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‘Masturbation is killing me’, Nigerian man cries for help

A Nigerian man simply identified as M. Nnaji has called for help over his masturbation addiction.

In a post on his verified X handle on Tuesday, Nnaji noted that his masturbation addiction is affecting his health and daily activities.

According to Nnaji, he said, “I can masturbate 3 to 5 times a day. I need help.”

Nnaji also added that quitting the act has become difficult because he watches porn a lot. He added that masturbation is gradually killing him on the inside.

“Stopping porn has been my problem. And I can’t leave the smartphone. Secretly, I’m dying inside of me,” he said.

Adding that he felt “relieved for speaking out,” the addict noted that the addiction has affected his sexual health, making him unable to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse.

“I have fasted and prayed because of this.

“I want to stop it. I don’t maintain an erection when I’m with a woman.”

Furthermore, Nnaji expressed his fears about getting married because of how the addiction has affected his sexual health.

“I’ll tell you this. It affects my erection, so I’m afraid of marriage.

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“I always feel guilty after it,” he added.

Reacting to Nnaji’s plea for help, Nigerians urged him to stay away from pornography and seek professional help.

An X user, simply identified as Big Olu, advised him, saying, “Stop watching porn! Occupy your mind with productive things like reading books, going outside, and playing football. It’s okay to masturbate, but excessive masturbation is a problem. Pray. Good luck.”

Cepheid also added, “Stop watching porn, listen to music often, and keep yourself busy. An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”

Aolak advised Nnaji when he said, “Always avoid being alone. Please always make sure you are around someone all the time; don’t give yourself privacy until you are sure of controlling yourself. Stop watching porn.”

While another X user applauded his courage for coming out seeking help, he urged Nnaji to get professional help and an “accountability coach.”

“Big ups to you for coming out to admit this. I’ll also advise you to get an accountability coach, like a close friend or brother, who can watch your progress. Someone you answer to when they ask if you failed or passed each day,” he said.

Recounting his personal experience with masturbation, Reece Houseboy on X notes that he is “facing the same thing, but mine is just once or twice daily. I want to start going out more so I’m not alone in the house most days. I’m going to start a tech class soon to get busy.”

Another netizen simply identified as UX Guy, advised Nnaji to quit the habit gradually.

“Don’t try to go for one month straight or more. You’ll fail and blame yourself. So take it a day at a time. Each 24 hours won is a victory. And mark your calendar to watch your progress.

“Steadily keep increasing the number of winning days each week, and you’ll steadily improve,” he said.

Buttressing UX Guy’s point, Pharizz, while recounting his personal experience, said, “I was once like you, determined to stop it.

“Take gradual steps, like starting to do it once a day.

“Once a week. Once a month.

“You can’t stop addiction immediately, no matter what.”

lso, Morlana, another X user, notes, “Start by reducing how many times you masturbate in a day.

“Five times is much. Start twice a day for a week, then move to once a day.

“Then move to twice a week. Once you feel the urge, play music, dance it off, or walk out, stroll out. Don’t be alone, then move to once a week.”

Some others urged him to seek spiritual help in a bid to overcome his masturbation addiction.

“You do need help. Only God can help you. Focus on God, and he will help you. Any other option is a waste of time,” Emmy King noted.

For Bae Amaka, she said, “Call on God and avoid idleness. Have strong faith, and you will get cured.”

Urging him to take a more spiritual part in healing from masturbation, Collins Weglobe advised him to “pray and fast from 6 a.m. to 3 p.m.

“Focus your prayers on restoration. Declare yourself free from every spirit of masturbation, and command this spirit to leave your body.

“Specifically, command it to exit through vomiting.

“Additionally, read Psalm 51 and ask the Holy Spirit to take control of your body.

“When you’ve completed this and experienced total restoration, feel free to thank me.”

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Grand Chief Imam Visits DSS Director, Seeks Stronger Security Collaboration in Oyo

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Grand Chief Imam Visits DSS Director, Seeks Stronger Security Collaboration in Oyo

The Grand Chief Imam of Oyo Land, Sheikh Al-Imam Barrister Bilal Husayn Akinola Akeugberu, on Tuesday paid a courtesy visit to the Director of the Department of State Services (DSS) in Oyo State, Mr. Usman Biu, as part of efforts to deepen cooperation between religious leaders and security agencies.

The visit, which took place in Oyo State, focused on strengthening the existing relationship between the Muslim community and security institutions, with an emphasis on promoting peace, unity, and public safety.

Accompanying the Grand Imam was Mallam Ibrahim Agunbiade, a prominent member of the Oyo State Muslim community.

Speaking during the engagement, Sheikh Akeugberu stressed the need for sustained collaboration between religious authorities and security agencies in maintaining societal stability and addressing emerging security threats. He reaffirmed the commitment of the Muslim community in Oyo Land to support lawful authorities in ensuring peace and harmony across the state.

In his remarks, DSS Director Usman Biu expressed appreciation for the visit and lauded the leadership role of the Grand Chief Imam in fostering unity and peaceful coexistence. He assured the delegation of the DSS’s continued resolve to protect lives and property, while encouraging ongoing dialogue with community stakeholders.

The meeting is seen as a step toward enhancing synergy between religious institutions and security agencies in Oyo State, amid growing calls for community-based approaches to tackling security challenges.

