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Tunde Odesola

Tinubu: Ade Ori Okin befits KWAM 1, not Awujale crown

Tunde Odesola

(Published in The PUNCH, on Friday, December 19, 2025)

Blood is thicker than water, so the saying goes. But not in every case. Sometimes, workplace fluidity possesses the same viscosity as blood. The seed of my relationship with a longstanding friend and colleague, Hammed Shittu of ThisDay newspapers, was watered in the field of journalism before blossoming beyond the boundaries of deadline.

A relative of the Ẹ̀léjìgbò of Ẹ̀jìgbò, Ọba Ọmọ́wonúọlá Oyèyodé Oyèsosìn, Hammed was raised in the palace; therefore, his upbringing instilled in him the Yoruba social etiquette of respect, humility, integrity, and wisdom. Hammed, whom the Ògìyán of Ẹ̀jìgbò nicknamed Ẹ̀lẹ̀mdí Ìkòkò Ẹ̀wà because of his love for beans, is very funny. He takes as many jokes as he throws. Ẹ̀lẹ̀mdí’s jokes are raw, unrehearsed and far more cracking than the jokes from some unfunny folks who call themselves stand-up comedians.

I nearly got Hammed one day when his laptop went blurry. I kept a straight face as I faked computer expertise, pressing all the letters on his keypad: ‘Control–Shift–Cap Lock–Escape–Enter!’ But the problem persisted. Then, I pressed Escape–Shift–Control–Enter. Still no luck.

With a frown on my face, I broke the sad news: “Ha, Alhaji, there is no more ink in your laptop! You need a refill.” Ẹ̀lẹ̀mdí looked at me suspiciously, processing what I had said, and searching for mischief in my eyes for mischief. But I held my nerve. I didn’t put a price on the ink, that would give me away. For a few seconds, Ìkòkò Ẹ̀wà chewed on my advice. Then, he said in his bright white smile, “Ọ̀dà ni o ba mi ra, mo ra inki. Ara ò fu ọ́,” meaning: “Buy me paint, not ink, unserious fellow.” That was the wicked wit of Hammed. That was in 2003 when both of us were the only ones using laptops in the whole of the Osun State Correspondents’ Chapel in Osogbo.

But literally speaking, I need some ink in my laptop right now because its lettering is blurry from mourning and writing elegies. I’m not one to parrot the scaremongering belief that death doubles its hustle in the last four months of the year Nigerians christened EMBER Months, because each of the months ends in ‘ember’. I don’t believe that during ember months, death casts its net deeper into the world-wide-web called Ayé Àkámarà, to harvest souls and skulls. So far, in this year’s ember months, death has reaped where it never sowed, taking away my in-law and infotech guru, Tayo Adewusi; Owa of Igbajo, Oba Adegboyega Famodun; Pro-Chancellor and Chairman of Council, Obafemi Awolowo University, Prof Siyan Oyeweso; Oluomo of Ife, Honourable Gbenga Owolabi; Chairman, MicCom Golf and Country Club, Chief Tunde Ponnle; and my buddy and top table tennis player, Emmanuel Bamidele aka ‘Baba Alaye’, among others. May the souls of the departed find repose in their Maker, and may the Lord give families, relatives and friends the fortitude to bear the painful losses, amen.

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As death was busy causing pain and chaos, some members of the Nigerian elite left many mouths gaping, gasping and saying, ‘Ehn-ehn?, Mba! O ti o, kai’, as they unfolded dramatic spectacles. Or, what do you make of Yoruba’s foremost traditional ruler, the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, installing the First Lady, Chief Remi Tinubu, as Yeye Asiwaju Gbogbo Ile Oodua, without the symbolic akòko leaves? Has the Ooni abolished the use of akòko leaves for traditional installation? I think if Yeye Asiwaju Remi Tinubu feels the akòko leaves are too dirty or pagan for her beautiful head, then she doesn’t know the responsibilities that her new title carries. She needs to know that titles walk with obligations hand in hand.

