vehicle struck a male pedestrian attempting to cross the road. Rather than stop to render aid or await authorities, witnesses said he drove off—a decision that would cost him his life.
Residents who saw the crash expected Basit to stop. When he didn’t, a group of locals gave chase, eventually catching up with him a short distance away. “He was coming from the other end of Freeman Street, and the incident occurred as he was getting close to the other end,” said a resident who spoke on condition of anonymity for fear of retaliation. “A resident was trying to cross the road when he rammed him. The moment it happened, people thought he would wait, but he did not. He was later chased and caught before the mob descended on him.” What followed was swift and brutal. Witness Afolabi Lawal told reporters that the mob attacked Basit with sticks and bottles, striking him repeatedly on the head. The severe head injury he sustained left him unconscious at the scene. “He was hit with sticks and bottles on his head, which caused him to sustain a head injury. He went unconscious and later died,” Lawal said. Once the crowd realized Basit had stopped moving and was unresponsive, they fled the scene, leaving his body lying in the street.
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Basit had returned to Nigeria specifically to marry his fiancée. Family members and friends had been preparing for a celebration that was expected to take place in approximately two weeks. Instead, they are now making funeral arrangements. The tragedy has left the local community in shock, with many expressing grief not only for Basit but also for the young man he allegedly struck—whose identity and condition remain unknown at this time.
The Lagos State Police Command has confirmed that arrests have been made in connection with the killing. A police source, speaking on condition of anonymity, told our correspondent: “Some suspects have been taken into custody, and the remains of the deceased have been deposited in the morgue.” However, the state’s Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Adebisi, could not be reached for comment on Sunday. Calls to her phone went unanswered, and she had not responded to a text message at the time of this report.
The incident has reignited conversations about vigilante justice and mob violence in Nigeria, where citizens often take the law into their own hands—sometimes with fatal consequences. Legal experts and human rights advocates have repeatedly warned that jungle justice undermines the rule of law, denies suspects their right to a fair trial, and often leads to the punishment of innocent people. In this case, Basit—whatever his alleged offense—was never given the opportunity to tell his side of the story in a court of law.
Here is a quick summary of the key facts: the victim, Basit, was a groom-to-be who had returned from abroad. The incident occurred on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, in the Patey neighborhood of Lagos Island, Lagos State. The alleged trigger was a hit-and-run involving a pedestrian. The mob used sticks and bottles to inflict a severe head injury, which led to his death. His wedding was scheduled for approximately two weeks away. Police have arrested some suspects, and his body has been deposited in a morgue. The Police Public Relations Officer was unreachable for comment at the time of reporting.
The Lagos State Police Command is expected to release an official statement once the Public Relations Officer is available. Meanwhile, the family of the deceased is making arrangements for his burial, even as they demand justice. The identity and condition of the pedestrian allegedly struck by Basit remain unclear, and authorities have not confirmed whether that individual survived or also succumbed to injuries.
Two Weeks to His Wedding: Groom-to-Be Beaten to Death by Lagos Mob
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Troops raid terrorist enclave in Sokoto, recover high-calibre weapons
Troops raid terrorist enclave in Sokoto, recover high-calibre weapons
Troops of the Nigerian Army’s COAS Special Intervention Battalion 7, Sector 2, Operation FANSAN YAMMA, have dislodged terrorist elements from a forest enclave in Tangaza Local Government Area of Sokoto State, recovering a PKT machine gun, AK-47 rifles, ammunition, motorcycles and other logistical items.
The operation was conducted as part of the ongoing military offensive to clear terrorist hideouts, restrict the movement of armed groups and strengthen security across communities in the North-West. The latest operation took place on Saturday, with troops advancing through identified areas considered to be terrorist threat enclaves.
According to the military, the troops moved through Manu, Alkasim and Kandam villages before advancing towards the Magarya Forest axis, where they encountered the terrorists.
The encounter resulted in an exchange of fire, with the Army saying its troops engaged the terrorists with superior firepower and forced them to abandon their positions and flee deeper into the forest.
The troops subsequently conducted follow-up operations and a thorough search of the area, leading to the recovery of a cache of weapons, ammunition and mobility assets believed to have been abandoned by the fleeing terrorists.
The recovered items included one PKT machine gun, AK-47 rifles and a large quantity of 7.62 x 54mm belted ammunition. Several motorcycles and assorted logistical and miscellaneous items were also recovered during the operation.
The recovery of the weapons represents a setback for the armed group operating in the area, as the military said the seized arms and mobility assets would further degrade the terrorists’ operational capability.
The motorcycles are believed to have been used by the armed group to move through the difficult terrain around the forest and access remote communities.