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FG Disburses ₦9.9bn Cash Transfer to Vulnerable Households in Ondo

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Minister of Humanitarian Affairs and Poverty Reduction, Mr Bernard Doro
Minister of Humanitarian Affairs and Poverty Reduction, Mr Bernard Doro

FG Disburses ₦9.9bn Cash Transfer to Vulnerable Households in Ondo

The Federal Government, under the leadership of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, has disbursed about ₦9.9 billion in direct cash transfers to poor and vulnerable households in Ondo State as part of its expanded social protection and poverty reduction programme.

The Minister of Humanitarian Affairs and Poverty Reduction, Mr Bernard Doro, disclosed this during a working visit to Akure, where he met with Governor Lucky Aiyedatiwa as part of a nationwide assessment of the Renewed Hope social intervention initiatives.

According to the minister, the cash transfer programme is implemented under the President’s Renewed Hope Agenda, designed to provide direct financial support to the poorest households and strengthen social welfare systems across Nigeria.

He explained that beneficiaries under the Household Prosperity and Cash Transfer Programme receive ₦75,000 in three tranches, with more than nine million households benefiting nationwide since the rollout began.

Doro stated that Ondo State alone has received “about ₦9.9 billion across successive payment cycles,” covering initial, second, and ongoing phases of the national disbursement programme.

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He added that the initiative reflects the government’s commitment to poverty alleviation in Nigeria, social inclusion, and targeted welfare delivery aimed at reducing economic hardship among vulnerable citizens.

However, the minister raised concerns about low awareness among some beneficiaries, stressing the need for improved grassroots sensitisation to ensure eligible citizens fully understand and access the programme.

He noted that the federal government is currently conducting verification exercises across states, including Ondo, to confirm beneficiaries, validate data, and strengthen transparency in the distribution process.

Doro further explained that the ongoing engagement also serves as a data validation exercise, aimed at improving accountability, enhancing targeting, and reducing inclusion errors in future welfare programmes.

In his remarks, Governor Aiyedatiwa disclosed that Ondo State has recorded about 396,671 beneficiary households across the different payment cycles, describing the programme as one of the largest social intervention efforts in the state.

The governor commended the Tinubu administration for prioritising direct cash support to vulnerable citizens, noting that the initiative has helped cushion the effects of economic challenges at the grassroots level.

He also urged relevant agencies to address challenges linked to National Identification Number (NIN) registration, which he said has affected seamless access to some federal support schemes.

Earlier, at a stakeholders’ meeting in Ibule, Ifedore Local Government Area, the minister said the Federal Government is working on a redesigned national social protection framework to improve efficiency and impact.

He emphasised that stronger community engagement is essential for future interventions to reflect real needs, adding that stakeholder participation remains key to improving delivery of federal cash transfer programmes in Nigeria.

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Court Orders Forfeiture of ₦33.6bn Opioids Seized by NDLEA at Onne Port

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Court Orders Forfeiture of ₦33.6bn Opioids Seized by NDLEA at Onne Port

Court Orders Forfeiture of ₦33.6bn Opioids Seized by NDLEA at Onne Port

The Federal High Court in Port Harcourt has granted an interim forfeiture order on 17 containers of illicit opioids worth ₦33.6 billion, seized by the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, NDLEA, in one of the largest pharmaceutical drug interceptions in Nigeria’s recent anti-narcotics operations.

The containers were intercepted at the Port Harcourt Ports Complex in Onne, Rivers State, between April and September 2025, during multiple coordinated inspections targeting suspicious cargo linked to drug trafficking in Nigeria.

Court Orders Forfeiture of ₦33.6bn Opioids Seized by NDLEA at Onne PortAccording to court filings and NDLEA statements, the shipments contained a massive haul of controlled substances, including 19.6 million pills of Tramadol, Tafrodol, Tapentadol, and Carisoprodol, as well as 2,496,400 bottles of Codeine syrup, with a combined estimated street value of ₦33,691,200,000.

The forfeiture order was issued by Justice Adamu Turaki Mohammed of the Federal High Court, Port Harcourt, following a motion ex parte filed by the NDLEA on February 10, 2026, in suit number FHC/PH/MISC/25/2026.

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In his ruling, the judge ordered that the 17 shipping containers, along with their contents weighing about 365,657 kilograms of psychotropic substances, be temporarily forfeited to the Federal Government of Nigeria pending final determination of the case.

He further directed that custody and possession of the seized containers be handed over to the applicant agency until the conclusion of legal proceedings.

Reacting to the ruling, NDLEA Chairman/Chief Executive, Brig. Gen. Mohamed Buba Marwa (Rtd), described the development as a significant blow to drug cartels operating in Nigeria, stating that the forfeiture effectively dismantles the financial structure behind the illicit trade.

He said the seizure was not only a disruption of supply but a direct hit on the economic backbone of criminal syndicates that profit from the distribution of dangerous opioids, particularly among young people.

Marwa commended the Nigerian judiciary for what he described as swift and firm intervention, noting that judicial cooperation remains critical in the fight against illicit drug trafficking and substance abuse in Nigeria.

He also praised NDLEA operatives attached to the Onne Port Command for their vigilance and professionalism, which led to the detection of the concealed shipments. He acknowledged the support of sister agencies, including the Nigeria Customs Service and other port stakeholders, whose collaboration ensured the success of the operation.

The NDLEA boss further highlighted the role of international intelligence partners in strengthening Nigeria’s anti-narcotics efforts, adding that global cooperation continues to play a key role in intercepting transnational drug shipments.

Authorities say the latest forfeiture reinforces Nigeria’s ongoing crackdown on opioid trafficking networks, which have been identified as a major contributor to drug abuse and public health concerns across the country.

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