As Yeye Asiwaju, Madam Tinubu’s primary assignment is the protection of Yoruba culture and tradition. It is absurd that the ultimate custodian of Yoruba culture, the Ooni of Ife, flouted ancestral protocol by failing to perform installation rites on Yeye Tinubu. When rites are flouted, history and meaning collapse, thereby negating the Yoruba cosmic order that enables birds to chirp as birds and rats to squeak as rats. Sadly, the Ooni failed to ‘se bi won ti i se, ko ba le ri bi o ti n ri.’ Gradually, the Ooni is eroding Yoruba culture and tradition by shivering before celebrities and politicians. When will King Ogunwusi shed the toga of Mister Enitan Adeyeye? Yoruba culture and tradition will not survive the brutal hammer of cash and carry; the Ooni must beware.

And Nigerians aahed and ohed when Aisha Buhari, the widow of the most greatest President in the history of Nigeria, General Muhammadu Buhari, spoke in a 600-page biography, “From Soldier to Statesman: The Legacy of Muhammadu Buhari.” Like American poet and civil rights activist Maya Angelou, who discovered why the caged bird sings, more Nigerians now know why the caged crocodile gaped.

On the home front, the Buhari presidency was far from peaceful, Aisha stated in the biography, revealing that Buhari was locking his bedroom door because he feared she (Aisha) might kill him. Aisha also said Buhari did not support the presidential ambition of former Vice President Yemi Osinbajo because the Daura general felt it was inappropriate for Osinbajo to contest against his political benefactor, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu.

In the midst of the elite confusion ravaging Nigeria, a primate, whose cap looks like the calabash used in drinking palm wine, ministered to a minister that he, hElijah, possesses God’s hotlines, urging the ministered to exchange tithe for ticket. When I saw this elite confusion, I made a quick dash for my dictionary and discovered that another meaning of primate is gorilla.

Do you know what would happen if you whisper this sentence into the ears of a cow, “Prophet Mohammed is dead?” The cow would immediately go mad and gore the speaker because the cow, until the speaker spoke those words, did not know Prophet Mohammed had died. Please, do not laugh; one Islamic cleric told his congregation this crazy tale while his listeners shouted, “Allahu Akbar!” Nothing kills faster than ignorance, not the bullet. To affirm the vacuity in the Islamic cleric’s statement, many Nigerians have since stormed ranches and abattoirs, dragging cows by the ears, announcing the death of Prophet Mohammed. “Ojise nla Mohamodu ti ku,” they chorused. What did the cows do? They looked blankly at the announcers and continued to chew the curd, wondering if Man did not manipulate his way to the top of the order of creation.

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I won’t dwell on Alhaji Aliko Dangote’s takedown of the Chief Executive, Nigerian Midstream and Downstream Petroleum Regulatory Authority, Farouk Ahmed, because President Bola Tinubu acted like a dentist exasperated by the odour from a bad tooth, pulling it out swiftly. But surgeon Tinubu should look at all the other teeth in the buccal cavity, including his own.

Now, here comes the weirdest of the Nigerian elite spectacles – the kingship ambition of the Olori Omoba Akile Ijebu, King Dr Wasiu Omogbolahan Olasunkanmi Adewale Ayinde Anifowose Marshall! Popularly called KWAM 1, Ayinde has staked his claim to the throne of the Awujale of Ijebuland via the Fusengbuwa royal family. However, his kingship bid suffered a huge setback when the Fusengbuwa royal family disowned the 68-year-old Fuji musician in response to his expression of intent. The Fusengbuwa royal family is set to produce the next Awujale of Ijebu-Ode.

In the response dated December 11, 2025, and signed by the Chairman of the ruling house, Otunba Abdulateef Owoyemi; Deputy Chairman, Otunba Adedokun Ajidagba, and Vice Chairman, Prof Fassy Yusuf, among others, the family told Ayinde that his form was curiously ‘certified by a purported family unit head, one Omooba Adetayo Abayomi Oduneye Eruobodo, on 8 December 2025, two days before your good self (Wasiu Ayinde) signed it’, describing the form as ‘presigned’.

The family said Wasiu’s expression of intent form was not signed by the authorised representative of his purported family unit. “Omooba Adetayo Abayomi Oduneye Eruobodo is not a registered member of the Jadiara Royal House, and therefore, has no locus standi to sign any linkage form on behalf of the family,” the Fusengbuwa family declared, adding that, “ Our extensive investigation has not revealed any proof of your (Wasiu Ayinde’s) membership of the Jadiara Royal House or indeed that of the Fusengbuwa Ruling House.”