Following the operation, troops maintained a strong presence in the area and continued patrols and follow-up activities aimed at preventing the terrorists from regrouping or returning to the cleared locations.
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The Army said its troops were continuing to dominate the general area to protect surrounding communities and prevent the armed group from re-establishing its operational base.
The operation is part of the wider Operation FANSAN YAMMA campaign, which has continued to target terrorist and other armed groups operating across the North-West.
The military has increasingly relied on clearance operations and intelligence-led offensives to disrupt armed groups, recover weapons and deny them access to forest corridors and other locations used as hideouts.
The latest operation in Sokoto State also comes amid broader military efforts across the North-West to reduce attacks, kidnapping and other violent crimes affecting rural communities.
The Army said the continued presence of troops in the affected area was intended to prevent the fleeing terrorists from regrouping and to safeguard nearby communities.
Residents were also urged to continue cooperating with security agencies by providing credible information that could assist troops in tracking armed groups and preventing further attacks.
The military assured communities in the affected areas that operations would continue as part of efforts to restore lasting security and enable residents to carry out their daily activities without fear.
The latest development is another setback for the terrorists operating in the Tangaza and Magarya Forest axis, following the loss of their position and the recovery of weapons and mobility assets.
The Army said troops would sustain the offensive and continue efforts to dismantle terrorist networks and deny them safe havens across the North-West.
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Opeifa Donates Salary to LSSTF as Lagos Gives NRC Two Security Vehicles
Opeifa Donates Salary to LSSTF as Lagos Gives NRC Two Security Vehicles
The Managing Director of the Nigerian Railway Corporation (NRC), Dr Kayode Opeifa, has made a personal donation of ₦500,000 to the Lagos State Security Trust Fund (LSSTF), even as the Fund presented two operational vehicles to the Corporation to strengthen security around railway facilities and infrastructure in Lagos.
Opeifa announced the donation during the presentation of the vehicles at the Mobolaji Johnson Train Station, Ebute Metta, Lagos, saying the money would be deducted from his September salary.
He called on individuals, corporate organisations, residents of Lagos and other Nigerians to support the LSSTF financially to enable it to provide the facilities and logistics required to combat crime and improve security across the state.
The NRC boss commended Lagos State Governor, Babajide Olusola Sanwo-Olu, for his continued support for the Corporation, saying the two vehicles would significantly boost the operational capacity of security agencies attached to the railway.
The vehicles were donated by the LSSTF as part of the Lagos State Government’s continued support for security agencies and critical institutions operating within the state.
Presenting the vehicles, the Executive Secretary/CEO of the LSSTF, Dr Ayodele Ogunsan, said the intervention was designed to enhance the capacity of the Nigeria Police Railway Command and the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) to respond to vandalism, theft and other criminal activities along the railway corridor.
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Ogunsan, who was accompanied by the Fund’s Administrative Secretary, Demola Lewis, commended the transformation taking place within the NRC under Opeifa’s leadership and stressed the importance of securing railway infrastructure and improving operational effectiveness.
He urged the security agencies to ensure judicious use of the vehicles, noting that the LSSTF had a monitoring mechanism to ensure that security assets provided by the Fund were deployed strictly for their intended purposes.
Responding, Opeifa expressed appreciation to Governor Sanwo-Olu and the LSSTF for their continued partnership and support for railway security.
He assured the state government that the vehicles would be deployed strictly for railway security operations and would help strengthen the protection of passengers, railway infrastructure and other critical assets.
He also urged other state governments, particularly the 26 states where the NRC has operational presence, to support the protection of railway infrastructure within their jurisdictions, noting that stronger collaboration would facilitate faster responses to vandalism and other criminal activities.
Opeifa further disclosed that the Lagos State Government had indicated its readiness to rehabilitate some roads within the railway compound and install solar-powered streetlights upon completion.
He said work was also ongoing on a major storm-water drainage project designed to channel water from the railway compound towards the Mile 2 lagoon, adding that the intervention had already significantly improved the environment and reduced perennial flooding around the railway premises.
Speaking on behalf of the security agencies, the representative of the Commissioner of Police, Nigeria Police Railway Command, DCP Yahaya Usman, thanked the Lagos State Government and LSSTF for the vehicles.
He assured that they would be deployed responsibly for surveillance, patrol and rapid response along the railway corridor.
The development further reinforces the growing partnership between the Lagos State Government, LSSTF and NRC in securing railway infrastructure, protecting passengers and improving safety within railway communities.

Opeifa Donates Salary to LSSTF as Lagos Gives NRC Two Security Vehicles
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