Crowns and titles wrestle for space in Wasiu’s cabinet. As far back as 1993, he was crowned the Oluaye Fuji. Two years before the late Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi, joined his ancestors in 2022, Adeyemi crowned KWAM 1 as the first Mayegun of Yorubaland. Much earlier, Wasiu had bagged the titles of Golden Mercury of Africa (1986), Badabarawu of Ogijo (1985) and Ekrin Amuludun of Ibadan (1986). He’s also the Balogun of Ilupeju-Ekiti (2025), the Oluomo of Lagos (1999), among countless other titles such as Capo De Tutti.

Wasiu Ayinde’s longest-reigning hit, Ade Ori Okin, is contained in his Extended Play album, The Fuji Sound, released on August 20, 2020. In various versions of Ade Ori Okin, Wasiu tells the world that he possesses a crown similar to that of a peacock. He calls his possession a Fuji crown. He says it was given to him by the pioneer of Fuji music, the late Dr Sikiru Ayinde Ololade Agbejelola Barrister. Wasiu croons that another title was given to him by another Sikiru, the late Awujale of Ijebulan, Oba Sikiru Kayode Adetona, the Ogbagba Agbotewole II. He sings that the late Awujale installed him as the Olori Omoba Akile Ijebu, thanking both Barrister and the late Awujale as his great benefactors.

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I’ve been a fan of Wasiu since the release of his monster hit, Talazo ’84, in 1984. For his industry and creativity, I admire Wasiu, but I detest his attitude. If Wasiu must know, opinions are divided over the assertion of the peacock as the king of birds. The eagle is generally more acceptable as the king of birds than the peacock, which is incapable of flying long distances. Unlike the eagle and even the hawk, the peacock cannot fly long distances, reason why it accepted the fate of living on the ground.

The kingship of the eagle over the peacock manifests in various countries using the eagle as a symbol of courage in their coats of arms. Examples are Nigeria and the US. Nigeria’s national male football teams are named after the eagle. Yes, the peacock is colourful, but what is the use of shoes to a legless man? What does a toothless man use a toothpick to pick? What is the use of the hundreds of eyes on the peacock’s tail when it can’t fly to see the world?

The peacock, Wasiu’s symbol of kingship, is an interloper, a fàwọ̀rajà, a misfit, who pumps itself up in a pompous spread of plumage to deceive and win the crown. The peacock is an alágbe, a beggar, who having gathered enough alms, wants to mount the throne of great birds. If the peacock is sure of itself, it should fly up to the sky and show the world which schools of flying it went to, and who were its teachers? The throne of the king of birds demands schooling. The peacock should not hide behind any power because the hawk soars in broad daylight, “gbaangba lasa n ta.” Because the rainbow fades off thereafter, I’ll choose character over colour.

Our forebears say morning shows the day. It is not uncharitable to assert that Wasiu is a controversial figure. More than any of the other top Fuji artists, Ayinde has been in the news for the wrong reasons. Bonsue Fuji originator, Adewale Ayuba, is the poster boy for humility and gentleness. The post of the Awujale demands a personality with patience and humility. An Awujale should not be seen slapping people on the street. An Awujale must not be friends with people of questionable character. An Awujale must treat people, especially women, fairly. An Awujale must be decorous – he must not disdainfully address the elderly. The Awujale must not refer to the President of the country as if he was referrimng to his mate or a younger fellow. He must be courteous to the young and old. He must not look down on clerics and call them ‘Ganusiers’. The Awujale must be able to take to correction whenever he errs; he mustn’t refuse to apologise to ‘Ganusiers’when told to do so.

The late Oba Sikiru Adetona would never stand before a plane and attempt to stop it from flying. Nobody in their right senses would. Wasiu Ayinde has done so much for himself and Fuji music; the crown of the Awujale is not befitting for him because he lacks the temperament for the office. As a music superstar, Wasiu belongs to the stage, the limelight, the loud noise, the paparazzi; the palace is a centre of cultivation, good breeding and discernment.

The Yoruba have been beset with all manner of traditional rulers in the past decade. There is one king in Osun whose estranged wife caught him on camera smoking marijuana. An Osun king, the Oluwo of Iwo, Oba Abdulrasheed Adewale Akanbi, was jailed in the US for fraudulent crimes. Most of the traditional rulers misbehaving today were installed by the All Progressives Congress administrations. Ijebu-Ode kingmakers and the Ogun State Governor, Mr Dapo Abiodun, should save the Yoruba nation from the horror of seeing the Awujale singing the praises of people at parties. President Akanbi Ahmed Bola Tinubu, omo Olodo Ide, you know what is good for the people of Ijebuland. Please, do it. Don’t allow màgòmágó to prevail.

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Ortom and His 23 Cars’ ‘Bonus’, by Dele Sobowale

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Ortom and His 23 Cars’ ‘Bonus’, by Dele Sobowale

“As I talk to you, after I left office, vehicles that were given to me legitimately by government, this government went and seized them in a manner that was not befitting.” – Former Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue State

Last week, former Governor Donald Duke of Cross River declared that military rule was, in many respects, better than civil rule since 1999.

I cannot agree more.

I had the privilege of visiting about seven former military governors before 1999.

No military governor had up to 23 cars assigned to the Governor’s Office or residence.

By contrast, since 1999, a civilian governor with only 23 cars in the office alone would be regarded as extremely prudent.

Many have 50 or more.

Ortom’s 23 cars have triggered a dispute. Governors, on their way out of office, routinely take what they deem as their entitlements and thus render their states poorer than they met them.

Most commentaries on Ortom’s 23 cars have been superficial.

The impression they have created is that only 23 cars were taken away.

Nothing can be further from the truth.

Ortom was not the only beneficiary of that largesse.

It is quite possible that over 100 cars were taken away as parting gifts – with Ortom’s approval – as I will explain shortly.

Ortom revealed the hidden truth by saying, with a straight face, that the vehicles were allocated to him and other members of his administration through the State Executive Council, SEC, after they had been used for more than four years.

It was the worst defence for an assault on public funds ever uttered by a former official.

It provided a window into the minds of top government officials everywhere – irrespective of political party affiliation.

Every State Executive Council, SEC, comprises the governor, the deputy governor, the Secretary to the State Government and commissioners.

All the others are selected or appointed by the governor and, with the exception of the deputy governor, can be removed from office.

In other words, the SEC is created by the governor and can take no independent decision of its own.

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It is not an autonomous body.

Stripped of the subterfuge surrounding it, the decision to allocate 23 cars to Ortom amounted to the governor deciding to go home with the cars and getting his echoes in the SEC to endorse it.

Ortom, inadvertently, disclosed that more cars than 23 were driven home by his government officials when he claimed that the SEC allocated the vehicles in dispute to him “and other members of his administration”.

Since “the other members of his administration” start with the SEC, it stands to reason that the deputy governor, the Secretary to the State Government, all the commissioners, the Chief of Staff, several Special Advisers, heads of state agencies, etc., were also allowed to go home with cars declared over four years old – even if by one day.

Nobody has documented the number of cars Ortom and “the other members of his administration” took away. Over 100 vehicles might be involved.

That leads to the next question because it strikes at the heart of why poverty is increasing in Nigeria.

IS A CAR FOUR YEARS OLD READY FOR THE JUNKYARD?

Most Nigerians known to me, including those driving corporate official cars, are driving vehicles more than five years old.

Mine is 12 years old and can still break the speed limit anywhere in the world.

I also own a LAGRIDE taxi, now four years old.

The Chinese-made car was offered four years ago at N4.8 million, with a down payment of N1.82 million and the balance to be paid in instalments. Today, the car costs N25 million new, and offers have been made to buy my used one for N11–N13 million.

Obviously, when any government gives away, at far less than market value, to departing officials, the public loses.

Ortom’s 23 cars, as well as the others allocated to members of his administration, would have fetched almost five times what the officials paid for them.

To put the matter in perspective, Benue State would have to pay nothing less than N6 trillion just to replace the vehicles.

Left untouched is the question: What else was taken away – furniture, generators, air-conditioners, borehole pumps?

Outgoing officials are never satisfied with taking cars with them.

“Laws grind the poor, and rich [as well as powerful] men rule the law.” – Oliver Goldsmith, 1728–1774

The other half of his self-defence concerns the legality of the allocations.

That the law is an ass has been well established; so is the fact that what we often call law might be injustice codified.

Strictly speaking, everything Abacha did was supported by laws passed as decrees. Justice was never considered.

Civilian governments also make laws which are inherently unjust to the masses.

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The regulation allowing some public servants appointed by the governor to take away very useful public properties cannot be regarded as equitable, given the fact that those who served for 30 or 35 years cannot take away a single pin without being prosecuted.

What exactly does an outgoing governor want to do with 23 cars?

MEANWHILE, GOVERNOR ALIA SETS BACK DEMOCRACY IN BENUE

Governor Hyacinth Alia, a Catholic cleric, honourably fought for justice by having the 23 cars taken away by Ortom retrieved.

It is not clear whether other cars allocated by Ortom’s SEC members were also seized.

If not, the measure would appear personal and discriminatory.

It would appear to be partial justice and tainted with vendetta.

Frequently, individuals transiently invested with near-absolute power, like Nigerian governors, cross the thin line between the divine and the ridiculous within a short time.

When Alia, for the second time, blocked Peter Obi from moving freely about in Benue State, he betrayed democracy and the Constitution of Nigeria he swore to uphold.

He failed the democracy test. He even failed the test of advanced education.

His tenure is limited by the Constitution. Obviously, he will become an ex-governor one day – without armed escorts to protect him and clear the way.

He has established a precedent which will make it legitimate for any governor in Nigeria to block his right of passage.

Two examples in Nigerian history should serve as a warning to Alia.

Military Head of State Obasanjo passed the decree under which General Gowon would have been executed in 1976 – if Britain had not granted the deposed leader political asylum.

The same decree, with slight amendment, was used by Abacha to nail his former boss.

He was saved by divine intervention.

Malam El-Rufai, as governor of Kaduna State, had critics living in other states arrested, brought to Kaduna State and detained without bail for days – before media protests got them released on bail.

Today, El-Rufai is in detention by the DSS and ICPC, without bail for almost six months.

The same media, held in contempt by El-Rufai, has now undertaken the campaign to get him released.

As one of our founding fathers, Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe, reminded us before passing to eternal life: “No condition is permanent.”

Governor Alia should climb down from his high horse and apologise to Obi and Nigerians.

 

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2027: Competence, Not Zoning, Should Decide Nigeria’s Next President — Imasuagbon

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Nigerians should look beyond ethnicity, region and the longstanding debate over rotational presidency when choosing the country’s next leader, according to a chieftain of the African Democratic Congress (ADC), Kenneth Imasuagbon.

The former Edo State governorship aspirant said the priority ahead of the 2027 election should be finding a president with the ability to confront Nigeria’s economic, security and infrastructure challenges.

Speaking to journalists in Benin, Imasuagbon argued that presidential rotation is not a requirement of the Nigerian Constitution and should therefore not outweigh the question of competence.

He said voters should be more concerned about replacing poor schools with better ones, improving healthcare and addressing hardship than debating where the next president comes from.

Imasuagbon specifically appealed to voters in the South to support former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, who is contesting the 2027 presidency on the ADC platform.

According to him, Atiku has demonstrated the experience and determination needed to improve the country, describing the former vice president as someone capable of promoting national unity and fairness.

He also accused the Bola Tinubu administration of worsening economic pressure through policies including the removal of fuel subsidy, while expressing concern about the condition of roads, electricity and other infrastructure.

Imasuagbon argued that the next administration must focus on practical improvements in areas such as power, transportation, employment, security and public services.

The ADC chieftain also dismissed the idea that the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) would automatically benefit from its incumbency advantage in 2027.

He maintained that the electorate ultimately determines the outcome of an election, arguing that voters could change the political direction of the country if they were determined to do so.

Imasuagbon further criticised what he described as regional and ethnic considerations in the distribution of political appointments and opportunities, insisting that the next president should give Nigerians across different parts of the country a sense of belonging.

His comments come as political parties and their candidates intensify preparations for the 2027 presidential election.

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Lesson from Dotun Oladipo’s Brave Daughters, by Bamidele Johnson

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Lesson from Dotun Oladipo’s Brave Daughters, by Bamidele Johnson

 

I hope to grow old. I want to see my kids become real adults, find their own feet, make mistakes, recover from them, and perhaps one day complain that their own children are giving them grey hairs. I want that plainly stated before anything else, as everything that follows might read as a man agreeing to an early exit rather than a man simply being honest about the odds.

I want the decades. I want to become the grandfather who repeats the same stories until nobody bothers correcting him anymore. But wanting a thing and being granted are different things. The last year has made that difference harder to ignore than I would like. I have lost many friends recently to keep thinking that optimism is my natural resting state. Some of these men had better blood pressure than mine, better habits, better everything that is supposed to count. It did not save them.

There is no formula I know that reliably separates the men who make it to 70 from those who do not. Anyone who says he knows one is selling something. So, I do not assume that old age is an already booked destination. Even if I once did, which I doubt, the last three years have cured me of such an illusion. As such, I treat it as a hope rather than an expectation, and I have found that a more honest way to live.

It is exactly why I want something placed on record now, while I am still able to place things on record, rather than leave it for people to guess what my wishes were in the fog of a funeral week. If I do not make old bones, my children are not to be asked to read tributes at my funeral. Not one line, however short, however lovingly written.

This, for me, was settled today rather than re-opened. At Dotun Oladipo’s funeral service, his three daughters took turns to read their tributes to their dad, and I found myself watching them with awe. There was a kind of strength in them that I do not possess. It is the strength needed to stand in front of a hall brimming with grieving adults and speak about a man they have just lost. Forever. Strength, however, is not the same as ease. I could see plainly what that strength was costing them as they read. Their voices caught. Their composure held and then did not hold and then held again through sheer will.

In front of them, in the pews, men and women considerably older than them came undone in ways the girls themselves were somehow managing to resist. I went mightily close. Some of the sobbing was quiet, the type people try to fold into a handkerchief. Some of it was not quiet at all, the kind that announces itself whether or not you want it.

Those young women honoured their father with a grace that is beyond me. What they did was astonishing. So, what I am attempting is an observation of a custom I have now watched wound people. This was not the first time I had watched this particular ritual extract more than it should from people already running on fumes. I saw an earlier and harder version of it at a friend’s wake back in 2015.

The first son was called forward to read his father’s tribute, and he could not do it. He tried, but the words would not come, and he stood there in front of a crowd of mourners, with his grief simply refusing to organise itself into sentences. The officiating minister, rather than releasing him from the task, urged him to continue. I sat fizzing with sorrow and ire. He could not go on and, eventually, the minister accepted, but not before insisting a while longer than it should have reasonably taken. His younger brother was called up next, presumably on the theory that if one grieving son could not manage it, maybe another one could. He flunked it in the same way. Grief does not distribute itself more conveniently among siblings just because a programme has been printed and needs to be followed.

I have turned that memory over many times since, trying to work out why this part of the rites is treated as mandatory in the first place. I have not found a satisfying answer. Maybe it comes from a belief that a child’s words carry more weight than anyone else’s, which may even be true, but weight is exactly the problem when those carrying it are struggling to hold themselves together with nothing but adrenaline and the fear of dissolving in public.

Maybe it is simply inertia, the reason we still do a hundred things at funerals that nobody can explain the original purpose of. Either way, I have stopped looking for the justification. I no longer think one exists that is good enough to weigh against what I watched happen to that boy in 2015.

So, let this stand as my instruction rather than my preference, the kind of thing I would rather state plainly now than leave for my children to infer later from how uncertain I sound when the subject comes up in passing. If I do not get the old age I am hoping for, my children will not be asked to read a single word over my body. Someone else can speak for me. A friend, a stranger with a steadier voice and a smaller stake in the loss, anyone whose grief will not be quite so total that standing upright becomes almost impossible.

My children, of course, will sit in front and fall apart if that is what the day requires of them, but without the microphone. That, at least, is one small mercy I intend to arrange for them while I am still here to arrange it.

Dotun deserved every bit of the send-off his daughters gave him today, and I suspect he would have been the first to tell them to sit down and let someone else carry the weight for a while. He did not get a say in that, as none of us ever do once we are the ones being spoken of rather than the ones speaking. Rest well, Dotun. You raised three young women whose strength I will not soon forget. That alone says everything worth saying about the man you were.

 

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